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Joined: 12/27/2010 From: Henhouse in Trolltopia, Harleyville USA Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep i think rick1283 is making a fairly common mistake of conflating Top and Dom, but they aren't the same thing at all. Topping is a scene thing; it's the person giving the sensation/whatever but only in scope of the scene. a Dom is someone involved in a D/s relationship in the Dominant capacity. sometimes Doms top, and sometimes Tops are Doms. the responsibilities of Topping end when the scene ends (i think aftercare is included in that, if it's desired). Thank you Lilly, you are correct. I wonder how often new subs are confused about this whole question? Then again I wonder how many aspiring D types are actually Tops; you know into the kink and fun but not really well suited for the whole dominant thing. Perhaps some perceive one as being better/more impressive than the other which is sad, both are equally valuable and have their place in wiitwd.
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