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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/11/2011 8:15:27 AM   
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I'm not entirely sure what you are asking...but I think its what is the age preference of male doms...so that is the question I will answer.

First of all, let me preface my answer by saying that age (and looks/weight) in and of itself is not the primary determinant of whether I am attracted to a woman...its what's between her ears that counts. Now, that being said, yes I have an age preference...all other things being equal, I like the hotties half my age. Why? Because they are hotties, and I'm a dirty old man.

Though as my daughter gets older, the cut off age keeps creeping up ( you 18 year olds are safe now)


Arpig,

Your figured out the puzzle.......... laughs, I guess that preference makes you the classic "dirty old man"

Thanks for your input!

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/11/2011 8:18:41 AM   
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I am over 40 and far more adventurous than I ever was. I prefer men that are at least 10 years older than me, my man is 16 years older and I love it. As far as being a cougar....no thanks. I get hit on by younger men and I find no appeal in that whatsoever.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/11/2011 10:16:51 AM   
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I guess that preference makes you the classic "dirty old man"
Yup...I don't deny it. I get a thrill out being the first person to take a crop to somebody...seeing the surprise on their face when they realize just how much it hurts (their fantasies NEVER prepare them for that).

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/11/2011 10:22:35 AM   
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In my experiences the younger fems are more sexually adventursome while the over 40 ladies appear more reserved. This appears to apply within the D/s dynamic and outside of it.

What say you?

CP


I would say that your experience is severely limited to have made an assessment like that. I have always been adventursome, never reserved and once over 40 had the most amazing sexual experiences.

Reserved? Oh hell no.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/11/2011 10:50:46 AM   
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I agree...older women aren't less adventurous...its just that they have been adventuring for some time, so you have to be more creative to get their "Oh yeah? That sounds fun!" response going. They've already done a lot of the things you want to do, and they already know which activities they like and which they do not, so its harder to surprise them with something new. (Another reason I like the young ones...I don't have to spend a lot of time coming up with new ideas...maybe I should change my nick to LazyDom)

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/11/2011 12:12:18 PM   
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I always swore I'd NEVER find a woman over 30 attractive, then I dated a hawt 24 year-old in my late 30's (fucking disaster) and I got to know some of the awesome and hawt over 30 chicks here (fucking marvellous).

I'm a changed man.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/11/2011 2:16:41 PM   
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Greetings,

Sorry, I can't make that sweeping generalization. I think you'll always have exceptions on both ends. I've found that as forty comes closer I haven't gotten more reserved. It's the reverse. The bar has been raised and I won't tango with anyone that can't match or exceed my tempo.

In terms of adventure, the omission is never related to prudishness but simply because the individual doesn't trip my switch in that way. I can find a man attractive but not be boiled over. It's the ones that are capable of bringing more to the table than their whip swinging skills that will generally get my attention. You can have all the experience in the world and still be a bore. I'm more interested in the rare package than the mass produced clone.

Women often say they won't do this or that. What they really mean is that they're unwilling to do it for you. I find that when she's in the right company those supposed barriers have an uncanny way of moving. And while she could say, "I'm just not that into you to the degree of doing a, b, c", she elects to say she's simply not interested.

porcelaine,

It was not meant to be a sweeping generalization but rather a flash of my personal experiences ..groans from a long time ago and as a general rule I do not blink at anyone under 40. I agree that all the silent buttons have to be pushed before one can make to trip to Eureka. However I cannot endorse the concept of how a fem will express herself in the opening sceens of a relationship.

Thanks for your thoughts.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/11/2011 2:21:01 PM   
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Men my age are often looking for a younger woman.


sunshine,

I had to dig out your age so I could disagree!

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/11/2011 2:46:14 PM   
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awww well, why don't you come over and see me some time, big boy!

Ahhh Mae West... she was hot in her late 30's / early 40's. We should all be so lucky.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/11/2011 3:09:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince

In my experiences the younger fems are more sexually adventursome while the over 40 ladies appear more reserved. This appears to apply within the D/s dynamic and outside of it.

What say you?

CP


Not only do I disagree, but I think "Au Contraire."
It's my experience that MANY young girls (Especially in the, ohhhh, 18-22 range) are often kinda inexperienced about sex, play games about/around it (and not good ones!),don't know what they like or not, have all sorts of hang ups and "I don't knows" and often just ain't so good at sex.... while an older woman is just like, "Yep, this is what I like, this is what I need, Got a tiger in your tank, Darling? Let's go..." sorta thing.






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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/11/2011 5:29:12 PM   
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I did not become reserved when I got older. I became unwilling to do things that don't work for me with people I am not compatible with.

Which does translate to no one night stands, assuming that's what the op is really saying.  That's true, I haven't gotten drunk and gone to bed with some guy and woken up thinking "What was I thinking" in over 30 years. If that's reserved, that's fine by me.

Thanks for saving me the keystrokes!

As I become more adventurous, I also become more selective. It's a safety thing.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/11/2011 5:40:42 PM   
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gone to bed with some guy and woken up thinking "What was I thinking" in over 30 years.
That happens to me every night

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/11/2011 6:36:28 PM   
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I am sure it has much more to do with the limitations in the mind of the op than reality.

What attracts me to a woman initially is physical beauty, then the brains come into play once we are speaking.

I can't judge your brains from afar but I can see your nice tits and ass.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/12/2011 5:09:16 AM   
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Im 44, soon to be 45... and my adventurous streak hit when I was 33... and there is no end in sight. As for the "reserved" part... lol... all I know is when I was younger, I was more concerned with how I looked while I was doing "it" ~whatever it may have been~ Now all I care about is how good it feels.

ETA~

What I do find amusing is how some men.. not all... wont admit to the fact that they want that young thang on their arm as

1) bragging rights with their friends.
2) because she is so darn much cuter than her older counterpart
3) because the jiggles are just cute jiggles and everything is ... in his mind... tighter.



tazzygirl,

a great self reflection that I think has some universal truth; there is however the element of "I need to prove my sexuallity" present in todays younger females than there was back when you were worried about how you looked "doing It"

There is also present in todays "D"s what you note in 1.2.3 but methinks those are "D"s that are still finding their way on the path.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/12/2011 5:19:24 AM   
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All I know is once menopause hit... my libido when through the roof. It was always high, now it's made me a horny old broad.
the only way I'd be called "reserved" is in my choice of partners. My age range or older.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/12/2011 6:05:12 AM   
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Funny....I didn't discover the lifestyle and the whole side of myself until I was OVER 40.  If anything, I've always been adventurous......just didn't know about ALL of the adventure I'd been missing.

As far as my preference, I prefer men within the 40-50 year range, maybe a bit older if they don't act it.  I still have a huge streak if kid in me, and if someone can't enjoy the thrill of running around an amusement park, trying every coaster there, or just wandering a zoo, or soemthing like that, then he's too old for me.  The younger kids....yeah, kids....in their 20's just make me shudder when they contact me....my god, I'm old enough to be their mother!  My training days are thru......and the maturity level of the guys in their 20's just isn't right for me.  Men in their 30's, yeah, I'd be game enough to meet them and see what's up.  The only problem there is that I'm not into partying like most 30 year olds I know. I can think of many different ways to spend time than yelling over the crowd in a bar.  As far as older men....for some reason, all I can think of is my dad....and that just skeeves me out too much.  Hell, I can't even call someone "Daddy".......I've seen too much of what daddies can do to their "little girls", and just can't get those images out of my head.....occupational hazard. 

That's not to say that I couldn't be friends with any guy of any age, but the age of the guy will dictate what happens with him.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/12/2011 8:02:05 AM   
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1) bragging rights with their friends.

Actually, I'm a little embarrassed by it...we old farts look pathetic with a young thing hanging on our arm
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2) because she is so darn much cuter than her older counterpart

Yup - not much else to add to this one
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3) because the jiggles are just cute jiggles and everything is ... in his mind... tighter.
Partially...the jiggles tend to be cuter mostly because the bits doing the jiggling are cuter. The tighter...well without going into detail (cmail me ... I only charge $2.99/email for cyber) some bits are tighter...but the female body is amazingly resilient and has a habit of being tight enough for everybody's pleasure. And tighter can be annoying anyway.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 3/12/2011 4:11:26 PM   
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Are just too OLD in their attitudes and minds. No sense of adventure or fun,, The majority of those ladies live in the past and are both judgmental and very unforgiving for imagined transgressions


IB,

methinks that the above is a common thread that runs in the minds of the youth seekers!

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 3/12/2011 5:22:53 PM   
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G'day CP mate,  i agree but it is not a mind set when based on physical evidence from personal experiences.. I simply know the age groups i am most comfy with and one advantage of a younger wife is that people can relate to her as well so this effectively reduces the age limiters or gap for some too....

Arpig
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Actually, I'm a little embarrassed by it...we old farts look pathetic with a young thing hanging on our arm
, this only applies if you can't swan about with a yoiung nubile thing in tow with class and style .... Damn where is Porcelaine and her french when it is needed.. . Got to have style mate and become a stylish,eccentric old fart.. Society madams will all but throw their virginal daughters at you if they fondly think you are old money.. 

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &toilet as i ma... - 3/12/2011 7:29:33 PM   
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G'day CP mate,  i agree but it is not a mind set when based on physical evidence from personal experiences.. I simply know the age groups i am most comfy with and one advantage of a younger wife is that people can relate to her as well so this effectively reduces the age limiters or gap for some too....


That's interesting. Though I don't understand how it would reduce a limiter for some since it doesn't change the difference. Maybe you can expound? I've seen a similar idea posited from the poly side but people usually disparage that. Perhaps you can illustrate the same in a positive light.

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Damn where is Porcelaine and her french when it is needed.. . Got to have style mate and become a stylish,eccentric old fart.. Society madams will all but throw their virginal daughters at you if they fondly think you are old money..


*chuckles*

I'd verify that four generations of continuous wealth have been maintained. For a fee of course.

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