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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/20/2011 11:28:15 AM   
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Your comments about younger women and how they are more flexibile and teachable


Its more about the belief that younger women are dumber, therefore more willing to take the bullshit and less likely to spot it than an older woman.

Definitely a belief without basis, I might add.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/20/2011 11:37:48 AM   
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Males are sexually visual creatures. Any male ten and up who sees a hottie will be attracted to her and fantasy about having sex with her. It's the way males are programmed, and you can't change it. As for older males (let's say 45+) going for the younger females, well of course. Who doesn't like young, firm flesh?  Great for a short term relationships where who the other person is doesn't really matter.  Males looking for more long term tend to want to be attracted to the person as well as the body. 

I think, in general, older male doms like younger females not just for the young flesh, but b/c there is a good chance she is new and inexperienced and therefore might believe his BS.

Many males think they can slap a "Dom" label on their forehead and have a better shot at getting younger females. To a certain extent this is true, as the young and inexperienced tend to make mistakes. A very newbie sub might think that desktop Dom knows ever so much more and is such a perfect father figure. These relationships tend not to last long, b/c the newbie girl grows up.

Yeah yeah, I am sure there are young female, older male relationships that work just fine. But that's b/c its based on more than pure physical attraction on the part of the male and more than seeking a father figure on the part of the female.








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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/20/2011 3:29:08 PM   
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  I also feel no need to argue against those rationales.  In general, younger men are physically more attractive than older men.  However women - bless 'em - tend to be attracted by attributes of character - thus enabling us old codgers to compete with the younger dudes.

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I have to disagree with the bolded part. Even when I was young, I didn't like younger men. Older is hot, wrinkles are sexy, men oughta smell funny and be hairy too!

What was the question?

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/20/2011 9:54:13 PM   
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Older is hot, wrinkles are sexy, men oughta smell funny and be hairy too!
Ummm cmail me right away please...I really think we should talk.


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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/21/2011 3:22:15 PM   
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I prefer my partners 35+. I always have, even when I was 25.

I prefer high levels of stability, strength, maturity, etc. and those traits are easier to find in the older age brackets. I'm the wrong person to ask about "sexually adventurous" since I'm the weak link in that particular chain.


jeff,

Do you eyes play tricks on me or perhaps my mind, but it appears that the two statements cancel out each other.........er unless yoiur under 30?

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/21/2011 3:59:28 PM   
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Do you eyes play tricks on me or perhaps my mind, but it appears that the two statements cancel out each other.........er unless yoiur under 30?

You just have to do the math in base 8 :)

My point was that I don't prefer younger or older women. It's not a thing which is relative to me. I prefer women with certain personality characteristics that I find more commonly in the 35+ age bracket. My own age at the time of the choosing isn't relevant. When I was 25 I preferred older women. Now that I'm 48 I prefer any woman 35-60ish.


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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/21/2011 4:37:35 PM   
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Older is hot, wrinkles are sexy, men oughta smell funny and be hairy too!
Ummm cmail me right away please...I really think we should talk.



heh...

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/22/2011 1:02:24 PM   
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This thread will be locked until I can make my way through all the TOS violations, personal attacks and off topic remarks.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/22/2011 2:06:25 PM   
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I am unlocking the thread, but if the personal attacks, off topic remarks, argument or any TOS infraction happens after this announcement, there will be serious ramifications. Gold letters will be sent out later, as I have an appointment. I will check the thread before those letters go out to see if anything more has continued.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/22/2011 4:17:45 PM   
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I agree...older women aren't less adventurous...its just that they have been adventuring for some time, so you have to be more creative to get their "Oh yeah? That sounds fun!" response going. They've already done a lot of the things you want to do, and they already know which activities they like and which they do not, so its harder to surprise them with something new. (Another reason I like the young ones...I don't have to spend a lot of time coming up with new ideas...maybe I should change my nick to LazyDom)


you're hanging out with the wrong ladies, arpig. i guess that makes me an old chick with a young soul

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/22/2011 4:27:15 PM   
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  I also feel no need to argue against those rationales.  In general, younger men are physically more attractive than older men.  However women - bless 'em - tend to be attracted by attributes of character - thus enabling us old codgers to compete with the younger dudes.

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I have to disagree with the bolded part. Even when I was young, I didn't like younger men. Older is hot, wrinkles are sexy, men oughta smell funny and be hairy too!

What was the question?


Going tom disagree JAS, my findings and observations ober the last 39 years would show the opposite  But then you are (I imagine) in the US and I'm here in Australia where society worships the young and discards the old (over 40's)

Having said this, financially successful men will always be chick, magnets.. Sucess in any level is a mighty powerful aphrodesiac. Money is just the Crème de la crèm .... Fiunancially successful "bad Boys" appear to attract the very best looking women no matter what the risk.. 

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/22/2011 4:44:42 PM   
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But, you can't disagree with my opinion....it has to be right!

As for men with money, I would't know how to act around one. I been lower middle class all my life, and it suits me.



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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/22/2011 6:05:39 PM   
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I can so too disagree lass...... Just 'cause we are from  opposite sides of the social table doesn't mean we can't disagree.. I can even respect and defend your ideas too 'cause that is allowed and 'cause I want to..

Money is just stuff you can spend to get nice fings (or fangs). Large amounts of money earned usually equates to large amounts of "Pocket Money" or "Petty Cash" Money does buy power though and power is good to have in your hands or pocket.. Life shows that no one fucks with those who have power and walks away unscathed or even alive..  


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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/22/2011 8:22:30 PM   
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i have to agree with JAS all around
i haven't had many experiences with people who have a considerable amount of money that didn't involve them somehow making me feel lame for not being like them. =p they may be chick magnets for some, but i'm never interested in people just because of their bank statements. in fact, i'd probably be less likely to go after someone like that, given my bad experiences. =p

and yeah -- even when was younger than i am, i still preferred older men. my first celebrity crush was clint eastwood so...
yeah...


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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/22/2011 8:32:14 PM   
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my first celebrity crush was clint eastwood
Oh yeah! He just gets better looking as he gets older...the bastard!

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/22/2011 8:32:30 PM   
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This is kind of a redundent question by you CP...you asked not that long ago almost the same thing...

Dude...I LOVE eye candy -L-

However if you still think 40 year olds...50 year olds are less adventerous than the younger ladies...-L-

You need to find what a cougar is really...like.

The have far less hangups...

Good luck finding what your after...

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/22/2011 9:14:37 PM   
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my first celebrity crush was clint eastwood
Oh yeah! He just gets better looking as he gets older...the bastard!


i remember fondly swooning hardcore over clint in "the good, the bad, and the ugly" =p
GAWD... i don't think anyone's made squinting look so good. ^.~ haha


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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/22/2011 9:34:12 PM   
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Here you go Lilly...


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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/23/2011 12:32:36 AM   
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Can't help wondering how many females have sopping knickers right now.. Wonder what would happen if we added Bronson (Charles that is) to this mix.. perhaps this to who, with the perceived "ruggedness and toughness" (then add the late Steve McQueen to the mix why not) and you'll have perhaps a formula for older Dominants who would be "chicky magnets"


Edited to add: See mzz VideoAdminTheta I have kept it vaguely on track and not diverted too much.

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RE: Age preference of the male dominant &why? - 3/23/2011 2:15:49 AM   
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