I'm 48, have always been sexually adventurous, since the age of just below 17. And I really didn't realize all I was missing until I turned 41 and discovered D/s. I'm more open now to try new things, I am a sensual/sexual creature and age is just a number to a point. I won't date anyone near my dad's age (he's 75) that creeps me out. And 20 yr olds? Yegads, I'm old enough to be their mother.
Mid 30's to mid 50's is about my age range in who I'd like to be with. I want someone I can relate to and have fun with. I'm still a kid at heart, I may have become an adult but I sure as hell haven't grown up. What's the fun in that?
Well see.... when the spread is considered, you prefer the younger ones!!
Didn't say that. I hardly ever think of my age, I really do have to think about it when asked. So my "spread" as you call it would be more within 10 + or -. And that can change depending on the person too.
I've chatted with 20 some yr olds who were more mature than some of the men in their mid forties and older. And the opposite applies too. The attitude is what counts to me, as well as how I'll be treated. And let's face it, the heart wants what it wants. So I have no way of knowing what the future will bring.
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