stellauk
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You're curious? I hope so.
You've heard of a pack of lies right? I got something similar - a pack of clues.
No issue with the feminization stuff, and let's face it, everyone has their 'inner slut' whether they admit it or not.
But you're the one who's creating the problem by going about it the wrong way.
I mean, why bother with the computer? There's plenty of people out there on the streets, and if you're up for exchanging body fluids on the first meeting why not just switch off the computer and go out there and ask them up front 'Wanna fuck?'
The thing is the sort of people who are prepared to get it down first meeting and exchange the fluids are generally people who have difficulties understanding any word more than six letters so it really is all about 'hole', 'dick', 'shag', 'fuck', 'wank', 'cum', 'pussy', 'slut', 'tart'.
And you're there trying to complicate the issue by using strange concepts and long words such as STD testing, feminization, responsibility.
I'm sitting here wondering whether one of those other sites was Craigslist.
I know it's different in the States and much more popular, but here in London if you really want to know roughly how many idiots there are in London all you need to do is check out the personals section of Craigslist London.
I say 'roughly' because you do get one or two regular people in there who are intelligent and up for something casual. But the rest, including all the regulars are pretty much what you can regard as Los Desperados.
You say that it's obvious to you what's happened but you started the posting saying you're curious. And your OP reveals that it's not obvious to you at all.
Get with the program. The world really doesn't revolve around your dick. My advice to you is to start using your brain a lot more and forget about your dick until the time comes when you need to use it.
Generally speaking, unless you have a lot of money you're prepared to spend, the only people who can genuinely hook up and fuck are people who want straightforward plain old vanilla sex, you know? Missionary position, pure jiggy jiggy. But these are people who are thinking and using their brains.
Throw any sort of kink into the mix, whether it be crossdressing, spanking, threesomes, or feminization, and it becomes somewhat more complicated.
Things is, you understand what it is you're into, other people don't. Like it or not you have to work at their speed, not your's.
You didn't know this, so you pushed, you demanded, you expected, and it put the other people off.
Another thing is, if you're someone like you, who is into feminization or stuff like crossdressing, sissy maids, wearing panties, it's hard enough as it is to meet someone who accepts all this stuff.
You've just made it that much harder, not just for you, but for everyone else. Any time any of those guys or couples comes across someone into similar things, they're going to remember you and give it a miss. That other person might have approached things differently and be prepared to work with these guys and couples. It doesn't matter. They just don't get the chance to do so.
Now you've come on here trying to tell us that you did everything right and the other people were the ones with the problem.
Pull the other one. It's got bells on it. People here see it differently to you. As did the people you were trying to meet.
Think about that. This is why you're not getting anywhere and you won't as long as you keep on believing that this is all about you and what you need and that you are right and the other people are wrong.
Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with a bit of casual sex and jiggy jiggy, and the feminization and slut fantasies I'm sure are great and you would all have a great time.
But like, just chill, right? Go with the flow, put a bit more thinking into it, and let things develop naturally. It's not a race, not a competition, nobody is scoring points or winning medals.
That way you get people who are also thinking and who also care about what they are doing and stuff like STD tests and that won't be an issue.
It's online, and what you put out there online comes back to you.
Better luck next time, eh?
< Message edited by stellauk -- 3/14/2011 4:09:06 PM >
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