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ORIGINAL: InsatiaBULL

I have NO CONTEMPT for these foolish choices.

Instead, I feel genuine pity.

It's very easy to believe that submitting to a woman will result in gaining her favor, as indicated by some measure of - at least arousing - sexual activity for the male.

This battle has been waged since the beginning of our world.

Cliche says that: "The one with the pussy makes the rules." Yet, Marilyn Monroe enlightened us with her insight that: "Beauty is to men as money is to women."

IMHO, marriage is NOT LEGALIZED PROSTITUTION! With a prostitute, one usually receives that for which one has paid. But in marriage, the husband commonly pays, and pays, and pays...

Be strong as a man, and do NOT BE SEDUCED by sensual beauty!

Yes, serving each other in love is correct, but submission to gain your partner's favor is ALWAYS WRONG! It's deceitful.

Why do women so (commonly) HATE (their men watching) PORN? Guys can get off too easily with pornography, and what other value does a woman have, aside from her sexuality?

Sure, bearing children, being a cook, homemaker, and trusted advisor, as well as being a best friend, are treasures, but you're mileage WILL VARY!

Don't (EVER) submit to her for sex. It's a dangerous pattern to which many masculine men become ensnared...

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ORIGINAL: Lockit
ROFLMAO! Dude, if you are going to say shit like this, use a different picture! I have often enjoyed your journals and attempts to find a woman... from both your dominant and submissive profiles. Like I said... change your picture! You are showing a dangerous pattern and risk to the respect you might convince another to feel, by exposing yourself for all that you are. Talk about a picture being worth a thousand words. I will spare you the one's I could have shared.

I'm sometimes nice like that...

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
But there are people we have nothing in common with. That doesn't necessarily mean they're less than we are, although it is human nature to prefer those we have things in common with.

But I can't imagine too many people admitting in an open forum here that they view a large percentage of the other forum members as inferior beings, or that any straight male would say it was because he thinks all women are inferior to all men, which was the op's corollary. Since admitting that is likely to mean he would never get laid again.

I think to get more honest responses, this would have been better as an anonymous poll.

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ORIGINAL: SexyBossyBBW
Live Simply. Love Generously. Care Deeply. Speak Kindly.. M

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

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ORIGINAL: SexyBossyBBW
Live Simply. Love Generously. Care Deeply. Speak Kindly.. M

I can relate to that.  It's in my sig line.  And, in fact, having it there serves as a gentle nudge to me when I feel tempted to say something snarky.

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ORIGINAL: SexyBossyBBW
I should have said, and NuevaVida's sig line.

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ORIGINAL: PdxJ

LMAO - I would walk away. I'm not going to hang out and watch. 

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

But you see.........I respect very very few men.

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Oh wow......so many things I love about men.

They are less offended by dirty jokes. They don't worry about getting dirty or breaking a nail, therefore will go hiking with me. They will help me haul cool rocks up out of a creek, off of a mountain, help me lift big ones, up into the truck bed......with minimal pissing and moaning. Most of them 'get' my thing with cool cars. 'Cool' being subjective. We can get mad as hell, yell, slam things, cuss at one another....and then get over it with zero left over baggage or bullshit. They will watch boxing with me and actually enjoy it. They look good in a really nice suit. They are good for going on road trips with. Don't feel a burning need to talk all the damned time. Don't get all emotional and wonky about the need for 'alone time'.

Oh I could go on and on. Most of my favourite people are men!

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And, women who submit to other women have their own angle on sadomasochism that is usually gender-specific and sort of competitive.

The domination and submission that happens between men usually has that same underlying competitive aspect, too, that I don't think heterosexual relationships can offer.