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lovelyesme -> RE: A question for the ladies? (5/2/2011 5:42:53 AM)
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Such a question!
I agree with others-it is unwise to generalize-except to provide a rough road map. I would say it is an acquired taste in that one's appetite is influenced by one's experience. There are so many factors in play-his skill as a lover, her emotional willingness at that moment, etc. Like most people I can clearly remember my first. I had enjoyed all the premilinary stuff for a long time, and from mastrubation knew I was highly sensual. But after the Big Moment I clearly thought: Shit-it better get better than this. We were both virgins....For a long time I enjoyed sex, but no one had given me an orgasm better than I could give myself. That is-thankfully-no longer true. I think the potential is there. We are born sexual beings. But experience plays a role. Once again the nature vs nurture-in this case experience and momentary factors. I hope for both there sakes they get it right with someone, someday.
esme
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