NiceGuyNihilist -> RE: In reality, how would you know if a female is submissive? (5/8/2011 8:49:58 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Awareness ...if he's a Dom, she'll naturally respond to him. And if she doesn't, then she's unnatural? You seem to have this very outdated idea of 'Me Tarzan, you Jane'. Modern interactions between men and women are very different, to say the least. quote:
ORIGINAL: Awareness Most normal, healthy hetero women respond to dominant men. Period. Dominant and equality minded women are NOT abnormal and unhealthy. What a fine example of sexism and bigotry within the BDSM scene! Most women want relationships based on equality these days. BDSM is a subculture involving a minority of people, and M/f relationships are a subset of that subculture involving an even smaller minority of people. You seem to be living in some fantasy world where you are unable to differentiate between the desires of most women, and the minority sexuality of submissive women within BDSM. quote:
ORIGINAL: Awareness ...you don't "find out" if a woman wants to 'submit to you' by asking. How fucking lame. I see, so you are recommending that the OP attempt to dominate women that a) don't identify as submissive and b) without asking for their consent? I think your opinion of women is massively disrespectful and bordering on the immoral. If you don't respect women enough to ask them if they want to submit to you, then are you respectful enough to ask them what their limits are, or any other of the necessary information for a Safe, Sane and Consensual relationship, or is that so 'fucking lame' too? So many red flags, so little time. Thank god neither me nor my Owner followed any of this advice, cause he'd be in jail, and I'd still be single. To the OP, please, please ignore everything you are being told here, this is just setting you up to be one of those women-hating 'uber Doms' that any sub with a shred of common sense stays well away from. Women are human beings with their own desires and opinions. The best Doms I have met are totally respectful of women, and this leads them to have healthy, satisfying, consensual relationships based on trust and mutual respect. Please do not follow the awful example you are being given here! owned xxx Awareness didn't advise the guy to rape her. There are relatively moral ways to test the waters without ever asking a woman whether she might possibly, if it's okay with you sweetie, maybe like to be dominated someday. Would you be turned on by such timidity?
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