atursvcMaam
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There are.perhaps, as many reasons as there are people. some examples might be: The sub has a life you may be yet unaware of, and you becoming real might create difficulties(with a wife, SO, family or whatever your imagination might work up) it is safer, or easier, sometimes to maintain the fantasy and not let reality prove that one sounds like donald duck, or foghorn leghorn, and/or that one side or another is not quite what they had presented. In my case it was always a level of trust or straight out cowardice on my part. No great excuses, shear panic. When i became able to overcome that, things tended to work out well. I will say that my fear has been equally as strong with vanilla online meetings as it has with lifestyle online meetings.
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live hard, die young and leave a good looking corpse when you die. Love ya, but, when the zombies start chasing us, i am tripping you. The glass is always full, the question is, "with what?"
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