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RE: Pain in anal sex - 8/13/2011 3:58:28 PM

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indeed, ok thank you : ). I guess I just have to live with it then lol.

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RE: Pain in anal sex - 8/13/2011 5:10:28 PM

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For some, it gets easier/better. For others, there is always a touch of pain. Either way, I'm confident you'll work it out.

ETA.. I would not call myself an anal "expert." However, this gent {Michael} sounds quite knowledgeable. You may employ his method.

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RE: Pain in anal sex - 8/13/2011 5:11:12 PM

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hmmm... never heard of that specifically lol. Is that something like another small entry to be passed, or is that something like a sharp turn and trying to penetrate past would cause damage?

cause I've had "rape" scene before where i was pushed beyond and it was extremely painful, but there was no permanent damage

Generally, in the medical world it's pretty much thought that if you're experiencing pain while doing something to your body, especially something that it really isn't designed for, it's trying to tell you something.

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RE: Pain in anal sex - 8/14/2011 11:51:17 AM

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hmmm, yes of course windchymes, but some pain is necessary to achieve some certain goals. And, thank you for help The Shrew : ). It is much appreciated

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RE: Pain in anal sex - 8/14/2011 12:03:16 PM

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hmmm, yes of course windchymes, but some pain is necessary to achieve some certain goals. And, thank you for help The Shrew : ). It is much appreciated

But you didn't say "some pain", you said "extreme pain". And if something that you term "extreme" pain is caused by trying to ram something deep into your lower intestinal tract....common sense tells me, once again, that your body's trying to tell you something. Like, "Hey, you're about to puncture your colon!" or something along those lines.

I was having anal sex when your mother was wiping your butt for you, so I know the difference between a getting past the sphincter ouch and "extreme" pain that comes from deep inside the lower bowel. "Extreme" pain is best kept to the outer side of the body so the amount of actual damage can actually be seen and monitored.

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RE: Pain in anal sex - 8/14/2011 11:32:50 PM

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I've been having anal sex for more years than I care to think of and it's still painful to me and I doubt I'll ever completely get used to it. Then again as I've said before I'm not a masochist and I think some people just have pain with anal and some people don't. I wish I was the type that didn't.

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RE: Pain in anal sex - 8/15/2011 7:01:43 AM

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windchymes: I guess I need to clarify. The extreme pain was from the forceful scene and I'd rather not endure that again. The "some pain" is from normal play once it reaches the "stoppage" or segmoid (sp?) colon. In normal play the pain usually builds up slowly until I request the anal play to be stopped, or not attempt to go beyond that point of depth.

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