Labels are horrid things. I hate them! They mean different things to different people. There are those that say "There is no such thing as a switch." or "Switches are confused people." Bah. My point is this. Don't try and fit into someone elses label for you. That doesn't mean that a label may not fit but don't feel the need to exclude or include things to fit it. (hope that makes sense) As far as seeing the appeal but not being able to get personal satisfaction from it. Your not alone in that. Phoenix sees the appeal of being a switch for me, however; he would NOT get any satisfaction from switching and becoming submissive. ONLY you can decide what will bring you happiness and fulfill your needs. It is up to you to make that happen. Blessed Be, Nika
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"Life is neither a bed of roses nor a carpet of thorns, it's just what you make of it."
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