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RE: True submissive? - 7/27/2011 3:12:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: Awareness

*raises an eyebrow* Christ, you're easy. Like shooting fish in a barrel.

Point to me.

Oh if it makes you happy, apparently you need it, have your point and don't let those evil feminists scare you so much...

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RE: True submissive? - 7/27/2011 3:53:24 PM

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Oh, and btw, it's "Overlord Toodles" to you. I'm rethinking my stance on honorifics.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/27/2011 5:07:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: Awareness

I agree with no-one because turning a discussion thread into a popularity contest reeks of the kind of social stupidity most people leave behind in high school.

i generally agree with this sentiment; this kinda thing seems to be all the range 'round these parts lately.
however, i don't think simply saying "i agree" is the same.

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze
when you're over your fear of women.

i also agree with this. =p haha
i'm an equal opportunity agree-er.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/27/2011 5:24:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: JanahX

So, you came back just to show that you still don't know how to behave decently in public?

Thanks for the heads up.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/27/2011 5:30:21 PM

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no Im just here because they kicked me off of fet
that and I had a feeling you missed me.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/27/2011 5:44:28 PM

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Really? What was your nic?

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RE: True submissive? - 7/27/2011 5:47:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

*still likes teh W chick.. still wants to keep her*

I'd like to keep her.... here.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/27/2011 5:49:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: JanahX

no Im just here because they kicked me off of fet
that and I had a feeling you missed me.

If you managed to get kicked off of fet I wouldn't bother finding a locker here.
It is a strong possibility (and I hope I am wrong) that the same fate will happen here.

Here is a hint: if people find your behaviours to be generally that intolerable you might want to look at the common denominator.
My suggestion to find yourself a therapist still stands.

And do not worry about my feelings - they are just fine.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/27/2011 5:50:20 PM

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Okay Stevie you can have her

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RE: True submissive? - 7/27/2011 6:17:34 PM

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did somebody say something?

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RE: True submissive? - 7/27/2011 7:30:59 PM

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Got it. The message is ... "I don't gotta listen cause they were mean!!"

That is fine. You do not have to listen. All that i was trying to tell you is that sometimes the best advice that i have gotten was the advice that initially made me want to punch the person in the nose. We are obviously not the same. Again, that is alright. Good luck to you in your future.

No you haven't got it. I never said I don't *gotta* listen because they were mean. I said I WON’T listen to anyone that puts me down and calls me broken; anything they say isn’t coming from a place of concern or from a place of trying to be helpful. They’re not trying to offer any genuine sound advice. They’re trying to make themselves feel better by tearing someone else down.

So you’re telling me that you would take advice from someone that keeps saying you're a broken person, calls you names and puts you down? You're right we aren't anything close to the same person. Also when I ask for advice, I usually do listen to what is being said because I asked. I have also never felt like punching someone in the nose, even if it isn't what I wanted to hear. I love how you breezed by everything else I said. Like I did listen to people that had a point, I also said I have a few mentors now. But let’s just focus in on the jerks that came at me shitty and called me names. Ummm….err……NO!

But you can think I’m saying I don't *gotta* listen because they are mean. You seem to keep wanting to point this out over and over.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/27/2011 8:55:08 PM

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Look sunshine, i was trying to offer you a piece of advice that WAS out trying to be helpful. I was not rude. I was taking note of aggression that i felt from reading the rest of the thread, was not in character for you. Now i am seeing that perhaps that is precisely in character for you. If challenged you get defensive.

How others perceive us IS valid. It is that saying that if one person tells you that your house is on fire you can tell them to fuck off but if several people are you really should look. I don't know you bad i gotten the responses you did I would have been looking at my profile and seeing if i could see "prey". That is all that i am saying. They said it rudely. That doesn't mean that they weren't right.

I didn't respond to the rest because the rest wasn't my point. I am glad you made friends. Super dee dooper. I am glad that is all that you need for introspection.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/27/2011 10:15:59 PM

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How others perceive us IS valid

So if how other's perceive us is valid, then why would I take advice from someone I perceive to be a jerk? Seriously all I did was ask a question, I have taken the advice from the people I perceive not to be total douche bags. And it was the majority of people that were cool to me in giving a response. The rest I have let go. Why you want to keep trying to shove your opinion down my throat I’m unclear on.

Calling me sunshine may be perceived as a little hostel, what do you think cupcake?

You're entitled to your opinion, and feel free to keep trying to make me see it your way. All I’m doing is responding back to what you are saying. I’m entitled to opinion also. I'm not hostile and I’m not angry.

You also don't know me at all so you have no idea what I need for introspection. Yes all I need is a friend or two and I don't have to think at all, whatever.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/28/2011 1:40:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: Wretchedness
[...] I don't have to think at all, whatever.

Oy vey!

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RE: True submissive? - 7/28/2011 12:13:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: Wretchedness

all I need is a friend or two and I don't have to think at all, whatever. [/size]

Point taken

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RE: True submissive? - 7/28/2011 2:34:38 PM

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Judging by her posts, thinking is not her most commonly used skill.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/28/2011 2:37:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Judging by her posts, thinking is not her most commonly used skill.

I would say that defensiveness and the desire to be spechul are tied for first place.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/28/2011 3:01:15 PM

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Your criticisms of me don’t have an effect on me if that’s what you’re after. But feel free to keep saying negative things about me. Guess you have nothing better to do on a Friday afternoon. Have fun.

It does make clear the caliber of people you all are. Good luck.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/28/2011 4:18:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: Wretchedness

i’m very new to the lifestyle. i have never been with a Dom or Master. i’m a rather shy person, and am pretty uncomfortable being naked. i know that this is wrong and it’s not about how i feel or what i want. It’s about pleasing the One i am to serve. Of course i would do as i’m told.

i have a strong need to serve and want to believe i’m submissive. i feel like it’s my destiny. i am feeling a little lost to think i am not. But i question myself sometimes. Wouldn’t a true submissive not feel shame while naked at her Masters feet? It makes me think that i am fake or something. My only thoughts should be serving Him and not of myself. i know this is a strange question but i would really appreciate any feedback

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2. Search for a Dom that is compassionate and understanding
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4. Take your time, this isn't a race
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Lastly, your beautiful so why hide it.
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RE: True submissive? - 7/29/2011 4:19:08 AM

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ORIGINAL: Wretchedness

I'm not sure what he's trying to do. I will say even though I was unsure what me next step was to be, it was like a punch in the gut. When I'm talking with someone I'm not talking with a bunch of other guys too. I get invested in that person. I will say it made me think this just isn't for me. This lifestyle is the only one that I believe will make me happy. I won't do vanilla again. I being as shy as I am doesn't help. I wasn't expecting it to be easy. But I do tend to talk people at their word. I went to bed crying last night. (Stupid I know)

I’ve pretty much abandoned my fet account and am not sure why I don't just close this one. I'm not saying everyone is full of shit here. But 95% of them seem to be.

Thanks again everyone.

Look, you do know what he is trying to do, you just do not want to hear it.

Everyone gave you great advice. He sounds like an asshole who thinks putting Dom in front of his name will get him laid.

Taking on a pet? He is not even man enough to say, hey this is not working for me, I am seeking someone who will mindlessly do what I want.

Stop crying and woman up. If get this invested emotionally with people you have not met on a website and it makes you want to close down your accounts, then you should not be here.

It is not that everyone here is full of shit; it is how you allow yourself to be treated and focus on your goals that is important.

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