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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather ok buttercup, let me lay it out for you really plain and simple. what i'm going to tell you is the fucking reality of it, ok, and anybody who tells you otherwise is a fuckwit not worth the effort of spitting on. first, there's no thing as a fucking "true" sub. there are just subs. each one different than the rest. none is more or less real, just more or less right for any given individual dominant second, you being uncomfortable being openly naked doesn't make you any fucking less submissive than the slut who spends her day that way. it just means that you need to find somebody who doesn't want you to be naked all the fucking time. the two of you have to want the same fucking things in order for it to work out. third, yes it is about pleasing the one you serve, but you have to get something out of it too for fuck's sake. what you want and think is vitally fucking important. you don't need a dominant, you need the right dominant, one who wants the same sort of shit you do. fourth, only an idiot would want a sub who never thought of herself, such a person is by definition suffering from a fucking mental disorder of pretty awe inspiring proportions. fifth, this is supposed to be fun for all involved, ok, you're supposed to enjoy the fuck out of this, you're supposed to be happier doing this than not. this weird fucked up thing we do isn't some higher plane shit, its just fucking dressed up. what is happening between you and your dominant is first of all a relationship like any other. the two of you have to fucking well get along as people first, then you can add in the whips and chains. now go out and find a dominant who wants the same sort of relationship that you do, that wants to do the same sick-ass shit you do, and fuck each other's brains out happily ever after. quote:
first, there's no thing as a fucking "true" sub. there are just subs. each one different than the rest. none is more or less real, just more or less right for any given individual dominant That is not true. There are subs who pretend to be subs and there are "true" subs. The former are players and many sub men are in this category looking for an easy piece as well as subs who hang out online most of the day. The later are "true subs" who are subs body, mind and soul without even having the "right dominant" as you say or for that mater any dominant at all. Now submitting, the act, does require the "right dominant" but lack of a dominant does not make you any less of a true sub than having the "right dominant" will make you more of a true sub. Submissive is a state of being not an action. Your post is rather rude. You know, when my daughter stays online too long she gets bitchy and out of character. Just how long have you been online today? You should step away from it for a day.
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