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RE: True submissive? - 7/25/2011 10:30:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

Look if you don't want to take our advice, that's cool. I personally have better things to do than to watch you responding to those who post nastiness rather than those of us trying to help you. You're a big girl and you are certainly smart enough to recognise good advice. Take it or don't I'm done.

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*WE* doesn't exist here.

Seriously, does it matter whether Wretchedness responds to you, or other *helpful* people.

Who's to say that your advice is relevant? And why does matter WHAT advice she finds helpful? She owes you or anyone else........precisely nothing.

No-one has to take* good advice*,..in fact, half of the time the advice doled out is knee jerk, run of the mill stuff that isn't *good advice* at all. It's opinion.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/25/2011 4:04:02 PM

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I do LIKE this girl.. I vote we keep W!!!! and not the inbred TX twat!!

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RE: True submissive? - 7/25/2011 5:13:52 PM

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lol... look who's angry now.

I forgot how much fun this place can be.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/25/2011 7:11:24 PM

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lol... look who's angry now

You? But we already knew that. Try putting on your big girl panties and bring a little more to the table then a plate full of hate. It's like eating Chinese; you'll just be hungry again in an hour or two. (or is that big boy panties?)

Here's a little a game I like to play called, "got your nose". LOOK, look I got your angry little nose JanahX

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RE: True submissive? - 7/25/2011 7:39:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

Look if you don't want to take our advice, that's cool. I personally have better things to do than to watch you responding to those who post nastiness rather than those of us trying to help you. You're a big girl and you are certainly smart enough to recognise good advice. Take it or don't I'm done.

Zeph

*WE* doesn't exist here.

Seriously, does it matter whether Wretchedness responds to you, or other *helpful* people.

Who's to say that your advice is relevant? And why does matter WHAT advice she finds helpful? She owes you or anyone else........precisely nothing.

No-one has to take* good advice*,..in fact, half of the time the advice doled out is knee jerk, run of the mill stuff that isn't *good advice* at all. It's opinion.

agirl

The thing that people seem to be missing is that she is taking advice. She has changed her profile pictures and asking questions.

I highly doubt that everyone here got everything absolutely correct the first few months they were involved in this WIITWD.

She had a meeting scheduled with a guy that wanted her to dress like a slut. She wasn't comfortable so she didn't dress that way. He said he was going to punish her for that, but her gut told her that was wrong. She came here and asked. When she balked, he "dumped" her. She didn't hook up and when it felt wrong she asked.

So unless you've never made a mistake along this path, the personal attacks are unnecessary.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 4:54:04 AM

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I told her I was being nice yesterday, she didnt believe me. She should of left it at that. So all I did was respond to her bullshit. Im not being so nice right now. And as far as you speculating about my private life ... keep wondering. Sometimes I have my profile up, sometimes not.

Oh if that is your "nice" I'm not surprised that you're angry. As for your private life, don't be angry that we're not even speculating, because nobody is interested if an obviously bitter person is happy, I clicked on your profile since you saw fit to attack her, I thought I would find this amazingly wise person who does everything right - and I found NOTHING... Funny that...

As for having been nice and she should have believed you, well if for you being a belittling twat is being nice, small wonder that you hide your profile...

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ORIGINAL: JanahX
I was actully trying to give her some sound advice at first. What I really needed to say is that shes got no common sense. zero. And if she doesnt like to hear others opinions, maybe she shouldnt be laying out all her lameass laundry out on the front lawn.

Oh mind if I call you pot? And your advise sound? Oh well, maybe in your own universe...

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ORIGINAL: JanahX
As Ive read ... Im not the only one who shares this opinon. She doenst hear what she wants ... so she attacks the advice giver. Because Im not here kissing her ass & wrapping her bullshit in pink fluffy clouds makes me angry? thats fucking funny.

Ahhh so somebody chimes in with you and you feel validated, how wonderful. Sorry, but from what I've seen here, you're a nasty piece of work, but hey, you gotta live with yourself, so not a problem, just makes me wonder why you feel the need to spill it all over her? Jealousy?

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 8:24:32 AM

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truth hurts.

You are being a bitch actually.
At least it isn't being cleverly disguised as something else and since you chose to dress up events as one thing and call it truth, let me do the same:

She went to meet him and retained her dignity.
He realised he could probably not manipulate her into publicly degrading herself but tried one more time with the pet story.
It did not work.

Is that enough truth for you?

I wish you lots of luck.
Unlike the OP, it is apparent that you do have some serious issues.
I recommend a therapist. If you are already in therapy, then perhaps you need a different therapist.
Have a nice day.

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Note to Mods: I am not calling her a bitch, I am saying her behavior is bitchy.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 8:25:10 AM

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I have to say I love really like the majority of people here. Thank you again to all the people that helped me out with good advice, even though it look me a minute to stop and listen. Also for defending me to all the “little angry people”. *giggles*

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 11:12:53 AM

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 3:41:39 PM

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I think that here on the forums you have to take the good and take the bad you take em both and there you have the facts of life ... wait sorry side tracked by american television of the 80's .... anyways. I wouldn't so quickly dismiss the bitchy comments. They were delivered in a way that wasn't productive -- for you... but that doesn't mean that there is not sage advice to be had in them. (though to be honest you don't have to publicly admit you are looking at them again and acknowledging them lol)

At any rate .... good luck =)

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 3:53:37 PM

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I recommend a therapist. If you are already in therapy, then perhaps you need a different therapist.
Have a nice day.

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Note to Mods: I am not calling her a bitch, I am saying her behavior is bitchy.

If she has a therapist, it must be the same who conducted Courtney Love's anger management therapy....

As for your note to the Mods, I would, but then I would feel the need to apologize to my female dog, who is actually really nice - and has a brain!

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 4:44:41 PM

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They were delivered in a way that wasn't productive -- for you...

Ummm okay...but they were directed at ME, so if it was unproductive for me, why would I care? That made no sense to me. Also if someone comes at me in a bitchy shitty way I tend to not listen so well. Why would I think anyone that can't speak civilized to me or feels the need to put me down would have anything valid to say? If one can't get it together long enough to be nice while writing a few lines in a thread, they really aren't all that sensible to begin with.

I also don't know what, “I don't have to publicly admit I’m looking at them again” is supposed to mean? But thank you anyway.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 4:48:08 PM

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I recommend a therapist. If you are already in therapy, then perhaps you need a different therapist.
Have a nice day.

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Note to Mods: I am not calling her a bitch, I am saying her behavior is bitchy.

If she has a therapist, it must be the same who conducted Courtney Love's anger management therapy....

As for your note to the Mods, I would, but then I would feel the need to apologize to my female dog, who is actually really nice - and has a brain!

It was never my intention to insult your dog.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 4:54:37 PM

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It was never my intention to insult your dog.

She said she'll forgive you, not a lot a bone or a chewy can't put to rights

She's a greedy bitch

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 5:15:17 PM

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What i am saying is that despite the fact that you dislike how they present their advice is not to say the advice is bad. Some people here give advice different ways.. some will be kind others will be like a slap upside the head.. you may not like the slap upside the head but the advice might still be good... not all of it but some of it.

I am saying look back at the advice and see if any of it is helpful. I am not saying to look at it without looking at it as a personal attack. People here don't know you. Their style speaks more about their style than about you as you already stated. I am not suggesting at all that you would say "holy hell Awareness you said that really douchielike but you have a point ... and i don't remember his point only using his as an example... but perhaps he has a point under the roughness of his style.

Either way don't let the hostility get to you because i am now seeing you react quite hostile at the slightest deviation of what you want to hear and that isn't productive either. Keep an open mind but after some deep thought throw away what you think you can use. I am wondering how much "knee-jerk" reaction has been going on the last few days. I know that for a few days you had some rough answers so i can understand

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 5:28:54 PM

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Wow, I wasn’t expecting the things you all are saying. I really thought I was doing the right thing by facing my fear. And he did give me a chance to plead my case on the issue. I didn’t say much. I was already nervous about Friday, now I’m defiantly reconsidering this. I thought since I was submissive…..idk what I thought, maybe that he has the right to do as he wishes. I know I seem gullible and slow. I’m really just confused. Thank you all for your thoughts on this. I am very nervous what the punishment would be. And I still don’t understand why, but he also said there doesn’t have to necessarily be a reason to punish me. I do think I need to re-think this.

You really need to rethink this. From where I sit, all I can see is a trainwreck about to happen. I mean, if he says your punishment is going to be sucking his dick in the parking lot, are you going to feel that saying no is a sign you are not a twue submissive?

Slow down. Be your self. If you are faking anything in order to be with someone, how is that going to end well?

Good luck. Please listen to the advice that folks way more wise than me have given you. This dude sounds like a jackass to me.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 5:35:16 PM

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I mean, if he says your punishment is going to be sucking his dick in the parking lot, are you going to feel that saying no is a sign you are not a twue submissive?

Ummmm some of us wouldn't see that as a punishment

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 5:44:25 PM

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I mean, if he says your punishment is going to be sucking his dick in the parking lot, are you going to feel that saying no is a sign you are not a twue submissive?

Ummmm some of us wouldn't see that as a punishment

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bwahahahaha....man the memories I have from the parking lot outside the O'Charleys and the Firehouse, and the Mrs Winners, the rest area on I-75, sighs. Gawd I have sucked a lotta dick in a car! I do adore having my head shoved down in a car, just not with a douchebag like the OP was discussing.

Fuck, is it getting hot in here?

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 5:48:48 PM

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Yeah the only issue I have with that is that it can be hard to get a good angle for it. I like a bit more room.

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RE: True submissive? - 7/26/2011 6:18:37 PM

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Yeah the only issue I have with that is that it can be hard to get a good angle for it. I like a bit more room.

But Zeph, that's just it,,,, iss all in da angle baaaaaaaaaabiiiiiiiieeeeeeeeee!!!

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