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ThundersCry -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/3/2011 5:30:12 PM)
I am not sure what fake means however.... Now I KNOW they exist...

kalikshama -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/3/2011 5:34:58 PM)
quote: Note if the city and the distance don't match, they are fake. Or that they screwed up the zip code. I'm with ya on your other points, though.

Awareness -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/3/2011 11:24:12 PM)
Frogshit fuck-face (so apt), crack-whores don't get smartphones - pimps don't want them Facebooking and Twittering when they could be on their fucking back earning MAH MONEY! Men know that the last thing you want you do - if you want a woman to focus on a task - is give her yet another avenue to communicate. You're not a real crack-whore, you're a fake crack-whore, just like the fake Dom who's been whining about his fakeness in thread after thread lately. Methinks the service-top doth protest overmuch. But I digress....

Awareness -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/3/2011 11:26:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tj444 quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness And a woman without a smartphone is probably a crack-whore. Well,... I have a smartphone but where i am right now is sorta out in the acreages at the edge of the city and my "smart" cell phone reception is nil, nothing, nada. bweep bweep bweep "your phone is out of the service area".... Ummm... So.. what does that make me??? [8\|] Where the fuck is your wireless internet? Smartphones can connect to that shit.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 1:13:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather quote: Do a search on fetlife (www.fetlife.com) for groups with your town/state in the title. i suppose, if you're a fucking masochist. Hey, it's not my fault the Americans don't have informedconsent. And whatever bad experience you've had with fetlife is not universal. You get out what you put in. SubATX: for basic questions, wipipedia is good: http://www.londonfetishscene.com/wipi/index.php/Main_Page but bear in mind that it's a UK resource, so things regarding events/licensing can be different.

DarkSteven -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 4:31:13 AM)
Fella, I hate to add this one, but you're a sub male looking for women. Dominant women are flooded with messages from sub men online and have no need to contact men they don't know. If any Domme initiates contact, chances are extremely good that they're either a fake, a tribute Domme, or a shill for a website.

BonesFromAsh -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 4:44:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Fella, I hate to add this one, but you're a sub male looking for women. Dominant women are flooded with messages from sub men online and have no need to contact men they don't know. If any Domme initiates contact, chances are extremely good that they're either a fake, a tribute Domme, or a shill for a website. You know what, I'm listed as a female domme (although I'm more femdom switch) and I don't get flooded with messages. Granted, my profile is pretty sparse right now and I have "friends only" checked off as actively seeking, but in the past that wasn't always so. Even then, flooded wouldn't be the word I would use. I also like to contact folks who have interesting profiles/journal entries...including men who identify as submissive. I guess it's good to know that makes me a fake/fin-domme/shill. [8\|] OP, first...welcome. Second, if you want to make " genuine connections, and to learn about BDSM from more knowledgable members", start attending local munches and connect with your local bdsm community. That's not to suggest you won't meet flakes in RL, but you will be able to have the chance to learn by doing instead of by imagining. Good luck and have fun.

DarkSteven -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 4:49:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Fella, I hate to add this one, but you're a sub male looking for women. Dominant women are flooded with messages from sub men online and have no need to contact men they don't know. If any Domme initiates contact, chances are extremely good that they're either a fake, a tribute Domme, or a shill for a website. You know what, I'm listed as a female domme (although I'm more femdom switch) and I don't get flooded with messages. Granted, my profile is pretty sparse right now and I have "friends only" checked off as actively seeking, but in the past that wasn't always so. Even then, flooded wouldn't be the word I would use. I also like to contact folks who have interesting profiles/journal entries...including men who identify as submissive. I guess it's good to know that makes me a fake/fin-domme/shill. [8\|] There's always one exception..... OP, let me amend what I just wrote. If any message to you looks generic and is not tailored to YOU specifically, good chance it's not real.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 6:26:37 AM)
i just hate the interface on fet. it's clumsy as fuck.to use.

xssve -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 7:05:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThundersCry I am not sure what fake means however.... Now I KNOW they exist... I think the Two major varieties are webcam girls, they're easy, they usually have a website address in their intro, they tend to claim to be the perfect slut, no limits and the pic is always a nubile young women, i.e., "too good to be true". Now there are some good looking young women claiming to be the perfect slut, who are for real, but quite often they have standards, and mention them - i.e., no one over 40, etc. details like that are usually a good indicator you're looking at a real profile, even if she want's nothing to do with you personally. The Second type is the scammer, all they want is your money - if you can't figure that out as you go, good luck with that. The Third category is anybody that doesn't live up to your fantasies immediately, and without reservation, I'll let somebody else do the taxonomy on that demographic. I don't think the average crack whore would be any more likely to have internet access any more than she would to have a smartphone, you usually find those chicks back around the dumpsters behind Save-On.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 7:11:25 AM)
quote: you usually find those chicks back around the dumpsters behind Save-On. see you at 10:45 as usual?

xssve -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 7:13:55 AM)
Be there or be Jonesin' [:D]

Goodfilthyfun -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 7:45:39 AM)
I have to disagree about the phone comment earlier. I don't give out my number until I really feel like theres a possible connection with someone, and the more they push me to give it out right away, the less likely I will. I just find it rude and pushy, and that's not the type of man I'm interested in.

kalikshama -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 8:15:35 AM)
Goodfilthyfun is always welcome! [sm=welcomewave.gif]

DecadentDesire -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 10:08:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather quote: Do a search on fetlife (www.fetlife.com) for groups with your town/state in the title. i suppose, if you're a fucking masochist. The one bonus of being on Fet is that site is spectacular for finding events and munch groups. CM is really lacking in that area. The "Upcoming Events" forum here isn't utilized nearly as much as it once was. I think the last event that I actually attended that was advertised there was SELF 2010. I've done four demos in the last year that I didn't even list on CM, but they were all promoted on Fet. [GeekModeOn] Going off topic, but since we are on the subject of the pros and cons of Fetlife V.S Collarme.com, Fetlife has significantly better privacy than Collarme.com. The guy who made it knew what he was doing. For example, the way the uploaded photos are handled makes them nearly impossible to copy without the use of PrintScreen. They also cannot be indexed via normal search engine spider bots (both ethical and unethical ones). I spent a good chunk of time trying to exploit his code to download a picture and had no luck. This is why I have my photos displayed on Fetlife but not on Collarme.com. [/GeekModeOff]

quasarr -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 10:31:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather it's simple. when the real one's fuck you, your cock smells of cunt. meet them face to fucking face. it's really fucking hard for a 57 year old man to impersonate a 22 year old girl in person. Amen to that!

Icarys -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 10:38:41 AM)
quote: My question is how do some of the more experienced members of CM manage to sort through all of the fake profiles/spam/non genuine people? Eenie meenie miinie mo catch a faker by the toe if she hollers let her go. It's not very scientific sounding but it works. Edit: It also works for hookers!

LadyPact -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 10:45:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather i just hate the interface on fet. it's clumsy as fuck.to use. I'll be honest. I'm not great with it either. However, even with My stumbling around, I can manage. If I were more knowledgeable, I could probably do better. Still haven't been successful in reducing the eye strain, but that's My own personal problem.

Arturas -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 10:53:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SubATX My question is how do some of the more experienced members of CM manage to sort through all of the fake profiles/spam/non genuine people? Any tips? New and old members all have this issue. Here is a few tips from my experience since 2005... ignore any profiles that look like she is a model or Wonder Woman yet she has no text in her profile. ignore any profiles that look like someone writes english as a second language. I have used the video chatroom and even Yahoo's cam messenger once to verify gender and such before meeting, it pays off, try to look around the room behind her and see how she lives if possible. look for locals you can meet cause long distance works poorly in verifying real people behind the profile. No shortcuts, write, talk on the phone and/or cam, meet locally or in a munch.

kalikshama -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/4/2011 11:09:13 AM)
quote: I spent a good chunk of time trying to exploit his code to download a picture and had no luck Bah, if I had the link I could I'll send you a pic in under a minute if I didn't have to resize it.

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