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Epytropos -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/6/2011 3:16:09 PM)

Personally I just send them a picture of my cock - if they don't respond I assume they're a spambot and move on, if they do I start describing my favorite pornos in graphic detail until they fall in love with me. It's a pretty good system. [:D]

In all seriousness, though, I used to really worry about the identity and honesty and so forth of the people I met online and over time I have quit caring. If people want to pretend to be something they aren't, that isn't going to keep me up at night. I'm not going to spend much time pursuing a romantic relationship without meeting in person, and if it's strictly platonic it doesn't really matter to me who they are, where they're from, how old they are, or any of the rest of it. They're just someone to talk to and enjoy and if they feel the need to lie so be it. It isn't as if my real life friends tell me the 100% truth, either, after all. Everybody lies to someone.




VaguelyCurious -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/6/2011 3:17:53 PM)


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I have met fake people off of here. Faked fucked'em all.

Fake face fucking? Tell me it was fake face fucking. [:D][:D][:D][:D]




LadyConstanze -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/6/2011 3:22:34 PM)


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ORIGINAL: theshade

I think the best thing to do which has been mentioned is view posts from that person on here, also go to munches/events and meet people, truth is there is alot of fake profiles out there its annoying but no-one has an answer to stopping it, I've been on a few other sites and found nothing but chaff, thats why I joined here but still few about.

take everything with a pinch of salt I would say.



Just go and meet them or pick up the phone and call them, or talk on skype, I made several really good friends on this site, just friends but nobody was looking for a romantic involvement. Meeting people just to meet them and say hello without massive expectations seems to be a good way to go.




domiguy -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/6/2011 4:14:26 PM)

I wouldn't recommend going to a munch when hungry. All of those fat people running around in black leather.

They all look like stupid lil' tasty bratwursts encased in their natural black leather casings.




Awareness -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/6/2011 5:14:43 PM)

  I'll amend that.  A woman without a smartphone is probably a crack-whore.  Or old.  Or a Luddite.  None of which represent my target market.




VaguelyCurious -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/6/2011 5:44:47 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Awareness

  I'll amend that.  A woman without a smartphone is probably a crack-whore.  Or old.  Or a Luddite.  None of which represent my target market.

Heh.

If you say so.

(No crack, no whoring, and I'm young and pro-tech. I just...don't have a smart phone. Those things are enORmous. I'm not carrying that shit around!)




LadyConstanze -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/6/2011 5:58:37 PM)

iPhones are not that big, but hearing about the "target market" (I thought that was having a pulse and not running fast enough but nevermind) I am quite tempted to ditch the iPhone and go back to cell phones that just do calls. Some things do scare me...




VaguelyCurious -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/6/2011 6:05:48 PM)

Compared to my phone, an iphone is big.

My phone fits in my short shorts. An iphone wouldn't,




LadyConstanze -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/6/2011 6:29:11 PM)

Compared to the previous phone I had they are quite big, but the fact that I can check mails and surf the web makes up for it, I can take the dogs for a big walk, sit somewhere and watch them run around, and still have a mobile office with me and access files, makes up for bigger size. If it wasn't for that, I'd have a mobile that just handles calls and is as small as possible.




MasterdaddyDotCo -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/6/2011 11:10:59 PM)

I have found most profiles, to be more fantasy, then reality, I have always done well on this website, and the reason for this is very simple, I let my website speak for itself www.masterdaddy.com




VaguelyCurious -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/7/2011 1:03:32 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Compared to the previous phone I had they are quite big, but the fact that I can check mails and surf the web makes up for it, I can take the dogs for a big walk, sit somewhere and watch them run around, and still have a mobile office with me and access files, makes up for bigger size. If it wasn't for that, I'd have a mobile that just handles calls and is as small as possible.

Don't get me wrong - you don't have to justify yourself, because I get why people would have them. :-)

I just value my itty-bitty phone over the ability to check my email, is all. I suspect that if at any point I got a corporate job and NEEDED to be able to check my mail then I'd just get one and it wouldn't be a problem, but right now my time is my own and so is my pocket space. :p




0ldhen -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/7/2011 5:29:34 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Awareness

  I'll amend that.  A woman without a smartphone is probably a crack-whore.  Or old.  Or a Luddite.  None of which represent my target market.



Again.....wrong.....wrong and wrong.......

Not everybody is a technophile.......

I want my phone to dial....and ring...period........




0ldhen -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/7/2011 5:35:57 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MasterdaddyDotCo

I have found most profiles, to be more fantasy, then reality, I have always done well on this website, and the reason for this is very simple, I let my website speak for itself www.masterdaddy.com



Hmmm....nice bit of advertisement here........





outhere69 -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/7/2011 1:19:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Awareness
I'll amend that.  A woman without a smartphone is probably a crack-whore.  Or old.  Or a Luddite.  None of which represent my target market.

Nope.  Just refuse to spend that much for a data plan and am not obsessed with being online all day.  I'm an engineer, not a Luddite.




LadyConstanze -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/7/2011 1:27:31 PM)


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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Compared to the previous phone I had they are quite big, but the fact that I can check mails and surf the web makes up for it, I can take the dogs for a big walk, sit somewhere and watch them run around, and still have a mobile office with me and access files, makes up for bigger size. If it wasn't for that, I'd have a mobile that just handles calls and is as small as possible.

Don't get me wrong - you don't have to justify yourself, because I get why people would have them. :-)

I just value my itty-bitty phone over the ability to check my email, is all. I suspect that if at any point I got a corporate job and NEEDED to be able to check my mail then I'd just get one and it wouldn't be a problem, but right now my time is my own and so is my pocket space. :p


Actually the ability of not having one is something I envy, and I completely agree, if you don't need it for work, why the hell bother? Private emails certainly can wait until you are ready to check your mails. Somebody expecting you should have it because they think it's essential - errr yeah, whatever...




DavidLee44UK -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/7/2011 1:34:36 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SubATX

I am a new member to collarme.com and the BDSM community and have been thoroughly enjoying exploring the site over these last few days.
My question is how do some of the more experienced members of CM manage to sort through all of the fake profiles/spam/non genuine people? I am looking to make genuine connections, and to learn about BDSM from more knowledgable members, but that is difficult when its hard to determine if someone messaging you is truly who they say they are.

Any tips?


what type fake do you mean

there are lots fakes

for Instance having a profiled says you live in the middle nowhere yet more active than mr active trying out for most active man of year in activia

coming across as someone your not

a fake pic or nigerian scammer is easy to spot the ones above much harder but there just as many




SneakerWorship -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/7/2011 2:59:43 PM)

You should quit worrying about all the assholes out there and focus on making your profile reflect you and present yourself well. I'm a fucking naked as hell, doesn't mean I'm fake. But fucking A I'm not meeting anyone until I've run a background check on them. Don't be surprised if you get stood up if you have a shitload of reasons why someone would stand you up. Give people a chance, be clear about what you want. If they are fake you'll realize it after two conversations, max. If you keep getting dupped, go to therapy because you've got issues.




sexyred1 -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/7/2011 3:18:45 PM)

Sometimes I am amazed by the questions around here.

How do you sort fakes from real profiles?

Use your big head, not your little head and use this thing called common sense.

I have never met anyone who is fake. I have met people who I did not feel chemistry with. So, not fake, just not for ME.

There is a big difference. Many immature people call people fakes if they don't want THEM.




LadyConstanze -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/7/2011 3:28:52 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Sometimes I am amazed by the questions around here.

How do you sort fakes from real profiles?

Use your big head, not your little head and use this thing called common sense.

I have never met anyone who is fake. I have met people who I did not feel chemistry with. So, not fake, just not for ME.

There is a big difference. Many immature people call people fakes if they don't want THEM.



True, but there are also people here who claim to have done stuff or know stuff and then they get busted or bust themselves...




EmblemWearer -> RE: How do you sort out the real profiles from the fakes? (8/12/2011 4:18:37 PM)

Admittedly, I'm amused by the white girls who look Russian, flagged as Asian, and have the same profile description (usually offering an email address for further contact). [sm=insane.gif]




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