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Collarme Mistresses - 8/11/2011 4:09:57 AM   
NothingWithoutYo


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Status: offline 		Could an experienced collarme user please tell is it normal that a mistress ask for money like in the first 2/3 messages of a conversation? I am not a gullable person and I am refusing to send money without so much of a photo of them to verify who they are. It would be stupid of me to do so. They say they need it to show I am for real, then why not a phone conversation?

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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/11/2011 4:16:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		http://www.collarme.com/personals/scammers.htm

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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/11/2011 4:20:22 AM   
NothingWithoutYo


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Status: offline 		Thank you very much, Scam #9 - Requests for "tribute" is the one I keep coming across.

How hard is it to find a genuine Mistress? :(

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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/11/2011 4:28:50 AM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: NothingWithoutYo

Could an experienced collarme user please tell is it normal that a mistress ask for money like in the first 2/3 messages of a conversation? I am not a gullable person and I am refusing to send money without so much of a photo of them to verify who they are. It would be stupid of me to do so. They say they need it to show I am for real, then why not a phone conversation?



Fella, your entire profile reads like a bad wanker fantasy.  You'll attract the scammers and spammers like flies, and drive away the genuine Dommes.

Picture yourself walking into a cocktail party.  All the cool kids are talking amongst themselves.  If you walk up to folks and introduce yourself, telling your name and what you do for a living, you may not score that night, but you'll likely leave with a phone number or two.  If you walk up to people and tell them you're a worthless worm, they'll ignore you.

The lifestyle Dommes here want relationships with sub men.  Let them know what you have to offer - what kind of hobbies, if you have a quick wit, will you cook for them, that sort of thing.  You want your profile to paint a picture of you as a person and a man to the extent that they could read it and envision a relationship with you.  Mention your humiliation fetish, but as a side meal, not the main course.

Rewrite your profile.

Edited to add:  Also, hang around the forums and interact with Dommes.  As well as subs, slaves, and Doms.  See what makes us tick.


< Message edited by DarkSteven -- 8/11/2011 4:29:57 AM >

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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/11/2011 4:42:34 AM   
gypsycowgirl


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Status: offline 		I'm sorry to tell you this, but saying:

"Hi, I am a worthless piece of shit..."

is NOT the way to start any conversation, or any relationship for that matter.

It IS, however, the very best way to attract every scammer to write to you, from scam #1 to scam #10.

It's your own fault you're only getting letters from scammers. You've made yourself come across like someone who's gullible, brand-new, and clueless.

You should erase your profile immediately and start over in a totally different tone, showing that you respect yourself.

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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/11/2011 5:12:15 AM   
NothingWithoutYo


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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/11/2011 10:55:58 PM   
simplyready


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Status: offline 		No money at first.

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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/12/2011 5:49:08 AM   
thishereboi


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Status: offline 		Not only is it normal, but for me it is prefered. That way I know up front that I am not interested and can spend my time in better ways.

Now you say you are not gullible, yet you don't want to send money unless they provide a pic to prove they are real? Why not just follow the advice that collar me so thoughtfully provides and "DON'T SEND MONEY TO ANYONE"

Much easier that way and then you don't have to start yet another whiney ass thread about fin dommes.


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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/12/2011 9:08:54 AM   
tiggerspoohbear


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ORIGINAL: simplyready
No money at first.

No, NO MONEY AT ALL.  It's like thishereboi said, there's a huge banner when you send a message on the other side "DO NOT SEND ANY MONEY TO OTHERS USERS FOR ANY REASON!" in big red letters.  It's there for a reason, to keep people from being suckered in by scammers.  If you're still silly enough to send money after seeing that, or somehow missing it, then you've got serious reading comprehension skills.  Bejeeezus, this ain't rocket science.  


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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/12/2011 12:20:42 PM   
MissToYouRedux


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ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

...  Bejeeezus, this ain't rocket science.  



Apparently for some it is!

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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/12/2011 12:48:00 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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ORIGINAL: MissToYouRedux
quote:

ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear
...  Bejeeezus, this ain't rocket science.  

Apparently for some it is!

Damn, thanks for reminding me, sometimes I forget that!


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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/12/2011 8:48:11 PM   
AcademyForSlaves


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Status: offline 		It depends how you come across. If you act like a customer and send her a list of your wants then a Mistress might treat you like a customer and send you the bill for such services. On the other hand if you apply telling a Mistress you sincerely want to serve her by unselfishly doing whatever she asks of you and that you want to be a fulltime lifestyle slave (not a one hour session or weekend stay) then the Mistress knows you are not a "session slave" and will not treat her like a prostitute. Also, explain right away you do not want to pay money but are willing to serve her in other ways. For example, I own many slaves who cannot "tribute" financially but serve Me in a number of other ways.

Hope this helps.


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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/13/2011 9:33:20 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		DO NOT SEND MONEY UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES REPEAT DONT SEND MONEY PERIOD!
from one who knows
kevin

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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/13/2011 9:37:32 AM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

DO NOT SEND MONEY UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES REPEAT DONT SEND MONEY PERIOD!
from one who knows
kevin





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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/13/2011 12:29:57 PM   
tiggerspoohbear


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ORIGINAL: sirsholly
quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery
DO NOT SEND MONEY UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES REPEAT DONT SEND MONEY PERIOD!
from one who knows
kevin



Nah Holly, this deserves at the very least. 

< Message edited by tiggerspoohbear -- 8/13/2011 12:30:35 PM >

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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/13/2011 1:28:27 PM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		The mind boggles at the idea of Kevin spending money on a woman, I sincerely hope she didn't spend it all in one place and bought herself something extravagant like a lollypop!

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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/14/2011 1:56:55 AM   
lobodomslavery


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Status: offline 		i would buy you a lollypop any day of the week. What is your favourite flavour Lady Constanze. Would you like me to send it by airmail. And finally have you a partner or a hubby as I would love to send him one too. What is his favourite flavour
kevin

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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/14/2011 3:05:01 AM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Excelllent.

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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/14/2011 3:08:39 AM   
GeekMistress


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Status: offline 		I see so many posts about scamming Dominant women that I wonder if I'm doing something wrong by NOT demanding cash. :-D

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RE: Collarme Mistresses - 8/14/2011 3:43:50 AM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		LOL, I made a blog post about not contacting me about presents and stuff and if somebody really wants to do that (you always get the odd one) to give something to charity, as you can guess, they claim they want to send me presents...

Maybe I can find the wish list of a child charity or something like that and claim it's my own and they "tribute" them?

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