Endivius -> RE: Not a sucker (9/11/2011 11:56:12 PM)
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There is nothing wrong with not being interested in oral. In my mind, you have your limits and that's the way it is. Some are opposed to anal, some needles, some being tied up, and so on. What you are comfortable doing is all that matters. If you want to be able to perform this on a master that is a choice for you to make, and certainly a good D in my personal opinion, would work towards helping you achieve that while respecting your struggle. Pushing limits is about communication and being trusting of eachother. If it's simply not something you are interested in doing, then so what! Don't do it. Period. There are men who would be fine with never recieving a blow job, although I'm certain if you were able to overcome this internal struggle for a special someone (and it would most definitely require someone special) then that bond between you would be even greater. It shows your willingness to please, and his willingness to be patient and understanding of your strengths and weaknesses. If you are simply not interested in doing it, and it is indeed a hard limit, then so what! Be yourself, follow your insticts, don't be affraid to challenge yourself, but do not do anything you do not want to do. The whole purpose of discussing hard limits, is to find out where your boundaries are in and out of the bedroom, and building your relationship within them.
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