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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

However, you have to admit you would be one of those very rare clients that would probably make the stripper in question wonder why someone as much a "gentleman" as you is there at all. 

Honestly, NS - I'll assume that it was inadvertent on your part - but please, please try not to mould this into some moral thing. Hinting that I'm a 'gentleman' sets me up as someone on his high horse, just ripe to be knocked off it by those who are more 'righteous'. I *really* can't be arsed with engaging in that kind of argument.

I know a woman - the daughter of a good friend, in fact (and, yup, that makes it difficult) who's a stripper. She told me that she gets what sounded like more of a subby buzz out of stripping than a dommy one. I told her how it worked for me, how strippers turn me on . . . and she got it. She knew my type. No, I'm no gentleman in all this. I'm just a different kind of a lecher, leching from a different place.

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WHORE -noun -
1. a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.

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ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker
What you have to wonder is what percentage of men go into a strip club with your mindset.  I'm going to be daring and guess very little if any at all.  A majority of what strippers deal with are perverted men of varying ages and the occasional bachelor party.  None of those men are looking for the stripper's best interests.  She may as well be a vending machine that you slip a $20 and she sways around seductively for your eyes. 

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

Peon, I hate to interrupt but I made lasagne and we got plenty left over, H said to tell you and see how quick you could make down here. And I bought about 6 kilos of very ripe tomatoes which are now reduced to soup, sauce and pesto, we shall freeze in some until you stop by next time...

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Here is the dictionary definition of a whore. I hope this clears up any confusion on the matter.

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ORIGINAL: roguekittie

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WHORE -noun -
1. a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.

Here is the dictionary definition of a whore. I hope this clears up any confusion on the matter.

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ORIGINAL: roguekittie

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WHORE -noun -
1. a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.

Here is the dictionary definition of a whore. I hope this clears up any confusion on the matter.

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ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby

A lot of people that have most likely never GONE TO a ProDomme or ever BEEN a ProDomme sure seem to think they know a helluva lot about ProDomming.

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ORIGINAL: Hisprettybaby

A lot of people that have most likely never GONE TO a ProDomme or ever BEEN a ProDomme sure seem to think they know a helluva lot about ProDomming.

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Nice, now if she doesn't do it for money or happens to be male and doesn't do it for money, do the same terms apply or shall we just say "STUD"? Or shall we just pretend it's perfectly fine if a guy has sexual desires but a woman has to be pure and revert back to Victorian times, just so there is no confusion for the reactionaries? Couldn't have anything like women being sexual beings or - heaven forbid - actually enjoying being sexual creatures, must revert to outdated dictionary definitions so sexually frustrated females can feel much better and males can feel superior... Ding dong, wake up, 21st century, and the coffee machine is over there, get your own coffee...

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A lot of people that have most likely never GONE TO a ProDomme or ever BEEN a ProDomme sure seem to think they know a helluva lot about ProDomming.

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Yes, the customer may be getting sexual thrills out of it, BUT if there is no sex actually taking place, then she is not a prostitute.

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ORIGINAL: roguekittie

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Nice, now if she doesn't do it for money or happens to be male and doesn't do it for money, do the same terms apply or shall we just say "STUD"? Or shall we just pretend it's perfectly fine if a guy has sexual desires but a woman has to be pure and revert back to Victorian times, just so there is no confusion for the reactionaries? Couldn't have anything like women being sexual beings or - heaven forbid - actually enjoying being sexual creatures, must revert to outdated dictionary definitions so sexually frustrated females can feel much better and males can feel superior... Ding dong, wake up, 21st century, and the coffee machine is over there, get your own coffee...

What are you even talking about? I never said anything about morality. I am talking about the literal definition of a woman who takes money for sexual acts. Its the 20th century, perhaps you should start associating different feelings for the word. The word merely reflects the definition, and that will never change, whether you like it or not. There is nothing to even argue, a whore is a whore

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

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You're calling all pro dommes prostitutes. That is a mistaken belief.

no its not, they provide a sexual service in exchange for money, they are prostitutes.

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t would be OK to call you a whore because you charge for services, assuming you work and you are not a a kept woman? Unless of course you would work for free? Which would make you what? A slut or a charity worker...

Do you think bondage is a sexual act? Whipping is a sexual act? I guess that can be seen as such depending on the mindset of the person buying the services, but then a guy who gets off buying a burger from somebody wearing a fast food uniform would magically turn the fast food worker into a prostitute or - as you charmingly phrase it - a whore.

For the record, I work in PR, I have a PhD, and most of the advertising is a lot more sexual than what a pro domme does - how much do you actually know about pro domming apart from dictionary definitions and the mistaken idea that we are still living in the 20th century? I think you missed the last decade of wake up calls, darling, and a clueless idiot is still a clueless idiot in the 21st century.

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather

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Yes, the customer may be getting sexual thrills out of it, BUT if there is no sex actually taking place, then she is not a prostitute.

bullshit and you fucking well know it. its the fucking sex trade, and they are sex workers, so they are prostitutes.