MstrssScarlet
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Joined: 6/3/2005 From: Indianapolis, Indiana Status: offline
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Looks like this thread took a totally different turn after I left. Here are some points that you need to understand: I said right up front that I got to know what my clients liked and always worked hard to incorporate that into the session. I felt they had a better time if they gave into the ILLUSION that I was in charge, and they did. This was not rent money. This was a sideline that I did for fun. I enjoyed the variety, not to mention getting paid to do what I enjoyed. It was work, but work I loved. I have already stated that I always gave my clients a second chance (and sometimes more) if they had a bad habit of topping from the bottom. I knew they would enjoy it more if they would just go with the flow, but sometimes it took some convincing. Lastly, I did not mention one important thing. He was always pushing for things that were sexual in nature. That was a hard limit for me and I told him so many times. He would always deny it of course, but if I followed his "script", that's where it always lead. If I knew another pro domme that I trusted, I would gladly have referred him to her. I don't happen to know of any who don't "milk" their clients, asking for money even when they're not in a session. Sending people to a bad pro domme would only have made my reputation worse, not better. And lastly, there are different categories of pro dommes. Some are in it for the money and that's it. They will take on any client no matter what. Some of us are not in it JUST for the money. We enjoy what we do and when we come across one client in 50 that just pulls us down every time we see them, it's time to let them go. The clients that I did let go invariably called me back later complaining about their experiences with another pro domme (or two) and asking to come back. I am VERY aware that as a pro domme you take the sub role, but if you act like it they may as well go to one of their sub friends and hand them a script. Very unfulfilling. Mistress Scarlet
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"Say, that hurts a little bit" "And you don't like to be hurt do ya?" "I don't know...kinda fun sometimes if it's done in the right spirit." Jean Harlow in The Beast of the City
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