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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

yeah but when you meet people, you don't just wear any old outfit, do you? you don't throw on dirty sweats and a stinky yoga tank and show up. =p you take a shower, fix your hair, and wear something flattering -- that's a strategy to represent yourself positively.
do you have any push-up bras, or jeans with tummy control panels? you may not, but lots of others do. =p do you wear high heels or any makeup at all? that's not JUST about aesthetics, it's a strategy for looking your best, however you define it, and a strategy for attraction.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
Eventually we'd meet..although with Master I really had zero interest in him for two years of him sending me emails late at night

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
Eventually he asked if we'd like to meet for coffee.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
But hey if a strategy works for you then good luck. But it doesn't seem like it has.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder
It just happened that I found Master really hot when we met which sealed the deal. lol

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even if i was going to the library

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ORIGINAL: DomThoughts

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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

no, you don't "owe" anyone a response, but out of common courtesy, is it really that hard? if you say "No thanks," and they're obnoxious in response, okay sure, have a "block" party. but up until then, it's a lot of assuming the worst, and that doesn't make sense to me.

Obviously I agree with the top bit, but nobody likes a kiss ass. (actually, in this place, that doesn't seem as true)

I think that is actually a point, I can kinda understand a Deleted Unread' thing, I know how women's inboxes get sometimes, its often easy to select all and delete. (I'll often cut / paste the same message again a couple of days later in that case! - it sometimes works)

the ones that do slightly rile me, is when a polite, intelligent opening message is sent, referencing aspects of the profile, and it is read and ignored. Is it so difficult to do a 'thanks but...'

(and step down from the soap box)

(think it would improve my response ratio if I stop sending messages to lesbians? - asking for luke warm cam sex!)

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think it would improve my response ratio if I stop sending messages to lesbians?

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ORIGINAL: SweetCheri



I think everybody does this when they are trying to spark something.

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ORIGINAL: SweetCheri

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think it would improve my response ratio if I stop sending messages to lesbians?

Yes. Unless it is a name I know from the boards I almost always delete unread any message from a man. I will usually do the hover thing and if the little I can see doesn't interest me for some reason, either it has to do with something I posted or it is worth a funny reply, I just get rid of it.
CG

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ORIGINAL: SpanishMatMaster

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ORIGINAL: AdorkableAiley
Wow, that sounds like a whole lotta work there. I just clicked gender, put in an age range, general area and side of the / I wanted them to be on and tada, a group of men that fit the general idea of what I was looking for appeared. The hide profile button worked wonders for the ones I was not interested in... This was how I found C and I couldn't be happier. Your way may work, but it sure sounds like a whole lotta complicated to me.
Ailey

This is the reason why I told in the OP that this message is mostly for dominant males. The proportion of male / female here must be around 20 to 1. If I were a submissive girl I would have not searched at all. With a good profile is enough. You get hundreds of messages just being there. You need a strategy to get rid of as many of them as possible, not a strategy to find somebody.

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ORIGINAL: masternoname
Well I am a dominant male and I agree with her. sounds like a lot of work. you also have to understand that a lot of girls are going to look at your forum posts. Why would they want to hook up with a man who get so upset so easily? Why would they want to hook up with a man who can't accecpt advise from others? Sorry dude, but you shoot yourself in the foot every time you post over here.

• I also agreed with some things said by females here, that's not a problem.
• Yes, it is a lot of work. I consider it necessary.
• No, I disagree that a lot of girls are going to see at my forum posts. Please compare simply the number of introductions per day with the new members per day ~ the first number is about 8. The second is about 500. Even if both metrics are not exact, they give the right impression: the most people using the system never visit the forums.
  
• I do not get upset easily :) But hey, some girls actually want aggressive men here, with "bad temper" for example (literal).
  
• I accept advice from others. I can give you samples from this thread. I just don't appreciate being insulted.
  
• I understand your general opinion about me but I just disagree :) . I may be difficult and sometimes arrogant, but nothing compared to the bunch of bored parrots which has accumulated here.
  

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Awareness has a buddy now, Doh!

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ORIGINAL: SpanishMatMaster

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ORIGINAL: masternoname
Well I am a dominant male and I agree with her. sounds like a lot of work. you also have to understand that a lot of girls are going to look at your forum posts. Why would they want to hook up with a man who get so upset so easily? Why would they want to hook up with a man who can't accecpt advise from others? Sorry dude, but you shoot yourself in the foot every time you post over here.

Hello, masternoname.

• I also agreed with some things said by females here, that's not a problem.
• Yes, it is a lot of work. I consider it necessary.
• No, I disagree that a lot of girls are going to see at my forum posts. Please compare simply the number of introductions per day with the new members per day ~ the first number is about 8. The second is about 500. Even if both metrics are not exact, they give the right impression: the most people using the system never visit the forums.
• I do not get upset easily :) But hey, some girls actually want aggressive men here, with "bad temper" for example (literal).
  
• I accept advice from others. I can give you samples from this thread. I just don't appreciate being insulted.
  
• I understand your general opinion about me but I just disagree :) . I may be difficult and sometimes arrogant, but nothing compared to the bunch of bored parrots which has accumulated here.
  

Thank you for your interest and your answer.
Best regards.

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ORIGINAL: JanahX



A & SM sitting in a tree .. K-I-S-S-I-N-G

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No, I disagree that a lot of girls are going to see at my forum posts. Please compare simply the number of introductions per day with the new members per day ~ the first number is about 8. The second is about 500. Even if both metrics are not exact, they give the right impression: the most people using the system never visit the forums.

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Active Users: There are 363 members and 19392 guests.

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ORIGINAL: HannahLynn

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No, I disagree that a lot of girls are going to see at my forum posts. Please compare simply the number of introductions per day with the new members per day ~ the first number is about 8. The second is about 500. Even if both metrics are not exact, they give the right impression: the most people using the system never visit the forums.

yea, yet at the bottom of the page it says.

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Active Users: There are 363 members and 19392 guests.

do you think somebody should let stumpy there know, or do we just let him carry on in blissful fucking ignorance?

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ORIGINAL: SpanishMatMaster

tj, if I would consider that you have something real to say, I would not hide you, but as it is... goodbye, ok?

I mean, for God's fucking sake, you start saying that I am not what I am professionally? Call www.eureka.de and find out. Ask the the head of software development.
And the rest is just stupid attempts to attack me... yes, a lot of guests, and what? How many registered members in the site? I compared more or less comparable numbers, you just try to attack with no sense.
This is absurd, it makes no sense to read you. Go troll someone else.