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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:00:42 AM

GreedyTop

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jeez, Kana.. quit making it sound so.. reasonable! LOL

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:02:04 AM

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Funny thing. I looked for folks that sounded intriguing, then treated em like human beings and tried to make em laugh, show a certain elan/je ne sais quoi.

Worked like a champ for this cat.

see, Kana has a sizeable troupe of fangirls for a reason -- please take this advice.

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:03:23 AM

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LillyBoPeep, I agree with some things you said, I appreciate your intentions, I disagree with many and I think for good reasons. But I am not interested on discussing this. As simple as this. I think nobody can force me to debate, ok? Can you respect this?
If you decide that you are so - so - so curious about my answer that you really, really need that I tell you why I disagree and on what, then open a new thread in a proper section and tell me. And I will answer.
But I doubt it.

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:03:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

Funny thing. I looked for folks that sounded intriguing, then treated em like human beings and tried to make em laugh, show a certain elan/je ne sais quoi.

Worked like a champ for this cat.

see, Kana has a sizeable troupe of fangirls for a reason -- please take this advice.

He can't, and won't. SMM blocked me a few threads back for calling him out on something.
His loss.
:-)

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:06:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep
please take this advice.

Am I doing you a favor then? It makes no much sense, IMO. Nonetheless... ditto. If you are really so interested on debating with me why I agree or disagree with you on specific points, please open the thread. I stop reacting here, ok? It is off topic.

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:06:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: SpanishMatMaster
If anybody can help me to improve the algorithm, welcome. If anyone can use some of this for herself, I am glad.

Best regards.

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ORIGINAL: SpanishMatMaster

I haven't decided that. And I am asking for input. But please be so kind to check the name of this section. Thank you.

If you were trying to designate this as a male only thread, then why, in your first
referenced quote, would you suggest that it may be useful to women?

In reference to your strategy, I would like to comment that there is one other feature
on every profile that many of us use, and that is Read Forum Posts.

It matters little how well written your profile is, or how thoughtful your photos are.
Profiles are mostly used as a selling point, and are very self serving in that regard,
meaning anyone can write jack shit and make it look appealing.

If, for example, I read your profile and found it interesting, I would then click on
your forum posts, and would then immediately scratch you off my list.
One of the necessities in any relationship is good communication, and while you may
write well, you aren't open to others thoughts or ideas, and that's not very inviting.

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:09:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: poise
If you were trying to designate this as a male only thread, then why, in your first
referenced quote, would you suggest that it may be useful to women?

Because I am absolutely used to non-discriminating pronoun use. That was the only reason. And yes, it was an error.
The rest, please apply my answer to LilliBoBeep and to myotherself.

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:16:15 AM

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I had an idea:

I APOLOGIZE FOR HAVING WRITTEN "HER" IN THE ORIGINAL POST

I HUMBLY REQUEST EVERY FEMALE OR SUBMISSIVE OF ANY GENDER TO IGNORE THIS THREAD

Any posting from anybody who is not a male dominant will be ignored.

I can explain the reasons if I am asked respectfully per PM.

Thank you for your attention.

So, I hope this makes us all waste less time.

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:18:04 AM

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5. On contact, the first thing I ask is for a webcam contact, face to face, at home.

I make a reference to her profile. This is to be sure that the profile is related with the person with this ID, and also to help me search the person I am communicating with in collarme.com later.

If they do not have and do not seem to be having, I say bye. If they also indicate money problems for it and/or come from Africa or Phillipines, they are reported as scammers. Sorry if I denounce some innocent girl, she should have read my profile.
"I am going to have" or "I am going to be at home later" means that I respectfully indicate that she should contact only when she is at home and has got the cam.
Once seeing her, I make her made a sign with her hands or hair. This is to check if the image is a stream taken from somebody.
Extra security: A photo holding my name in a paper on her hands. Photoshopping that is really, really hard.

Ick.

Not debating. Just sayin'.

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:18:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: SpanishMatMaster

I had an idea:

I APOLOGIZE FOR HAVING WRITTEN "HER" IN THE ORIGINAL POST

I HUMBLY REQUEST EVERY FEMALE OR SUBMISSIVE OF ANY GENDER TO IGNORE THIS THREAD

Any posting from anybody who is not a male dominant will be ignored.

I can explain the reasons if I am asked respectfully per PM.

Thank you for your attention.

So, I hope this makes us all waste less time.

all that and a bag of chips, huh..

*giggles*

THE DOMLYONEMASTERTHATALLSHOULDASPIRETOEMULATE has spoken!!!

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:19:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SpanishMatMaster

I had an idea:

I APOLOGIZE FOR HAVING WRITTEN "HER" IN THE ORIGINAL POST

I HUMBLY REQUEST EVERY FEMALE OR SUBMISSIVE OF ANY GENDER TO IGNORE THIS THREAD

Any posting from anybody who is not a male dominant will be ignored.

I can explain the reasons if I am asked respectfully per PM.

Thank you for your attention.

So, I hope this makes us all waste less time.

Double Ick.

Just sayin'.

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:34:42 AM

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You come across as a pompous, arrogant bastard, who no one in their right mind would want to work or socialize with.

If you were a super hero, you'd be "Anal Retentive Man."

Which is why, I assume, you are online instead of pursing Munich's active real time scene, you've already failed there.

Evidently, being an anal retentive, domineering, super control freak makes you think you are some uber alpha dom. But you can't play nice with others, big fail. Although you may very well be dominant in personality, those traits don't make you a good dominant or good relationship material.

I'd work on that first, then try tweaking the profile.

Just saying, feel free to put me on hide now.

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:35:31 AM

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jeez, Kana.. quit making it sound so.. reasonable! LOL

(scritches to the furryone)

The li'llest furry one meows back. (She's needy and talkie but she just got a new 5 story cat tower that she thinks is the coolest thing since sliced mouse so I'm all aces with the furballs right now)

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:36:29 AM

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maybe we should all just put the fucker on hide.

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:39:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

jeez, Kana.. quit making it sound so.. reasonable! LOL

(scritches to the furryone)

The li'llest furry one meows back. (She's needy and talkie but she just got a new 5 story cat tower that she thinks is the coolest thing since sliced mouse so I'm all aces with the furballs right now)

ooooh.. I saw one of those towers I wanted to get for my furballs.. but CRIPES!! I could pay my rent with that money!! LOL

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:40:37 AM

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Strategies are great. Only thing they can not take into account is chemistry. It knows no rhyme or reason.

Why not just enjoy life and be ya self and realize that stuff happens when it is supposed to? Throw ya strategy in the garbage, where it belongs.

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:40:39 AM

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maybe we should all just put the fucker on hide.

where's the fun in THAT, Heather!!?
(J/K!! LOL)

This way, we get to have convos around him!

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:42:31 AM

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or make some male dom socks and give him really fucking bad advice.

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:44:35 AM

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1. If I were a submissive girl I would have not searched at all. With a good profile is enough. You get hundreds of messages just being there. You need a strategy to get rid of as many of them as possible, not a strategy to find somebody.

Sure we get 100s of messages but 99.9% are from wankers who haven't even read our profiles. Before I deleted my last profile it read simply that I had created a new profile and would soon be deleting that one. I can't count how many messages I got from men saying they read and loved my profile and that they are convinced we are right for each other. So yeah we still have to look.

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RE: Strategies - 10/16/2011 6:47:14 AM

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