MistressLilliana -> RE: Strategies (10/16/2011 7:24:12 PM)
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There are a few points in your post which cause me some issues on my end but of course it is only my opinion. First of all, with the way you put things such as you blocking American Americans (whether or not they are your thing) and other ethnicity because they tend to be scammers is very judgmental and stereotypical. I may be Caucasian but even I was slightly offended by this. Also, I agree with so many others on here that I don't ever go on cam because of how many people abuse it, not all but many and it's just not worth the hassle. To add to the list, I do not appreciate immediately being asked about sexual preferences or "abilities". I will list what I am into on my profile but when I first communicate with someone I like to get to know them as a person not just the sex aspect. Of course I'm looking for something more serious and not just for play so I guess that makes a difference. Also, instead of blocking someone because they say they don't like something you really do why don't you get to know them first. If they trust you enough and your willing to take things slow with them they might just open up to that one thing they thought they were against. For example: I'm talking to a slave that I'm hoping will work out and he happens to enjoy having his Mistress use him as a toilet. This isn't something I've ever done and the thought of doing it doesn't excite me at all BUT it is the only thing I've found so far that we don't have in common. Though he is more than willing to forget about it because it doesn't please me and sacrifice that enjoyment, I told him that, should everything work out and trust is established, I see no harm in trying it at least once. If I find I enjoy it then great, if I don't then he knew ahead of time and no harm done. Like with any relationship there are compromises. If you aren't willing to accept this and hope that there is a "perfect" person out there then I wish you luck because I don't think any two people are exactly alike.
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