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ORIGINAL: twistedom

Psychologically I meant believed by professionals to be a cause or a factor. Wasnt stating as a fact but as a possibility. Who stands up for the kid being bullied? Not many because it's not them being harassed. I will say there are probably just as many overweight men as women here. I think had this been any other thread directed at a group of people like lesbians, gay men,underweight, bisexual, the other fetishes that are more common then most of you wouldn't have replied. Since you fit the topic you object. I have had multiple members of both sexes message me they didnt want to become part of the attacking fest but that they notice the trend too etc

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Is some slender attractive woman going to care what somebody says about heavy set women? Probably not. Doesn't really pertain to her.

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I didn't make the posts before me discussing this and wont be the last to make one.

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Status: online Well that's awesome. You all can think what you want of me.

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ORIGINAL: Delilya

I must admit some curiosity as to how many of the Twiggy camp men are over checking out the bodacious boobies thread.

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My post was simply a realistic question that obviously from some of the replies and prior threads has been thought of before. Call me what you want. I didn't make the posts before me discussing this and wont be the last to make one.

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On the other hand, we occasionally have threads about the reasons people have the BDSM orientations that they do, and it seems the consensus is usually, nobody knows for sure.

really? i would have thought it was fucking obvious why?

we're fucking sick bastards, we're all fucked in the head, that's why.

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ORIGINAL: twistedom
I really don't have time to go back and read 18 pages of replies
Really you should try. There were a lot of good points made. Unless, of course, you don't care.

and respond to those which were directed at me. Not all were. But some. Since my post It has made me think about the audience here of my post. I also don't have time to view each individual profile but would consider all the attacking defensive replies may fit into the body type I described.
And why would that necessarily be? Is it because you can more easily dismiss some good points that were made just because some fatties made them? I care about bias and misconceptions being directed at people who are not fat white women in their 50s. Just because someone doesn't belong to a certain group, it doesn't mean they don't care how that group is treated.

Is some slender attractive woman going to care what somebody says about heavy set women? Probably not. Doesn't really pertain to her. Maybe some here and there but as a whole no.
See my previous comment. Ditto.

It's kind of like going down by the Mexico border trying to tell people why they don't need to come to America, walking into police station and trying to convince officers of the law they violate citizens rights all the time even when there is proof all over the country every day.
No, actually, it's not the same. Simply telling someone they don't need to come to another country is not the same as spreading misconceptions about rape and an entire group of people.

Your not going to win.
Oooooh. So that's the real point of this thread. You don't really want a discussion to satisfy your curiosity because you are "rather curious why this and other sites seem to be widely populated by those types of women," to use your own words. You just want to win, presumably by forcing everyone here to agree with your biases and misconceptions.

So I have realized no group of BBWs, overweight, whatever term you prefer isnt going to just agree.
I'm sure we won't agree with inaccurate biases and misconceptions. BBWs know themselves and their experiences better than you or any non-BBW ever will.

I think a lot of things I said were taken out of context. I never said a big woman can't get anyone. I never said a big woman has no chance of being raped. I never said psychological problems. Everything was twisted around to the worst way it could be. Apparently mine wasnt the first post of this nature. I'm sure it won't be the last.
True, you did not say a BBW could never get anyone, or that she has no chance of being raped. You did say "In everyday life in general a woman around 200 pounds isn't going to draw much attention from anyone who would actually force someone" and that's just wrong. You should have done your research better before touching that one. You said "Is it more of a fantasy to submit because its unlikely it would ever happen in real life." That implies that no one would want an overweight submissive. You implied that for BBWs to be interested in BDSM we must have psychological problems. I've got a newsflash. There are some thin to average among BDSMers that have some HUGE psychological problems. It's not just the fatter among us.

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ORIGINAL: twistedom
Who stands up for the kid being bullied? Not many because it's not them being harassed. I will say there are probably just as many overweight men as women here.
Finally!!

I think had this been any other thread directed at a group of people like lesbians, gay men,underweight, bisexual, the other fetishes that are more common then most of you wouldn't have replied. Since you fit the topic you object.
I still would have replied, just because I am that kind of person. I don't like biases and inaccurate stereotypes perpetuated about any group of people.

I have had multiple members of both sexes message me they didnt want to become part of the attacking fest but that they notice the trend too etc
And we know that how?

See, the problem is nobody here likes a bully, no matter what the topic is. It could be fat women, true vs fake, diaper play, or anything else, whether we personally like the topic or not. We can actually be nice people, most of us. We can actually have decent conversations and even be funny at times. But no one likes a bully or a know-it-all trying to force his/her opinions on everyone else.

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The medical profession sees fat first, and often goes no further. A dear friend died of cancer that was never diagnosed. His doctors saw a fat man, and looked for fat man things. My 400 pound friend has perfect bloodwork. I won't try to tell you that she has no issues due to her wight, but she is not not at risk for diabetes, heart disease, or stroke.

First of all I want to say that I don't know your friend's situation so I won't comment directly on that. What I WILL say is that when a person is severely overweight it is POSSIBLE to miss a tumor simply because of the fat and the small size of the tumor. If that person does not display symptoms that point to cancer such as sudden unexplained weight loss, yes it CAN be missed. In the case of the person showing symptoms of other diseases yes the doctor will look for other causes first, it's the right thing to do. Tragically because of this the diagnosis of cancer can be delayed or even missed. It's sad and tragic but doctors are only human and yes they make mistakes.

I'm not blaming the person for being fat, I'm not blaming ANYONE, I'm simply saying that mistakes do happen and yes the person being overweight can contribute to that.

I so wish that were true... and it iS true that he had a very rare cancer that wouldnt have been detected more than likely, but when it had metastisized to his lungs FFS?? Yeah. He came in with shortness of breath, and was advised to stop smoking, when he had never smoked in his life. It was a total cluster.

If you are fat, the medical community will blame your fat for everything, and be astounded at your good health. Until you get old and are just a waste of space like the other old folks.

Ranty rant rant.

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Is some slender attractive woman going to care what somebody says about heavy set women? Probably not. Doesn't really pertain to her.

I'm not a waitress but stopped seeing a guy after he was rude to a waitress on our first date.

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No offense to anyone or those who like those type of women just notice from profile to profile that there seems to be a large percentage of bbws. Very seldom is there a woman considered slender, thin, average or whatever. No I dont think I'm gods gift to women or whatever. Just kinda wonder if there's something psychological there. A lot of women here have those force/rape fantasies. In everyday life in general a woman around 200 pounds isn't going to draw much attention from anyone who would actually force someone. is that part of it? Is it more of a fantasy to submit because its unlikely it would ever happen in real life. Look at streakers in sports across the world. If its fairly attractive woman there's cheers and such. If they were overweight I'm sure many would say oh my cover them up. Again not attacking but just rather curious why this and other sites seem to be widely populated by those types of women