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Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:12:12 AM

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No offense to anyone or those who like those type of women just notice from profile to profile that there seems to be a large percentage of bbws. Very seldom is there a woman considered slender, thin, average or whatever. No I dont think I'm gods gift to women or whatever. Just kinda wonder if there's something psychological there. A lot of women here have those force/rape fantasies. In everyday life in general a woman around 200 pounds isn't going to draw much attention from anyone who would actually force someone. is that part of it? Is it more of a fantasy to submit because its unlikely it would ever happen in real life. Look at streakers in sports across the world. If its fairly attractive woman there's cheers and such. If they were overweight I'm sure many would say oh my cover them up. Again not attacking but just rather curious why this and other sites seem to be widely populated by those types of women

RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:20:13 AM

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:21:13 AM

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Question - Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle?
Answer - I just notice from profile to profile that there seems to be a large percentage of bbws.

It looks like you answered your own question. How cool is that!
There are also slender people, freckled people, tall people, short people, dumb people,
smart people, rich people, poor people. And of course, let's not leave out the ignorant people too.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:22:17 AM

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EgVOR28iG_o

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KgMOOPxkYVk

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:25:19 AM

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"A lot of women here have those force/rape fantasies. In everyday life in general a woman around 200 pounds isn't going to draw much attention from anyone who would actually force someone"

Im curious are you saying that 'unattractive' or 'larger' women are never raped/forced irl?

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:26:48 AM

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I wouldn't say never it's just not the norm. That's my opinion and if cours I can be wrong

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:27:07 AM

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How do you know so much about who actually gets raped or not? Are you saying that rapist only go for thin women?

Why would being over weight suggest a psychological interest in bdsm... are you suggesting also that there isn't one with thin people?

How do you know that over weight women aren't finding men?

You say you are not meaning to offend but your comments are riddled with offensive opinions and false information.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:28:19 AM

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No, he's just ignorant and doesn't know how to filter his search function for height and weight. Obviously women of all shapes, sizes, and colors have varied interests. Some want to be shit on, some want to be tied up, some want to experience rape fantasy. Everyone is different.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:29:50 AM

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... Some want to be shit on, ...

I got a joke.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:31:52 AM

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I honestly don't think psycho rapists think 'O ill go rape that one cos she's thinner/prettier' Women/men and god forbid children of all ages/sizes/attractiveness's are raped, but I think thats off topic, as IMO actually getting raped has very little to do with BDSM. Its kind of a sick and offensive comparison to assume it is.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:31:56 AM

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sexual thoughts, desires, needs and expectations dont stop when you hit 200lb
they dont stop when you are 25, 35, 45, I doubt mine will die before im 95 at least I hope not.
I may be a fat chick, I am not a fat head!
I enjoy every hot minute of sex and will never apologise for it just cos I have more jiggly than bone

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:38:08 AM

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That's my opinion and ofcourse I can be wrong

You are.

Just because you watched a few episodes of Law and Order : SVU doesn't mean you have an in depth perspective of the realities of rape and crime. Most particularly in relation to gender and physical attractiveness, what you see on t.v. is largely misrepresented. If you care to educate yourself on the matter there are a number of online resources available for you to read.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:39:52 AM

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Ninon L'Enclos (or perhaps it was Madame DeStael) was asked by a lawyer, in a divorce case (what else?) at the age of 85, "When does a woman's sexual desire subside?" Her reply, "You would have to ask that of a woman much older than I".

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:41:21 AM

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It's simple demographics - for the US, people self report as overweight for 51% of the population of CO to 67% of Mississippi.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obesity_in_america#Prevalence_by_state

Care should be taken in interpreting these numbers, because they are based on self-report surveys which asked individuals (or, in case of children & adolescents, their parents) to report their height and weight. Height is commonly overreported and weight underreported, sometimes resulting in significantly lower estimates. One study estimated the difference between actual and self-reported obesity as 7% among males and 13% among females as of 2002, with the tendency to increase.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:43:37 AM

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How is it that this OP has managed to miss all the hundred-pound lesbians?

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:44:07 AM

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Oh good, it was about time for another fat thread. What's it been, like a week.

OP, anyone who has been on the forums long has covered this ground before. What is disturbing about your comments, as opposed to the regular "No Fat Chicks" threads is your strange, ignorant and incorrect beliefs about rape. Maybe you should do a little research.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:44:10 AM

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large percentage of BBWs

Yeah, and a lot of just plain BWs, also.
Yes, I do think fat women are drawn to BDSM, absolutely. In fact a lot of traits that are usually seen as less than desireable are drawn to BDSM. In the case of fat people, it seems that many believe something along the lines of "it's really hard for me to get any action in the vanilla world.... maybe if I'm willing to degrade myself, or reduce myself simply to a willing set of holes, or agree to do whatever nasty things somebody else wants, I'll get my needs met". Many are willing to experience things they might not otherwise want for themselves, in order to get affection, love, sex, and so on.
I'm not judging anyone for that. They're entitled to make those choices. But this is my opinion currently anyway, after about 15 years "in the lifestyle".
And I'm not saying that I'm not an asshole who finds it easier to connect with submissives than with vanilla people, and so I'm dominant. Maybe that's the case and maybe it isn't.

Additionally, there's another aspect that may contribute to what you've noticed. Some fat submissive people are here to get help with their obesity from domiannt people. Certainly not all, or even most, but some certainly do get involved in the community because with control from a dominant person, they can find the willpower to eat better, get exercise, and so on. I've even seen several profiles over there years saying "I'm here to find a dominant who will control my eating and other habits, so I can lose weight. I'm not here for any other reason. No sex, no emotions, no play. Just control my weight until I'm less fat." So it does happen.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:46:41 AM

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Oh good, it was about time for another fat thread. What's it been, like a week.

Ja, I am in here to see if I can snag a couple blowjobs off the fatgirls.

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:48:44 AM

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nope!!!! well not this one anyway:) smewwwch

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RE: Are overweight women drawn to this lifestyle? - 10/21/2011 10:50:06 AM

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Why do people that are involved with bdsm, consider it almost a last resort for some people? As if bdsm is a bad thing or that it is a last resort for those undesirables in other categories. Do we question those that are considered highly desirable in any category?

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