Duskypearls
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Winspiritsbaby, I know it can be very hard at times to figure out what is triggering us and why, as it often seems to pop up seemingly out of no where, and instantaneously change our internal landscape. Sometimes it's our thought patterns, sometimes our emotions, and sometime vague body memories. Sometimes we never figure out it's origin or subject, and must work at re-grounding ourselves anyway. That's one of the reasons I suggested bodywork, i.e., massage, shiatsu, chiropractic (especially Network Chiropractic) tantric massage, etc., as these can often be quite helpful in identifying sites in our body that have stored up painful memories/emotions/injuries/chemicals that need releasing. One of the most important things we can do for ourselves is monitor our thoughts and their patterns, and our emotional/physical responses to them, as it is usually our minds that get us into the deepest trouble. When we recognize ourselves in states of fear, depression, anger, sadness, grief, resentment, jealousy, etc., it's time to backtrack and figure out what was going on in our minds that got us stuck there. Once we do that, we can replace such patterns/perspectives/representations with a more positive script. But first, you've got to expose, understand, and own the damaged script from which you were working. Personally, I'm finding EMDR very helpful...more helpful than I expected. I only wish I tried it sooner.
< Message edited by Duskypearls -- 11/11/2011 11:35:45 PM >
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