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shalin -> First time anal (1/21/2012 12:25:35 PM)
we have done all the prilims adn use astroglide and stimilation and smaller insertions how long before we can actually do penetration?

Ninebelowzero -> RE: First time anal (1/21/2012 12:26:24 PM)
I haven't!

ShibsStories -> RE: First time anal (1/21/2012 12:27:43 PM)
Counts how big he is. Unless he is huge, I don't see why you couldn't do it now.

SpiritedRadiance -> RE: First time anal (1/21/2012 12:30:10 PM)
It depends on how comfortable with it you guys are. Just a few tips, there is no such thing as too much lube.... Go slow, there is no such thing as too slow or too careful. If theres pain, stop relax and move back a step, Pain is your body telling you something is wrong, with anal it could lead to some serious issues so remember go slow... and there is no such thing as too much lube.

SubvsSlave -> RE: First time anal (1/21/2012 12:31:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShibsStories Counts how big he is. Unless he is huge, I don't see why you couldn't do it now. I agree with ShibsStories. There were no special preparations for my first time. I say have it and enjoy!!!!

TheHeretic -> RE: First time anal (1/21/2012 1:34:22 PM)
Sounds like the preliminaries are done. Bend her over and take it.

NyxPontia -> RE: First time anal (1/21/2012 2:20:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero I haven't! [sm=agree.gif] I've played with plugs but they always make me feel oddly sick. I don't really know why..

Ninebelowzero -> RE: First time anal (1/21/2012 2:22:38 PM)
Are you licking the live wire?

NyxPontia -> RE: First time anal (1/21/2012 2:51:55 PM)
It tastes like butterscotch [&o]

Wantstocontrolu -> RE: First time anal (1/21/2012 6:12:55 PM)
Bend over and take it. Just do not be overly agressive let the bottom push.

Epytropos -> RE: First time anal (1/21/2012 6:22:10 PM)
What is it about this community that makes so many so terrified of sex? If I spent as much time preparing for sex as a lot of you do I swear I'd get bored and quit having it. Lube up, relax your muscles, and take it like a good girl. Unless he has a legitimate horse cock, if it takes you more than 10 minutes to prepare you're doing it fucking wrong.

Steelslave -> RE: First time anal (1/21/2012 6:38:14 PM)
Try tushy tamer best number I've ever used

BurntKitty -> RE: First time anal (1/21/2012 6:42:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Epytropos What is it about this community that makes so many so terrified of sex? If I spent as much time preparing for sex as a lot of you do I swear I'd get bored and quit having it. Lube up, relax your muscles, and take it like a good girl. Unless he has a legitimate horse cock, if it takes you more than 10 minutes to prepare you're doing it fucking wrong. QFT. OP: [image]http://lordbanks.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/nike-just-do-it.jpg[/image]

seababy -> RE: First time anal (1/21/2012 8:15:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Epytropos What is it about this community that makes so many so terrified of sex? If I spent as much time preparing for sex as a lot of you do I swear I'd get bored and quit having it. Lube up, relax your muscles, and take it like a good girl. Unless he has a legitimate horse cock, if it takes you more than 10 minutes to prepare you're doing it fucking wrong. Epytropos have you ever been penetrated anally by a large penis? If not I think you should go away and take it like a good boy first then post! :) [sm=excuseme.gif] <3 Sea (Edited as forgot to address the OP ) Your probably not going to get any more ready. Does penetration hurt at all now? Is he alot bigger than what you are using?

Epytropos -> RE: First time anal (1/21/2012 11:20:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: seababy Epytropos have you ever been penetrated anally by a large penis? If not I think you should go away and take it like a good boy first then post! :) Pain is kind of what we do around here Sea lol. As to your question, have done it with toys before, mostly because I refuse to do anything to a sub that I don't know the feeling of doing to myself or having done to me. No prep - lube, insert, sodomize - and it wasn't nearly as bad as everyone (read: het females) make it out to be. It hurt at first, no question about that, but it certainly wasn't life-shattering pain by any means. Credentials thus outlined, I'll repeat: Take it like a good girl n quit worrying so much [;)]

SpiritedRadiance -> RE: First time anal (1/22/2012 12:46:38 AM)
The only thing Epytropos with that advice, is i did exactly that the first time I had anal, and i needed stitches because of the damage he did to me so... That isnt always the best advice to give. Of course he was a moron who should be shot in the head.. but.... I repeat there is no such thing as too much lube....

ghostraven -> RE: First time anal (1/22/2012 1:17:06 AM)
Honestly, I have never managed to get past much ass play. I am one of the few who knows that they don't like men for this reason. Although, the prospect of a woman with a strap on does appeal to my submissive side. Small though that part of me may be.

Nyckname -> RE: First time anal (1/22/2012 7:29:31 AM)
He sticks it whenever he feels like. You deal with it.

DarkSteven -> RE: First time anal (1/22/2012 7:40:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Nyckname He sticks it whenever he feels like. You deal with it. I am suppressing the urge to call you what I think of you. Even if Alpha is out sick. May I please explain what a Dominant's responsibility is? He realizes that anal can potentially result in tearing tissue, and makes sure that he uses lube. He also checks to make sure that his partner is okay throughout. The "You deal with it" bullshit overlooks the fact that a trip to the doctor could be in order if he screws it up. A Dominant has responsibility for his sub. In other words, if HE screws up, HE deals with it. If there's anything else I can do to help you understand the difference between a Dom and an abuser, please let me know.

KatyShatter -> RE: First time anal (1/22/2012 9:38:37 AM)
That's way more preparation than I got. My first time I got no warning at all. Also, I'd recommend straddling him the first time through. Straddling him allows much more control for you, as you can raise and lower yourself, and adjust your body as necessary (if you're used to that position, anyway.) It's always easier for me that way, especially if it's been a while. Remember, he's not going to feel what you do. Take it very slow, and use lots of lubricant. Lots of it.

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