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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/22/2012 3:32:52 PM   
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you really are full of it

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/22/2012 3:42:28 PM   
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you really are full of it

needles


Amazing is more like it! Im in a good mood leave me in peace with my blissssssssssss delusions and hypnotic state.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/22/2012 4:05:07 PM   
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By the time I read the whole 5 pages, 3 more pages showed up !!!!

I agree with the person that is a lawyer (forgot her name) ... Looks like things are going to blow up. My guess, from the husband.. My wife cheats on me with this famous local guy, has kinky things happening, unfit to be a mother, will have custody of the kids, she will have to move out of the house, pay child support and , oh yes, lose her job because the place she works for doesn't allow such behavior. Nice mess coming right up.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/22/2012 4:54:09 PM   
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I wouldn't count on it.


Howz about you pimp check me a bottle of port right now, biotch?

Then I ain't gonna fuck you. I'm famous.


That only works if i have to get on my knees too.


Perhaps we haven't been properly introduced.   A woman only need be off her knees when she is cooking, and I am workin on that one pal, you can quote me.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/22/2012 5:31:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I wouldn't count on it.


Howz about you pimp check me a bottle of port right now, biotch?

Then I ain't gonna fuck you. I'm famous.


That only works if i have to get on my knees too.


Perhaps we haven't been properly introduced.   A woman only need be off her knees when she is cooking, and I am workin on that one pal, you can quote me.


If you do the cooking she would never need off her knees.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/22/2012 5:33:44 PM   
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I gotta stop to piss ever so often so it works out, you have to compromise with your slave woman in the real world.

< Message edited by mnottertail -- 2/22/2012 5:38:26 PM >


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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/23/2012 9:26:04 AM   
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I have found the answer to solve all my problems.


I am going to make the SHITTIEST tasting coffee ever. Nasty Sandwiches. Go in naked. not carry my pocket book and leave all my cleaning supplies at home. That should make for some awesome sex. Or possibly I could shove a wad of bills and make a game of GO FISH.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/23/2012 1:14:44 PM   
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That was kind of my point. She seems to think that because she and her husband have come to an agreement, everything will be fine.

I've been in WIITWD for 20 years in the LA community. I've seen this situation hundreds of times and I've only seen it work once...and that was when the person in question was Dom/me. Being married to the father of your children and being collared to a dominant man outside of that relationship is a recipe for disaster. Sooner or later, either the husband or the "d" will decide to push an issue, and it will explode. The children will pay the price.



I have seen a marriage and an outside-D work, but not like this. Everybody's got to be on the same page, really get along, have clear bounderies about the different relationships, and genuinely want the poly situation.

If Hubby, of his own initiative, will call the Dom and says "hey, let's go get some beers and watch the game. And then we can talk about the monthly budget, now that you're part of our family financial situation and have access to my wife's income. Oh, and can you watch the kids next Friday so we can go to the PTA meeting?", I think there's a chance it'll work out well. But somehow I'm not optimistic.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/23/2012 1:33:26 PM   
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I have seen a marriage and an outside-D work, but not like this. Everybody's got to be on the same page, really get along, have clear bounderies about the different relationships, and genuinely want the poly situation.


I've only seen it work for short term. In every case, sooner or later, there was a power struggle between the husband and the D followed by an ultimatum.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/23/2012 9:14:28 PM   
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I have found the answer to solve all my problems.


I am going to make the SHITTIEST tasting coffee ever. Nasty Sandwiches. Go in naked. not carry my pocket book and leave all my cleaning supplies at home. That should make for some awesome sex. Or possibly I could shove a wad of bills and make a game of GO FISH.



I just don't see this. I don't make my dom coffee or food, I show up clothed, he hasn't ever asked for money, I don't clean for him, and we have amazing sex. In fact, the first time we had sex, he made me dinner after, since we were at his place.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/24/2012 5:47:59 AM   
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Shouldn´t the fact that you can´t get a single person to understand and agree with relationship be a huge red flag?
As if that wasn´t enough he want´s a joint acct, please don´t do that!
The fact that he now even convinced you that you are not ready for sex with him after 2 YEARS(!!!) proveS he is manipulative, sorry but that was not the way you felt a month ago by what you wrote then.
settling for giving bj´s and doing cleaning for him.... You know it´s not enough...

My 2 cents....

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/24/2012 5:55:01 AM   
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What?!?!?! Please don´t tell me you even have to bring your own cleaning supplies??????
I sort of hope you are a troll because I can´t see how anyone would be collared under those curcumstances
He has done nothing for you but seems keen enough for you to do things for him.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/24/2012 7:15:44 AM   
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lol....You people crack me up...as God as my witness everything i have told on here is truth. Is it a bizarre situation? Well yah its bizarre, I dont think id beleive it either. But anyway, the only thing Im not completely honest about is telling my Master I get on this forum. I guess it is lying by omission. If he asks I will tell him lol.

I was collared this afternoon, and my husband bought him a book to take to him.

DOnt worry if I need some nookie, my husband is always ready cause Master just aint into it.


So after 2 years of wondering if you were doing something wrong on the day of your collaring (or near the time of it?) your Master finally comes clean and confesses he isn't into sex?

And you let him have access to your money.

Sincere best wishes for a better outcome than how it seems.... .


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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/24/2012 7:54:41 AM   
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So... is he not into sex or is he just holding out on sex until you've proven your worth? And how long does that take? 2 years isn't long enough? Does he do anything to please you? Anything at all? Any orgasm control? ANYTHING?

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/24/2012 8:07:23 AM   
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Apparently it please her to buy him gifts, clean his house, and blow him.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/24/2012 8:10:41 AM   
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Apparently it please her to buy him gifts, clean his house, and blow him.


Sounds all win to me :-)


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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/24/2012 8:12:38 AM   
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Continuous blowjobs are a vietmanise spin fuck chair Masters secret teachings method of orgasm control.  That's why submissives need masters.  They don't know these things in their world without the teachings.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/24/2012 8:14:45 AM   
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Apparently it please her to buy him gifts, clean his house, and blow him.


Sounds all win to me :-)



Steak and blow job day?


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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/24/2012 8:36:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kalikshama
Apparently it please her to buy him gifts, clean his house, and blow him.


Sounds all win to me :-)



Steak and blow job day?


She remembers!
I'll be knocking at your door round 5 to take you up on the offer :-)

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 2/24/2012 9:16:05 AM   
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No one actually believes any of this crap right? It's just a slow week?

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