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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 5:32:55 PM   
SingleServant


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Status: offline 		I have a lot of experince in the lifestyle.
I am not new.
I speak from life experinces.

It bothers me seeing a young man with his future ahead of him wasting his time on this site. The old battle axes will be happy to dispense advice on what he is "doing wrong" to please them and the young, attractive, money grabbers will be happy to take his cash.

There is nothing to be gained on this site for the original poster. He should be focused on getting an education or becoming a skilled craftsman so he can survive in a very difficult world. He should not be spending one minute of his time taking advice from the older battle axe women or the the younger money grabbers who populate this site.

I make no apologies for my views to you or anyone.




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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 6:38:58 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: runningman12

Despite the fact I am young, I am very obidient (obedient). I was born to worship women and thier (their) desires. However, no one seems to take me seriously? ANy (Any) ideas?


I'm leaning towards cash as a potential obstacle.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 6:40:57 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

quote:

ORIGINAL: runningman12

Despite the fact I am young, I am very obidient. I was born to worship women and thier desires.


If you want to be taken seriously, you might want to try using a Spell Checker. As they say, "You never get a second chance to make a first impression". If your first impression is full of spelling errors, that's going to turn off some people before they've even taken a look at your profile.

Secondly, whining is probably not a good way to be taken seriously. Your message basically screams, "Don't take me seriously". And when I look at your profile, it confirms that you're not to be taken seriously.

I don't say this to insult you. But read what others have written to you, and then think about it objectively. Try not to be sensitive. Just think about what everyone has said.

Remember, you're not the only male sub on CollarMe. Women have lots of guys to choose from. So you have to help them to see why you're worth their time.

Good luck.


I need a blue head.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 6:46:44 PM   
GloriousMorning


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: SingleServant

I m not posting to make a first impression on you or others. I posted because the original poster is young and unaware of the true nature of the women who populate this site.


Um. You joined the site today. You're already an authority on all the women on this site?


I doubt he just joined today. No one gets this bitter in a matter of hours.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 6:55:35 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		Ok, so ... this post isn't about the OP, but it does illustrate a common problem with the younger guys on the site.

I just got a message from a 19 year old ... from a location where the legal drinking age is 21 ... and in his main profile pic, he's holding a beer can. This bothers me on a number of levels. 1 - it's illegal to drink under the age of 21 where he is, so he obviously has no regard for the law (implying that any rule he doesn't like, he will ignore). 2 - drinking is already important enough to him that either he feels this picture shows how he really is, or every single picture that currently exists of him as an adult has a beer can in it. 3 - apparently, he's so drunk that he can't be bothered to make out the part of our profile that specifies what we are looking for ... or even the first sentence where it asks that people read the full profile before messaging us.



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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 6:55:35 PM   
GloriousMorning


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ORIGINAL: SingleServant

I posted because the original poster is young and unaware of the true nature of the women who populate this site.


From the looks of your posts, I don't think you have a clue as to the diversity of the women here on this site and sites like this. Its seems as though you are taking your negative experiences and applying them to a fairly broad spectrum of people. You, for instance, don't know a single thing about me as an individual (as far as I know, I mean fake profiles come from everywhere).

What in the world would motivate you to make such comments? I hope you realize you are coming off as very bitter and resentful, but I do think your frustration is misguided.

The original poster wanted some advice, so we gave it to him. We don't deserve to get dumped on from you or anyone else.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:01:44 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I am intruiged that we battleaxes appear to be his target audience...

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:08:49 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		I'm not a battleaxe ... but I did think about buying one the other day. They had an AWESOME one at the gun show the other day (along with a cool flail that I'm sure I could hurt myself with)

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:11:55 PM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SingleServant

I have a lot of experince in the lifestyle.
I am not new.
I speak from life experinces.

It bothers me seeing a young man with his future ahead of him wasting his time on this site. The old battle axes will be happy to dispense advice on what he is "doing wrong" to please them and the young, attractive, money grabbers will be happy to take his cash.

There is nothing to be gained on this site for the original poster. He should be focused on getting an education or becoming a skilled craftsman so he can survive in a very difficult world. He should not be spending one minute of his time taking advice from the older battle axe women or the the younger money grabbers who populate this site.

I make no apologies for my views to you or anyone.



I didn't ask for an apology. When I pointed out that you made a comment about the women ON THIS SITE after less than a day here, you point out all the experience you have elsewhere than on this site.

And let me tell you a secret that will have the Dommes eating out of your hand: women love to talk. If you can hold a conversation (especially the listening part) and actually enjoy it, you'll put yourself way above almost all the other men on this site. If you have a sense of humor in addition, you've got it made.

Referencing your post: you seem to think that there's something wrong with a Dominant woman telling a sub man how to please her. May I ask why you think that's wrong?


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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:26:56 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		I'm amused that, even though you, Steven, and at least one other male posted to give the OP advice, he chose to be negative towards "the old battle axes"

Bah

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:27:16 PM   
SingleServant


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Status: offline 		I have been around. I know women like to talk, the problem is that they rarely have anything worthwhile to say. And when they are talking they are complaining or whining about some self perceived injustice they have suffered due to their gender. And you sit there and listen........

You are nothing more than an apologist for the battle axe women on this site. You should be directing the original poster to run from these geriatric bag ladies rather than trying rationalize their positions.

As a male you should be ashamed of yourself for not taking action to guide the original poster away from these female train wrecks and their ridiculous advice. There is a young man to be saved and you do nothing.


< Message edited by SingleServant -- 3/5/2012 7:35:20 PM >

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:28:52 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline 		Yoou do know that the "mature women" you seek can see this commentary, right?

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:31:36 PM   
SweetDommes


Posts: 3313
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Status: offline 		BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA ....

Oh wait, you're serious ...

Well, last I checked, 34 isn't geriatric, and as for your earlier dig about non-money-grubbers being overweight, I'll have you know that I'm currently down 8lbs and working towards a good deal more. Not to mention that we're not really actively seeking anything but friends right now, so we don't fall into either of your categories anyway.

There are a lot of females on the message boards that don't qualify for any of your descriptions ... but you're probably too bitter to see that.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:39:08 PM   
Arturas


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SingleServant

I have a lot of experince in the lifestyle.
I am not new.
I speak from life experinces.

It bothers me seeing a young man with his future ahead of him wasting his time on this site. The old battle axes will be happy to dispense advice on what he is "doing wrong" to please them and the young, attractive, money grabbers will be happy to take his cash.

There is nothing to be gained on this site for the original poster. He should be focused on getting an education or becoming a skilled craftsman so he can survive in a very difficult world. He should not be spending one minute of his time taking advice from the older battle axe women or the the younger money grabbers who populate this site.

I make no apologies for my views to you or anyone.





Well said! It rings of: Reality. Intelligence. Common Sense. Truth. Real Experience and not just parroting every other long term 20k posting player on the forums.

This is a person one should take seriously.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:40:25 PM   
SingleServant


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Yoou do know that the "mature women" you seek can see this commentary, right?


Yes I know. I do not care. By mature I am referring to women in their mid to late 20's, not in the battleaxe age range.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:41:51 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		The fun part is that a lot of the "long term 20k posting player"s have real experience as well. And SingleServant happens to be making some fairly sweeping generalizations about us specifically when he really knows nothing about us. Yeah, the OP needs to be out into the real world, and if he really wants to get into the lifestyle at this point, he needs to go offline and go to munches ... but that doesn't negate the other advice given to him. Nor does that mean that the posters on the message boards are "battle axes" or "geriatric" or any of the other nice little descriptors that he used.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:42:51 PM   
LadyHibiscus


Posts: 27124
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From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline 		You might want to adjust your terminology. Or not.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:42:54 PM   
Arturas


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SingleServant

I have been around. I know women like to talk, the problem is that they rarely have anything worthwhile to say. And when they are talking they are complaining or whining about some self perceived injustice they have suffered due to their gender. And you sit there and listen........

You are nothing more than an apologist for the battle axe women on this site. You should be directing the original poster to run from these geriatric bag ladies rather than trying rationalize their positions.

As a male you should be ashamed of yourself for not taking action to guide the original poster away from these female train wrecks and their ridiculous advice. There is a young man to be saved and you do nothing.



OMG! A second post that makes perfect sense to a non-player. Wise and independent and clearly knows what's really going on here and not walking softly at all.


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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:43:32 PM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SingleServant

I have been around. I know women like to talk, the problem is that they rarely have anything worthwhile to say. And when they are talking they are complaining or whining about some self perceived injustice they have suffered due to their gender. And you sit there and listen........

You are nothing more than an apologist for the battle axe women on this site. You should be directing the original poster to run from these geriatric bag ladies rather than trying rationalize their positions.

As a male you should be ashamed of yourself for not taking action to guide the original poster away from these female train wrecks and their ridiculous advice. There is a young man to be saved and you do nothing.



He asked how to get people to take him seriously. He wants to meet a Dominant woman. Your suggestion of running away from them is not in that spirit. He may not WANT to be saved.

I like to talk with women. There's something wrong with either you or me.


_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:44:51 PM   
Arturas


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The fun part is that a lot of the "long term 20k posting player"s have real experience as well.


Yes. At posting. Statistically that is all they had time to do. There's that guy again with almost 20k posts in just a few short years. Think about it for a second or two.

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