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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:45:28 PM

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Yes I know. I do not care. By mature I am referring to women in their mid to late 20's,

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:46:52 PM

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Thank you, Hilly.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:47:26 PM

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I have thought about it, and it doesn't really take that long to make a few posts - particularly when someone is posting in the politics or humor sections (or really any topic they feel strongly about). There are one or two who have gotten their posts "in a few short years" but the ones here have generally been around a little longer than that. They have lives away from the computer ... and they have had real experience, not just at posting.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:49:12 PM

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Okay. I promised myself never to post here again but I could not resist when this very intelligent and wise individual, clearly from the reality side of this place, walked in here and gave you another glimpse of real lifestylers and their views.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:49:22 PM

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Yoou do know that the "mature women" you seek can see this commentary, right?

Yes I know. I do not care. By mature I am referring to women in their mid to late 20's, not in the battleaxe age range.

You're 53..... and an optimist.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:54:39 PM

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Optimist? That's putting it mildly!

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:56:24 PM

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I have thought about it, and it doesn't really take that long to make a few posts - particularly when someone is posting in the politics or humor sections (or really any topic they feel strongly about). There are one or two who have gotten their posts "in a few short years" but the ones here have generally been around a little longer than that. They have lives away from the computer ... and they have had real experience, not just at posting.

Ok. I'm going to bed.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 7:58:18 PM

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1. Ignore the D/s aspects in your first message. If she says she's Dominant in her profile, assume that if you develop a relationship, you'll be sub and she'll be Domme.
2. READ her profile. Ask yourself if this is someone you could envision having a relationship with. Do her vanilla interests mesh with yours? How about the personality you see in her profile?
3. If you think the two of you might match, message her. Make sure to mention what interested you about her profile, and your experiences with that. If she mentioned mountain climbing, tell her about the time you found a couple of bear cubs and were playing with them when the mama bear came by. Your goal is to start a conversation.
4. If the messaging goes well, after a dozen or so messages see if you can step up to talk on the phone. After a week or so of phoning, see if she'd like to meet at some public place.

As a malesub myself, I'd second that list.

Personally, I'd emphasise the point about keeping it a little light and friendly. Perhaps even inject a bit of humour at first. Show that you could be easy, friendly company sitting in a bar with a woman.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 8:03:59 PM

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Yoou do know that the "mature women" you seek can see this commentary, right?

Yes I know. I do not care. By mature I am referring to women in their mid to late 20's, not in the battleaxe age range.

You're 53..... and an optimist.

I have a seven figure net worth. That actually makes it very easy. Money attracts them, in the end they never get any of it.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 8:06:18 PM

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Yes. At posting. Statistically that is all they had time to do. There's that guy again with almost 20k posts in just a few short years. Think about it for a second or two.

What a foolish thing to say. I guess you just aren't good at multitasking. Perhaps you should think that within that twenty thousand posts, he has said far more of value than certain posters ever will. It's not the number of posts. It's quality over quantity. The latter is something that certain people lack.

As for the rest, hell yeah! I'm a battle axe. I'm an old gal. I have grey hairs and grandchildren. Good luck to anyone who tries to shame Me for that. That is so worth color by Clairol that some folks have no idea.

OP, you are 21, yes? That means you are just now really getting certain opportunities that you couldn't experience before. It's going to even out. The deal is, even for Me, life isn't all kink. We older chicks do have a different world view.

Don't rush your life. It will happen. Patience is a harder Mistress than most Dominants.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 8:08:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: ~~Arturas~~ SingleServant

I have a seven figure net worth. That actually makes it very easy.
Money attracts them, in the end they never get any of it.

I thought you said you were going to bed?

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 8:08:50 PM

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I have a seven figure net worth. That actually makes it very easy. Money attracts them, in the end they never get any of it.

I would suggest you are targeting the wrong kind of women.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 8:10:34 PM

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I have a seven figure net worth. That actually makes it very easy. Money attracts them, in the end they never get any of it.

Your monetary value means pretty much diddly squat on these message boards. If that's the only value you have, then I feel quite sorry for you.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 8:12:25 PM

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This place still brings the lulz.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 8:18:10 PM

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I have a seven figure net worth. That actually makes it very easy. Money attracts them, in the end they never get any of it.

You're not supposed to count the digits after the decimal point.

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Whoever said "Religion is the opiate of the masses" never heard Right Wing talk radio.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 8:18:56 PM

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Hib, I'm honestly not sure what the heck is wrong with these people. It absolutely amazes me that someone can get to the age of 53 and still make sweeping generalizations about people that they don't know ... I mean, surely they don't actually think that everyone is cut with the same cookie cutter ....

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 8:23:39 PM

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I think they do, Karen. Or at least the bitter ones do. They lead with their wallets (money is power!) Go for some fantasy demographic, then are all butthurt when things don't work out.

If it weren't for that battleaxe comment, and conflating mid-20's with mature, this troll would have been no different than the others. Battleaxe! I feel like I walked out of The Lockhorns!

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 8:26:33 PM

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it makes my head hurt to realize there are people that ... stubborn? blind? idiotic? irrational? I don't even know what word to use ...

to quote Professor Farnsworth "I don't want to live on this planet anymore" (and anyone who knows the reference, just read that in his voice ... muahahahahahahaha)

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 8:27:33 PM

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This place still brings the lulz.

Yep. Been saying it for five years. This place is funnier than most programs on television.

Next, we will be discussing why common sense seems not to be so common, after all.

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RE: Why am I not taken seriously? - 3/5/2012 8:28:08 PM

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I am just really happy when they announce themselvws up front. It's why I advise people to be themselves--the jackwagon will out.

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