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RE: "proper protocol" in approaching a dominant - 4/6/2012 5:57:08 PM

seekingOwnertoo

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And like, Stop looking at me like I mis-spelled something!

'Mis-spelled' was a misspelling there, S02. It should have been 'misspelled'. Just saying.

Sorry, but I just came over all desperate for a smugness-fix, all of a sudden. ;-)

(I get that way when I haven't bonked anyone for too long. :-( )

Dang, ran it through my Word 2010 spewll checker first, too!

You don't supose there is a bug in it, too you?

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RE: "proper protocol" in approaching a dominant - 4/6/2012 5:59:34 PM

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Misspelt damnit. Whats wrong with todays kids.

kids ?????

Wha kids ??????????

You don't see any, do you?

(PS Hmmm, thinking these Brits are just getting in from the pub!

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RE: "proper protocol" in approaching a dominant - 4/6/2012 6:02:22 PM

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What, the OP is another local, Seeking? I feel like apologizing every time one of them posts...

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RE: "proper protocol" in approaching a dominant - 4/6/2012 6:10:57 PM

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What, the OP is another local, Seeking? I feel like apologizing every time one of them posts...

Yes, LH ... according to his profile ...

Male Switch, 25, Detroit, Michigan

Perhaps someone in that area knows of a place to go?

No ?

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RE: "proper protocol" in approaching a dominant - 4/6/2012 6:54:13 PM

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I have some suggestions...

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RE: "proper protocol" in approaching a dominant - 4/6/2012 6:58:16 PM

seekingOwnertoo

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I have some suggestions...

Perhaps the young man will ask you. [;)

In the meantime, I am trying to think of something smart and funny to say.

But.... I am embarrassingly trying to test this new computer …

You know, boys and toys …

Some have to have the fastest car …
I have to have the fastest CPU …

How dumb am I ????

Please don’t answer THAT ….

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RE: "proper protocol" in approaching a dominant - 4/6/2012 9:08:29 PM

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I have some suggestions...

I bet you do. lol

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RE: "proper protocol" in approaching a dominant - 4/10/2012 4:28:03 AM

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So Hi-fives and nipple tweaking are out? :)

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RE: "proper protocol" in approaching a dominant - 4/10/2012 5:00:10 AM

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"Gibbs Smacking" and "Moe (Howard) Fisticuff Olympics" are the generally preferred methods.

Peace and comfort,

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RE: "proper protocol" in approaching a dominant - 4/10/2012 9:06:34 AM

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If someone demands that you ask permission in order to write to them, then honor their rules if you choose to contact them. That is the only valid reason I can see for asking permission, courtesy (respecting a limit listed in a profile). After that, aside from 'I read your profile' and your list of kinks, tell them what about their profile matches up to you and some mainstream information to show you are well rounded. If there are incompatibilities that you believe may or will not hinder a potential connection, address them.

If someone does not demand that you ask permission, don't ask permission. I am in this latter category. When someone contacts me and asks permission, it is an indication to me that they are unthinking, role playing and lazy. I didn't ask for the play acting, that is all it can be when contacting a complete stranger. If I want an ego boost, I will do something to earn it. I don't want what someone else told you to do. I don't want the person who will submit to anyone and obeying a stranger when contacting me, is just that. After that, I look for the basics; aside from 'I read your profile' and your list of kinks, tell them what about their profile matches up to you and some mainstream information to show you are well rounded. If there are incompatibilities that you believe may not or will not hinder a potential connection, address them.

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RE: "proper protocol" in approaching a dominant - 4/11/2012 6:53:45 PM

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First bit of advice is to ALWAYS READ THEIR ENTIRE PROFILE AND ALL JOURNAL ENTRIES! Many Tops have very specific requirements you must meet before contacting them. If you don't get a response from them, go back and read what they've taken the time to write. Odds are they have a requirement that you missed.
Second, of course always be polite, but use general terms. For example, use "Miss" or "Sir" until you know what it is the person prefers to be called. I'm a Domina and instantly delete anything starting with "Dear Mistress."
Third, because there are so many different styles, codes an preferences just be persistant.
Good luck!

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