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RE: releasing a slave - 5/11/2012 6:49:36 PM

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I read your posts, MisterRaymond, and I wonder, are you for real? And then I see your boots, and I know in my heart, you are a real, true Master.

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RE: releasing a slave - 5/11/2012 8:15:02 PM

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That's it! We have a kevin channeling in progress!

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RE: releasing a slave - 5/11/2012 8:23:04 PM

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lol - LadyP !!

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RE: releasing a slave - 5/11/2012 8:26:48 PM

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Fast reply

Get back on topic folks or the gold letters will start.

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RE: releasing a slave - 5/15/2012 9:35:57 AM

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are you for real

Indeed Madam, this Master is , and this fraternity has cost him dearly, over the years "lost everything dear to him" the Master can only take full responsibily for his own actions, and has learned great wisdom from his errors.

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RE: releasing a slave - 5/15/2012 9:52:11 AM

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MisterRaymond -
Did you read the OP?

It is not about a slave that WANTS to be released,

It is about a slave who has served for 20 years and has become unwell, due to this her Dominant want's rid of her...

It really helps if you read the OP before chiming in

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RE: releasing a slave - 5/17/2012 12:54:12 AM

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more info about this situation would be good...

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RE: releasing a slave - 5/18/2012 10:40:12 PM

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Seems like Travelen has many question to answer about himself. First off, what was promised by you and offered by her in exchange for her submission?

Was it mutually agreed upon and written down? Who broke what rules and when? When did the contract breakdown and you decided it was time to exit?

Only you can answer this Travelen, Taking a sub or a slave is serious business. It should be well thought through before engaging someone. Slaves are not playthings to be easily dismissed unless of course they signed on as a plaything.

I myself have reconsidered after previously thinking I was ready for said person when I clearly was not. It hurt, it hurt her alot and I think about it all the time.

So to end this, Safe, Sane, and Consensual is not just a catch phrase. Slaves & subs are not something you pick when you go on vacation like a T-shirt, they are a reflection of you, how you treat them at all times is a reflection of your humanity and character.

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RE: releasing a slave - 5/19/2012 6:11:29 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mainmajic

Seems like Travelen has many question to answer about himself. First off, what was promised by you and offered by her in exchange for her submission?

Was it mutually agreed upon and written down? Who broke what rules and when? When did the contract breakdown and you decided it was time to exit?

Only you can answer this Travelen, Taking a sub or a slave is serious business. It should be well thought through before engaging someone. Slaves are not playthings to be easily dismissed unless of course they signed on as a plaything.

I myself have reconsidered after previously thinking I was ready for said person when I clearly was not. It hurt, it hurt her alot and I think about it all the time.

So to end this, Safe, Sane, and Consensual is not just a catch phrase. Slaves & subs are not something you pick when you go on vacation like a T-shirt, they are a reflection of you, how you treat them at all times is a reflection of your humanity and character.

Great first post, hope to see you around more often.
One point I would argue is that even if someone signed on to be a plaything, being the OP's toy for 20 years deserves more consideration than a wave of the hand dismissal no matter what circumstances the woman signed up under. Even a playtoy for an evening deserves some type of consideration for being human, as we aren't disposable wipes and require some watching after in basic safety if nothing else.

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RE: releasing a slave - 5/23/2012 7:59:42 PM

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Lizi, I do not disagree with you and concede your point. However, as I said, it would be a reflection on the type on dom/person he not matter what he did and how he did it.

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RE: releasing a slave - 5/26/2012 10:43:13 AM

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I love the judgements. Love it!

The fact that she's served him for 20 years in no way means he should endure what amounts to emotional blackmail/abuse. Other peoples emotional states have a drastic effect on our own. If she is depressed and bipolar subject to emotional outbursts to expect him to continue providing her with shelter, food, etc which he's *already done for twenty years* while subjecting himself to those tantrums is fucking absurd.

While I agree he shouldn't just deposit her at a bus station, sending her off to a hospital with her belongings in a backpack and an address for a good shelter for those with emotional issues seems like a much better solution than continuing to support and house someone who's doing him emotional harm.

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