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Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/27/2012 11:54:45 PM)


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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: TxSeekers
How about a Common sense and morality test?

Common according to who? Given that most of society thinks we're all crazy and have so morals anyway, that would be a kind of tough test to administer.....

NBMG


No No... He means CRAZY not just crazy! There's a big difference. LOL (seriously).




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/27/2012 11:55:52 PM)

[:D]




searching4mysir -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/27/2012 11:56:27 PM)

FR

Oh FFS, Here he comes Captain SaveaSub...

Do you have ANY idea how insulting that is, that you think subs are incapable of reading through the BS and choosing their dom/me for themselves? And why the fuck are you bothering to look at FinDommes in the first place.

Ignore, block, delete, and report if they reach out to you and are abusive.





TxSeekers -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/27/2012 11:59:52 PM)

I saw a profile once on here. This girl posted her profile and two days later said she had found an Owner on Collarme that she was going to submit to...Once submitted they were going to permanently remove her nipples and clit and sew her pussy shut except for a hole big enough to piss out of....There was more but I don't recall....it was all along those lines, basically within a month of being theirs she planned to have her body destroyed and made useless for doing anything other than propping a door open....



And the doctors said I was disturbed.....




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 12:00:40 AM)


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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

FR

Oh FFS, Here he comes Captain SaveaSub...

Do you have ANY idea how insulting that is, that you think subs are incapable of reading through the BS and choosing their dom/me for themselves? And why the fuck are you bothering to look at FinDommes in the first place.

Ignore, block, delete, and report if they reach out to you and are abusive.



This. ^^^^ ALL of it.

NBMG




TxSeekers -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 12:02:53 AM)

searchingformysir...

The doctors diagnosed me with a Hero complex...This despite my sadistic nature.....

Can you have a Hero Complex and be Sadistic at the same time?




searching4mysir -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 12:04:43 AM)


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ORIGINAL: TxSeekers

I saw a profile once on here. This girl posted her profile and two days later said she had found an Owner on Collarme that she was going to submit to...Once submitted they were going to permanently remove her nipples and clit and sew her pussy shut except for a hole big enough to piss out of....There was more but I don't recall....it was all along those lines, basically within a month of being theirs she planned to have her body destroyed and made useless for doing anything other than propping a door open....



And the doctors said I was disturbed.....


And you actually believe everything you read on the Internet too, right? For 35 you are too naive to even be on the Internet.




TxSeekers -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 12:09:53 AM)

The fact is it is not the first time I have seen such things. I read a lot and have been to a lot of places with some really interesting people. It just caught my attention for how swiftly the profile changed with such extreme ideas and the connotation that someone would literally throw themselves into such a thing so swiftly.




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 12:10:05 AM)

Damn, people don't believe all the shit posted on the internet? Fuck, there goes my bullshit lines about turning a girl into a human candy bar, slicing her into pieces and selling her off (piece by piece) on the street corner. WTF, this just ruined everything. Damn damn... Damn you people all to hell.




TxSeekers -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 12:15:01 AM)

It amuses me when I see such things.

Seriously as fun as debating with you all would be....ahem....I do have better uses for my time. And I doubt any of you really want to look that deep into my pysche, nor are most you actually interested in real dialogue and discussion of ideas.

I prefer to go back to my more productive and fulfilling interests.

So have fun.

Those really interested in serious conversations may feel free to email me. But if you are going to play ignorant and assinine then I will block you. I am always up for intriguing debates on various topics. But I won't let myself become further involved with a debate that is not going to go anywhere other than bashing of each others beliefs.




LadyConstanze -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 12:18:09 AM)


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ORIGINAL: TxSeekers

Possible solution...report them to the IRS.

Call it a gift if you want but it is still financial recompense for services rendered. Thus Income. Thus taxable I think.


That thinking thing doesn't seem to go so well for you. Which service would they have rendered by accepting gifts?

Honestly, you got that much time to worry about what some kid does? Maybe you do need to find a hobby. Somebody can make a profile claiming they are the Queen of Sheba, are you going to get all hot and bothered about that?

Now I let you into a secret, most of those "hot young things" are actually not hot young things but balding old guys who use the picture of a hot young thing, enjoy dominating them, hope you are at least bi-curious...




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 12:23:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TxSeekers

I saw a profile once on here. This girl posted her profile and two days later said she had found an Owner on Collarme that she was going to submit to...Once submitted they were going to permanently remove her nipples and clit and sew her pussy shut except for a hole big enough to piss out of....There was more but I don't recall....it was all along those lines, basically within a month of being theirs she planned to have her body destroyed and made useless for doing anything other than propping a door open....

And the doctors said I was disturbed.....


It's profile which make you realize either
A). This person is extremely full of shit or
B). Just how off the wall extreme/twisted some people are.

Take your pick between these two fucked up evils.

It's programmed into our human nature to learn more towards the Optimistic side of things. This means that most people would assume it's A. It's the downfall of our own internal Optimism which people can pray upon us and others (seriously).

To say, that this was just a line of Bullshit (may or may not be the truth).

Our internal Optimism wants to try to find the good in people more than the bad. In fact, it gets us into trouble.

I try very hard to tell people, who have got into bad relationships... It's not the good in the other person that's the issue... it's the Bad shit which is the problem.

In fact, our own optimism (overall as a human race) is which drives people to make excuses for other people's fucked-up-ness.




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 12:58:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


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ORIGINAL: TxSeekers

Possible solution...report them to the IRS.

Call it a gift if you want but it is still financial recompense for services rendered. Thus Income. Thus taxable I think.


That thinking thing doesn't seem to go so well for you. Which service would they have rendered by accepting gifts?

Honestly, you got that much time to worry about what some kid does? Maybe you do need to find a hobby. Somebody can make a profile claiming they are the Queen of Sheba, are you going to get all hot and bothered about that?

Now I let you into a secret, most of those "hot young things" are actually not hot young things but balding old guys who use the picture of a hot young thing, enjoy dominating them, hope you are at least bi-curious...


Why those morally bankrupt old bastards should have their balls cut off... It's true, really. Anybody can create a profile laying claim to be anything and everything.

On a more serious note - there are some women on here passing themselves as being far more attractive and younger than they actually are. Some have gone to great lengths to have a reservoir of pictures they snagged off some other girls profile (be it from facebook or where ever). So, just because you don't see the Professional Photo's which some scammers use, don't mean somebody ain't trying to scam you.

Some people are not trying to scam you for money. Some are trying to scam your attention, to make them feel better about themselves (an Ego boost). There's a number of different reasons why they scam or commit this kind of fraud. I call it for what it is. Because some people will scam you for your emotions, if not for your desire. Whatever angle they can work.

These are way way more advanced Game Players, and they too exist.

In fact, they will talk on the phone. Share pictures, share completely made up stories about shit. Even resort to stealing somebody else's lifestory that they know (to keep their story straight). However, even these players slip up. Sooner or later the truth comes out.

I really don't have much nice to say or think about this kind of behavior.

Okay, this is the message board where people post all kinds of shit about things. At times, it's a place for people to even rant or unload things on their mind. Be it a troubled relationship, trouble doing an activity for first time. Trouble with this that or another thing.

Sincerely, I myself wish that this site had way way less fakes. There's not a damn thing in the world I can do about it. In fact, I've been burned.

In many ways, getting burned has made me either

A) stronger or
B) More withdrawn/guarded or
C) Broken me.

I have yet to figure it out, and fuck if I know.

I've carried things all the way to the real time face to face and still got burned. Which proves you can still get played, even when you can reach out and touch them.

Another f'd up story is the girl on here, which got off on "The Sport of Dom clipping" in fact, it gave her a sense of empowerment. She pretending to be something which she was not. Anyways, her and I ended up talking voice...and in the course of a few weeks. She found herself emotionally getting connected. She also let her own guard down. Which happens when you become comfortable with talking to somebody. She let her guard down, then one night something accidently slipped out. She hit the panic button, and literally threw the phone across the room... because she knew game time was up. In fact, It allowed me to take hold of the string and unwind the whole ball of bullshit. (A lot of time down the drain, wasted time).

So the Motives for deception on here are often far greater than just for financial gain.

The money scammers don't bother me, near as much as the emotional mental con jobbers do on here.

What's amazing is one thing, which has been a consistent Excuse is the justification that everybody else on here is fake.






stellauk -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 1:57:36 AM)

How about booking a one way flight to somewhere like Iran or Syria where you can live in idyllic peace in totalitarian regime which cracks down on people who don't think like you?

At least it would spare us all from these 'wah wah wah look at these women boo hoo hoo preying on us men wah wah wah demanding money whine whine whine' type threads.

You're probably seeing this courtesy of some Internet browser which already has a solution to your problem.

See that arrow pointing left in the top left hand corner? If you come across anything you don't like on the Internet you click on that arrow and that what you find objectionable is gone. Problem solved.

The strength of this 'community' doesn't lie in everyone thinking the same, but in everyone having the freedom to be themselves, live the way they want to live, and make their own choices.




LadyPact -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 2:00:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TxSeekers

So how long do you think it would take for most of these "Financial Dommes" (the ones barely old enough to drink) to break and submit if challenged face to face?

Seriously, I perused the profiles of dommes today because of an arrogant email I received from some halfwit wannabe domme, and I was surprised at the number of barely legal dommes demanding tribute and such.

Honestly how much experience do they have and what kind of fool gives his/her hard earnings to some kid to be spent on useless junk?

Are these the values you want to instill in the next generation of lifestylers? That it is okay to know absolutely nothing about the lifestyle and be trying to live off those that are serious about it?

Surely there is a way to crack down on this nonsense.

Wouldn't it be nice if they screened this place better and blocked stupidity like this.

Here's My question back to you.  Exactly what are you doing about it?

If your concern is for the next generation of lifestylers, what actions are you taking?  Are you promoting your good experiences in the community?  (I mean the real world one, not the stuff that can be found on the net.)  Are you spending your time teaching topping skills or taking any speaking engagements to explain how your dynamic works for you?  Do you show up for learning days in the community or help those fledgling TNG groups get off of the ground?  How many events this year have you helped to set up or clean up or volunteer the hours needed to get it off of the ground?

Always remember.  When you are pointing the finger at the site about what it isn't doing to the next generation of lifestylers, there are still three fingers pointing back at you.




ResidentSadist -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 3:52:42 AM)

The day they crack down and expel amateur prostitutes from the world of kink or the vanilla world for that matter, well, that's the day I'll start looking for new planet. Prostitution isn't my kink, neither is AB diapers, brats or princesses but they come with the turf. You have to respect the fact that every 18 year old hooker trying her hand as a FinDomme today will be an old thoroughbred one day and her skill set will someone happy, whether it is her clients, relationship partners or a demo she will give at a dungeon where someone ends end up learning something new that enriches their life.

The noobs, pros or otherwise, are part of the game and will eventually learn it or leave. Getting rid of them before they mature won't save the world, it will ruin the wonderful and delicate balance we have that makes it all so beautiful. So broaden your narrow mind, look to the future and see the benefits they will bestow once they do learn.




SexyThoughts -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 4:26:24 AM)

I seriously reckon CM should have a dropdown, for the Amateurs/ Pros /Offduty Pro's. Since it'll let people filter by long term plans

But and it's a butt the size of congress, Craiglist got made an example of for supporting prostitution. If CM puts that option in, their lawyers will have to explain state by state and country by country whether they're a social site or a pimping site.
And that's assuming people aren't lying about their dating costs




DarkSteven -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 4:41:06 AM)

Dude. This is the Internet. On it, there are men pretending to be women, marrieds pretending to be single, people who state to be PhDs who cannot spell, draft dodgers who claim to be combat veterans, tweens pretending to be 18.

I have had people say that Obama is a Muslim. I have had Nigerians tell me that they are lawyers with fortunes for me.

I have had to use my brain to get past all this, and to take it in stride that there are some people that won't mesh with me. And that's OKAY. That's called maturity.

Now, it seems like you are offended that there are people on this site who you do not approve of, and you demand some sort of standards.

Get over yourself and know that there will always be those who you do not approve of, and that coexisting with them is a sign of your own maturity.

And know that if there were standards and exclusivity about who gets to be one of the cool kids and remain on collarme, you might not meet someone else's.





kalikshama -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 5:17:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: TxSeekers

Are these the values you want to instill in the next generation of lifestylers? That it is okay to know absolutely nothing about the lifestyle and be trying to live off those that are serious about it?

Here's My question back to you.  Exactly what are you doing about it?

If your concern is for the next generation of lifestylers, what actions are you taking?  Are you promoting your good experiences in the community?  (I mean the real world one, not the stuff that can be found on the net.)  Are you spending your time teaching topping skills or taking any speaking engagements to explain how your dynamic works for you?  Do you show up for learning days in the community or help those fledgling TNG groups get off of the ground?  How many events this year have you helped to set up or clean up or volunteer the hours needed to get it off of the ground?

Always remember.  When you are pointing the finger at the site about what it isn't doing to the next generation of lifestylers, there are still three fingers pointing back at you.



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PeonForHer -> RE: Young "Financial Dommes" (5/28/2012 5:27:57 AM)

FR

What I really don't get is why so many people think it's worth talking about why this subject isn't worth talking about!




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