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Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 8:53:53 PM

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So how long do you think it would take for most of these "Financial Dommes" (the ones barely old enough to drink) to break and submit if challenged face to face?

Seriously, I perused the profiles of dommes today because of an arrogant email I received from some halfwit wannabe domme, and I was surprised at the number of barely legal dommes demanding tribute and such.

Honestly how much experience do they have and what kind of fool gives his/her hard earnings to some kid to be spent on useless junk?

Are these the values you want to instill in the next generation of lifestylers? That it is okay to know absolutely nothing about the lifestyle and be trying to live off those that are serious about it?

Surely there is a way to crack down on this nonsense.

Wouldn't it be nice if they screened this place better and blocked stupidity like this.

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 9:03:26 PM

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here we go again for the millionth time.

I'm too tired to even make popcorn tonight

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 9:10:45 PM

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I'm thinking that this OP was written by the gentleman in the profile. While I am WAY older than old enough to drink and I am not arrogant, it seems that someone here is wanting to see the female Dommes "break and submit." So, sir, what makes you think you are so special that you could manage this?

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 9:10:48 PM

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I realize it is a lot to ask to have a free site police itself to such an extent. but there has to be a better way to ensure people are not wasting their time with fakes and flakes. Some kind of test, or q&a. Providing a proof pic to the site admins before allowing them to contact anyone.

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 9:12:13 PM

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Sighs and moves on

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 9:19:18 PM

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 9:21:25 PM

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Oh joy. a chance to demonstrate what an arrogant egotistical asshole I am..or a chance to show how proper and respectable I can be...

NBMG I realize there is a use and a place for financial dommes. And I offer respect to those that have earned it. Normally that would be those that have been in the lifestyle longer than me or that know more than I do. Those that show that despite their knowledge they Keep striving to learn more and thus better themselves and thereby better their significant other/s.

In regards to your question...

First let me state I generally stay off boards like this as they annoy me and the temptation is there to freely speak my mind and damn the consequences. But I will attempt not to descend into a diatribe on the vagaries of our society and its multiple and varying faults.

What makes me think I could "break and submit" these supposed financial dommes?

I am intelligent and creative. Devious and relatively demented. Though I manage to pass through the limited society we have without legal issues or my sanity being questioned to the point of men in white coats coming to take me away. I am perfectly capable of finding a way to break some silly kid domme.

The odds are I am sufficiently sadistic and twisted enough that if given the LEGAL opportunity to do such they would not last an hour.

Now generally my sadistic side does not come out to play very often due to the fact my girl is not able to handle it.

Realistically speaking anyone can be broken.

Give me a week with any of the wannabes face to face and I give my word they will either accept they do not belong in the lifestyle, or they will know their place is on their knees

Ugh I hate when I go on a tirade.

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 9:31:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TxSeekers

I realize it is a lot to ask to have a free site police itself to such an extent. but there has to be a better way to ensure people are not wasting their time with fakes and flakes. Some kind of test, or q&a. Providing a proof pic to the site admins before allowing them to contact anyone.

Yes because everyone on a kink site wants their pictures out on the internet right? Do you know how much time it would take for everyone to provide this picture and have them all vetted? Who is to say the pictures are truly of the user? Testing and asking questions takes time and therefore manpower as well, which translates to dollars.....are you willing to pay to use this site? I'm not. I'd rather depend on my own powers of observation and keep it free. Besides what good would all that do for a married cheater? Does it keep them from using this site?

Look, this has been done to death, I always say show me a solution that is fair and wouldn't cost so much time that this wouldn't be a free site anymore while respecting the people who use it and I'd back it. I've never seen anyone come up with anything yet. Besides calling some users flakes and fakes is blacklisting, surely you can see the issue with stepping in to police the users. Do you have any idea how big this site is?

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 9:35:38 PM

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TxSeekers,

I do not claim to be a findomme, yet I cannot see where it would be necessary to put those who are such on their knees. I think your claim is just more male chest thumping going on. Just because your style of Domination is different than theirs, it does not mean they belong on their knees.

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 10:01:30 PM

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Honestly, I think most of them are players. It is not about chest thumping.

It is not necessarily about style of domination. It is about knowledge, experience and respect for the lifestyle and for the people in it.

I think they lack all the above and see the lifestyle as a easy way to make money without bothering to truly learn anything about it or experiencing it for real.

Thus showing they don't deserve to be on the site. They are leeches and parasites.

As for the putting them on their knees maybe it is a bit over the top...-shrugs-...But they should learn there are consequences for their actions.

And yes I am aware there are probably a few that actually are serious about the lifestyle. But they are few and far between.

As far as the paying part...if I was assured the people were real and serious about the lifestyle then I would have no issue paying for access. Assurances that the people that I am dealing with are real and truly interested in the lifestyle is worth paying for. Unfortunately I haven't seen a pay site that offers such either. So we get stuck with a plethora of twits.

For the record I don't believe every woman belongs on their knees. Just most of them. -grins-

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 10:27:26 PM

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Possible solution...report them to the IRS.

Call it a gift if you want but it is still financial recompense for services rendered. Thus Income. Thus taxable I think.

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 10:59:15 PM

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quote:

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For the record I don't believe every woman belongs on their knees. Just most of them. -grins-

Well, I will have to disagree with you there. I happen to believe there are some men who do too.

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 11:05:56 PM

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Dude....and twice last week I could have owned a slave for just $20.00 LOL for the same amount of money I can also buy a special rubber bracelet that will help me improve my Basketball skills. The same amount of money, might get somebody to Pray for my ass (Special Love offering prayer in exchange for my money). Scams are everywhere!!! What makes BDSM immune of this none-sense?

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 11:18:48 PM

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Please inform us all how at the ripe old age of 34 you feel you are the least bit qualified to determine who deserves to be on this site? So far your statements sound to me to be those of a man who has some serious problems with women and a serious lack of knowledge about all but his particular beliefs about BDSM.

So given those character traits that you have shown, it is likely you would be among the first to be denied access to this site.

For the record, I find the silly young girls looking for "tributes" to be just that, silly young girls. But much more ridiculous is that there are more than enough men willing to give in to their requests and spend much of their "hard earned money" to please the young girls. So who really is stupider here? The young girls who have found an easy way to make money, or the foolish men who succumb to their whims?

I also have no doubt in my mind that there are more than a couple of dommes who, given the opportunity could have you simpering and begging on your knees without much challenge at all.

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 11:24:08 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TxSeekers

Oh joy. a chance to demonstrate what an arrogant egotistical asshole I am..or a chance to show how proper and respectable I can be...

NBMG I realize there is a use and a place for financial dommes. And I offer respect to those that have earned it. Normally that would be those that have been in the lifestyle longer than me or that know more than I do. Those that show that despite their knowledge they Keep striving to learn more and thus better themselves and thereby better their significant other/s.

In regards to your question...

First let me state I generally stay off boards like this as they annoy me and the temptation is there to freely speak my mind and damn the consequences. But I will attempt not to descend into a diatribe on the vagaries of our society and its multiple and varying faults.

What makes me think I could "break and submit" these supposed financial dommes?

I am intelligent and creative. Devious and relatively demented. Though I manage to pass through the limited society we have without legal issues or my sanity being questioned to the point of men in white coats coming to take me away. I am perfectly capable of finding a way to break some silly kid domme.

The odds are I am sufficiently sadistic and twisted enough that if given the LEGAL opportunity to do such they would not last an hour.

Now generally my sadistic side does not come out to play very often due to the fact my girl is not able to handle it.

Realistically speaking anyone can be broken.

Give me a week with any of the wannabes face to face and I give my word they will either accept they do not belong in the lifestyle, or they will know their place is on their knees

Ugh I hate when I go on a tirade.

Speaking one's mind can often result with being "In for a Penny, In for a Pound". Yes, Realistically speaking anyone can be broken in a number of ways. I myself indulge the thoughts of breaking various people for various reasons. There are some people in this world which provoke me. The inner sadist inside me wants to take hold of them. Personally, I don't have enough time to break them all in, if I could Legally do it. Hell, many people would be a waste of time anyways (Nothing real to be gained).

Fuck, the task of cracking down on people in the lifestyle for lack of ethical behavior... is on par with cleaning up Politics, Religion, Big Business and more. Even on par with cleaning up Cities, towns and etc.. There are always going to be people like this... In all walks of life. If you let them disturb you to this level, you'll end up snapping and loosing control yourself... or turning into a Jaded Cynical Bastard. You'll become one of those Old fucks mindlessly swearing in a Wheelchair when you get older. (Yeah you know exactly what I'm talking about). Don't let them drive you crazy, because they will if you allow them into your mind like this.

Remember - "You are in control of your next thought and action this minute" or rather "I am in control of my next thought and action this minute".

Some people need to be kicked to the curb. Toss them out of your thought streams like the trash they really are.

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 11:35:43 PM

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LafayetteLady thank you for the lovely attack. And for the record I am 35, collarme doesn't update your age automatically and I haven't corrected it apparently yet.

For the record, the comment you refer to was said in jest thus the grin at the end. I am aware there are people who belong in both positions and some who belong in neither position.

However, in response to your question as to what qualifies me? Intelligence level, Experience level, the fact I can use my brain for more than thinking of ways to get into a persons pants or their wallet. Though the second part is questionable since I am in sales for a living. -chuckles-

I have been around long enough and been through enough and learned enough to generally tell when someone doesn't have a clue about a particular matter and therefore should keep their mouth shut at the least or walk away before they show how inept and undeserving of consideration they truly are.

I do have an extensive knowledge of many different paths of the lifestyle. More than many I have met in the lifestyle. And I do not scoff at those that show Actual Knowledge about the subject matter. I do laugh at those that lack the experience and knowledge to Safely, Sanely and Consensually pursue the lifestyle in a relatively healthy manner with the respect given to it that it deserves.

I don't have issues with women. I think they all look great in a collar. -grins-

(yes that was another joke)

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 11:36:11 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TxSeekers

I realize it is a lot to ask to have a free site police itself to such an extent. but there has to be a better way to ensure people are not wasting their time with fakes and flakes. Some kind of test, or q&a. Providing a proof pic to the site admins before allowing them to contact anyone.

Why not let them be adults and figure it out for themselves? Personal responsibility, you know.

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 11:41:17 PM

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Indeed Whiplashsmile4

This is why I generally stay away from boards. I enjoy debating and tend to get carried away. I can debate either side from a logical standpoint, but generally on subjects like this my twisted sadistic demented side wants to come out to play.

Everyone that knows me thinks I am an Arrogant Egotistical Asshole at my work. They all know I am in the lifestyle as well, so they all think I am sick and twisted as well.

But honestly what they see of me is rather tame in comparison with what goes through my mind on a regular basis.

And you are correct about the results of a pysch eval

How about a Common sense and morality test?

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 11:52:37 PM

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quote:

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Indeed Whiplashsmile4

This is why I generally stay away from boards. I enjoy debating and tend to get carried away. I can debate either side from a logical standpoint, but generally on subjects like this my twisted sadistic demented side wants to come out to play.

Everyone that knows me thinks I am an Arrogant Egotistical Asshole at my work. They all know I am in the lifestyle as well, so they all think I am sick and twisted as well.

But honestly what they see of me is rather tame in comparison with what goes through my mind on a regular basis.

And you are correct about the results of a pysch eval

How about a Common sense and morality test?

How about a "Life Skills" test instead. Not to mention the number of people using Siri on their iPhone as a Life skill replacement these days. Siri - How do I use a gas pump. This was after Siri gave them instructions as to how to enter the gas station.

I make jokes about how truly Kind I am because I don't act upon 90% of the shit that enters my mind.

Dude, I more than have my share of stories I could post about subbie/slave girls and even stories about some of the Doms/Masters on here too. Stuff that is more amazing than any fiction you could dare dream up inside your head.

Every time when I think I've heard and seen it all... along comes somebody which violates this.

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RE: Young "Financial Dommes" - 5/27/2012 11:52:55 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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How about a Common sense and morality test?

Common according to who? Given that most of society thinks we're all crazy and have so morals anyway, that would be a kind of tough test to administer.....

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