HisPet21
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No, the dominant is not always "right," at least in the objective sense of the word. Every human being is flawed; every human being makes mistakes. Anyone who says otherwise is lying, or stupid.
But in some cases, for the sake of a preferred D/s dynamic, the dominant or master always gets the final say, regardless of whether or not the sub strongly disagrees with said decision. The power the dominant has can vary from relationship to relationship. Some dominants require that their submissives simply obey the decisions they make, others require their submissives to take on their opinions, and in some cases it goes as far as consensual brain washing, such that the subs in question lose their ability to even disagree with a dominant's perspective. I am not a fan of the latter two, but each to his own. Go for the dynamic that is right for you.
In my ideal relationship, I wouldn't be required to take on the opinions of my dominant. I am not one of those "mold my mind so I am your clone" type of submissives. I prefer men who understand their limitations and prefer the democratic discussion of an important issue to giving orders. Even if the dominant has the final decision, I require that he listens to my opinions and even lets me make decisions on issues he has less familiarity with. If he doesn't, he isn't the dom for me.
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