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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 10/23/2012 1:47:36 AM

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Dunno just joined

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 10/23/2012 1:51:13 AM

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We are sorry that you are not having a good experience on the site, and that you have not found anyone suitable. Like all other sites, especially as they grow larger, there are more players. It is not possible, nor would we want to pass judgment on anyone, we try our best to keep all types of censorship to a minimum, including passing character judgment. Someone who is not suitable to you, or may seem fake because of his or her ideals or lack thereof, may be exactly what another seeks. We only hope that, as adults, members may up their own mind with the end result of achieving their end goals, whatever those may be, on the site. We do regret that you have had an unpleasant experience thus far, and can only assure you that we know personally of MANY that HAVE found what they seek here, from friendship and discussion, to life partners, and everything in between. We hope you decide to stay and that you have good luck with whatever it is you seek.

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 10/23/2012 2:43:55 AM

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Okay, mine is fake. But the profiles of the 5...no, 6...subs & slaves in my polyamorous leather pack are totally real. The reallest. No, really.

"All those who are real, post" Uh...so if you post here, you've proved you're real?

Folks running sock puppets will never figure out our advanced, space age "Post Reply" button technology?

Actually, mine is real. I totally vouch for myself. And so do my girls.

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 10/23/2012 4:12:12 AM

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Some of us are not on here looking for you, we just want to be a part of the community and keep in touch with others we have met here. I run my profile with no info solely because I'm not interested in ” finding”, just keeping.
Am I fake? No, I promise nothing....but you can't block some information to trolls, so I don't even try. For instance, um not 99. She dated Maxwell Smart right?

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 10/23/2012 4:27:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: AlexC4U2003

I personally take offense to this sites automatic spam if u send the same message to a bunch of profiles. most people u contact on here have not been on in months or years so most will not respond for whatever reason. Plus, Why should I compose a completely new message for every profile when some of them don't even bother to write anything in their profiles and when it may not even get read in the first place? I will send a short simple message on first contact, and if the person replies, then I will go into more detail and more specifics.

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone on my own island on this one?

My understanding is that the spam filter is not automatic - a certain amount of people have to report your messages as spam. So apparently your target audience of gay male subs feels the same way about spam as women do.

I am curious as to what would prompt you to write to men who don't bother to put anything into their profiles. Is it their pictures? Then you can write something personalized about their picture.

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 10/23/2012 4:33:57 AM

Toysinbabeland

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Alec... when someone writes me a form letter I do not feel like they were trying to speak directly to me, I come pull it up and press delete.

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 10/23/2012 6:55:17 AM

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I personally take offense to this sites automatic spam if u send the same message to a bunch of profiles.

Ummm...that's kind of the definition of spam. If you don't like being nailed as a spammer, then stop being one.

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 10/23/2012 8:56:14 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AlexC4U2003

I personally take offense to this sites automatic spam if u send the same message to a bunch of profiles. most people u contact on here have not been on in months or years so most will not respond for whatever reason. Plus, Why should I compose a completely new message for every profile when some of them don't even bother to write anything in their profiles and when it may not even get read in the first place? I will send a short simple message on first contact, and if the person replies, then I will go into more detail and more specifics.

Does anyone else feel this way or am I alone on my own island on this one?

Why should you compose a completely new message for each individual? I suppose it is what it contains, but 99% of the population likes to be addressed as individuals, such as someone taking the time to show they have read their info, or maybe have true interest in THEM, as an individual.

I mean alot of people get junk mail, and the newspaper, it goes out to the masses. Who wants to be addressed this way? It screams desperation to me. Its like well whoever messages me back. Most people want to feel more acknowledged, I know I do.

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 10/25/2012 1:32:50 PM

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I just had someone ask me if I was real or not. I felt flattered. lol

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 10/25/2012 1:34:21 PM

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There are only six or seven real women profiles on this site that aren't fake.

I know cuz I created all those profiles personally.

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 10/25/2012 1:36:45 PM

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Thanks Ron, I think you did a great job on mine.

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 10/25/2012 2:13:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24
I mean alot of people get junk mail, and the newspaper, it goes out to the masses. Who wants to be addressed this way? It screams desperation to me. Its like well whoever messages me back. Most people want to feel more acknowledged, I know I do.

Guys complain and wonder why women "play games".. well, gee, it starts with the guy playing the "game" of spamming every female and seeing who is gullible enough to take their bait..

I find it particularly amusing when I do reply to an obvious mass-emailed message and only then the guy actually reads my profile, even tho in his mass-email he states he "likes my profile" (usually an outright lie)... then he finally sees I am not hardcore bdsm and not a fit (for most dudes) and I dont hear from him again.. but he thought it was ok to waste my time by spamming me..

And then there are the spammer dudes that are "travelling to my city on business" and looking for a "weekend of fun"...

so its BLOCK, then MARK AS SPAM & DELETE

Dudes do it to themselves, imo,.. you dudes get what you give..

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 11/3/2012 4:48:49 PM

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I am real, even though everyone asks.

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 11/3/2012 5:01:26 PM

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My profile is real, as am I. When messaging some one who gets My interest, I quote something from their profile message to show them that I've actually read it. I get few responses, but then let's face it, I'm actually scary to most, even within O/ur lifestyle.

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 11/3/2012 10:44:17 PM

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i assume loads are fake - they sound like they're writing 50 shades....

i just had a domme contact me and ask to work online. i said ok; first thing she said was what would you like me to do?

why is he here?

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 11/4/2012 8:35:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: LollyDee

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 11/4/2012 9:02:54 AM

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I'm still fake. Really really fake.

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 11/4/2012 10:50:03 AM

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I thought I was the real deal, and then I found 'made in Taiwan' stamped on my ass

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 11/4/2012 11:36:09 AM

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I wonder, can you be a figment of your own imagination?

Only on Thursdays.

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RE: Seriously? Are all the profiles fake? - 11/4/2012 11:44:22 AM

Kana

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I wonder, can you be a figment of your own imagination?

To paraphrase DeCartes...
I fake, therefore I am not :-)

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