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first contact with potential Mistress - 10/13/2012 11:08:42 AM   
bucsfan123


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Status: offline 		when first contacting a Mistress how do I make a good first impression with a potential Mistress?
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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/13/2012 11:13:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		Have a completed profile and act respectfully as you would with any stranger you would meet on the street somewhere or in a business. If your mama would smack the shit out of you for saying it or a strange woman on the street... don't say it. Other than that, be yourself and show some respect there too.

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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/13/2012 11:26:58 AM   
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CMail Help: How to Contact a Dominant Woman

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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/13/2012 11:52:56 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		1. She's not a prospective Mistress. She's a prospective friend, with a possibility of being a Mistress. Approach her accordingly.

2. FFS, fill out your profile. Also, use a better pic of you.

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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/13/2012 11:58:47 AM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		But DS, he did fill it out, with 28 kinky interests and 2 non-kinky.

OP, the point is to approach someone as anyone else in a polite manner with the kink taken out of the equation. No one will care about a stranger's kinky to-do list unless they're getting paid to care about it.

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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/13/2012 1:30:12 PM   
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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/13/2012 6:37:44 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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Status: offline 		Oh for crying out loud. Another submissive that can't follow directions. What kind of first impression do you suppose that makes? Right at the top of the Ask a Mistress page, the FAQ says "Read This First." So, at the risk of being redundant, Read This First:
Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman
Cmail Help: How to Contact a Dominant Woman
Better yet, read the Ask a Mistress FAQ in its entirety. That way you will be sure not to miss anything.

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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/13/2012 6:59:20 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: bucsfan123

when first contacting a Mistress how do I make a good first impression with a potential Mistress?


Don't be a dick blister

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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/15/2012 4:37:18 AM   
BlackSockSlave


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Status: offline 		Just wear that awesome Mario tee and act like me. That's all you need to do.

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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/15/2012 10:00:07 AM   
AllisonWilder


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ORIGINAL: BlackSockSlave

Just wear that awesome Mario tee and act like me. That's all you need to do.


Hey! Mario is awesome!

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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/20/2012 7:55:16 PM   
theRose4U


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Also, use a better pic of you.

HA so says dom using cell in a bathroom. All that's missing is a weiner pic with a dirty toilet on craigslist.
Steve I met you IRL a couple times...you need to follow your own advice!!

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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/20/2012 8:08:48 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		Are you saying that his picture isn't doing him justice here, and that he is even more handsome in person?
== Swoooons ==

Or are you trying to insult our dear Steven.

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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/20/2012 8:15:07 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/20/2012 8:24:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		First thing to keep in mind OP is we are women first and dominants second. You want to interest the woman, not the dominant. If the only thing you have on your mind is what you want us to do to you then you already lost the battle. In your interests you list you love getting massage but only tolerate giving it. We are not a fetish delivery service!!!!!

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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/21/2012 10:25:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: poise

Are you saying that his picture isn't doing him justice here, and that he is even more handsome in person?
== Swoooons ==[/

Yep, that pic does NOTHING to benefit him. Is even charming when he learns he's been skirt chasing a Domme for an hour!


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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/21/2012 1:43:15 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: theRose4U


quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Are you saying that his picture isn't doing him justice here, and that he is even more handsome in person?
== Swoooons ==[/

Yep, that pic does NOTHING to benefit him. Is even charming when he learns he's been skirt chasing a Domme for an hour!



I'm sorry, but I don't recall you. I assume that I was simply chatting with you, not skirt chasing. I chat a lot.

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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/21/2012 2:29:23 PM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		Lol steven, its been a few years & do you normally "chat" while trying to caress womens thigh? Face it dear that pic was old a year ago when I was on here...time for a new look!

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RE: first contact with potential Mistress - 10/21/2012 3:16:30 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

First thing to keep in mind OP is we are women first and dominants second. You want to interest the woman, not the dominant. If the only thing you have on your mind is what you want us to do to you then you already lost the battle. In your interests you list you love getting massage but only tolerate giving it. We are not a fetish delivery service!!!!!


There are some Star Trek characters that are absolutely fetish delivery systems.

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