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ORIGINAL: Ghost4U

CM is a joke in Pennsylvania. The couples only want females even though the put down males. The Females want money or are guys jerking off. The Trans post one thing and then either do not answer, want money, or are professionals. Even the males that are advertising MWM, are jokes.

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ORIGINAL: Ghost4U

CM is a joke in Pennsylvania. The couples only want females even though the put down males. The Females want money or are guys jerking off. The Trans post one thing and then either do not answer, want money, or are professionals. Even the males that are advertising MWM, are jokes.

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ORIGINAL: ccc3333

Yes, and i can say finding what i want is taking some time on here ,but patience is a virtue, because finding the right one... is worth it.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I don't think cm people are any more or less picky than any other people. We're all people the same as anyone else looking for whatever it is they are looking for. Personally, when I was on POF, match.com, americansingles.com and many others, my profile was exactly the same as my one on here and funny enough, I found the same men hanging out there as on here and bondage.com lol. They were still the same person on both sites.

People are people no matter what it is they are seeking. Everyone in the end is seeking the same things.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: ccc3333

Yes, and i can say finding what i want is taking some time on here ,but patience is a virtue, because finding the right one... is worth it.

Dude, you haven't been here long at all. There are people who have been here for YEARS and are still looking. Hell, I was single on here and other bdsm sites for 8 years before I met Master here on CM.

Ya know, finding a gal here isn't any different than finding a gal anywhere else. When you go out in the real world do you say "oh, I've been sitting here waiting for a girl for a week and still no one has shown up at my door. It sure is difficult." Or....do you just go on with your life, put yourself out there, and hope that one day you meet the right gal....bdsm isn't any different.

Please people....stop. Bdsm isn't going to make your search somehow magically any easier or better or special.

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: Ghost4U

CM is a joke in Pennsylvania. The couples only want females even though the put down males. The Females want money or are guys jerking off. The Trans post one thing and then either do not answer, want money, or are professionals. Even the males that are advertising MWM, are jokes.

Sorry to be this blunt, but I read your profile, and i basically said, "I will have sex with anybody in any combination or role." It's no wonder you're having bad luck.

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ORIGINAL: xssve

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I don't think cm people are any more or less picky than any other people. We're all people the same as anyone else looking for whatever it is they are looking for. Personally, when I was on POF, match.com, americansingles.com and many others, my profile was exactly the same as my one on here and funny enough, I found the same men hanging out there as on here and bondage.com lol. They were still the same person on both sites.

People are people no matter what it is they are seeking. Everyone in the end is seeking the same things.

Well you tend to find what you're looking for don't you?

I can usually read between the lines in PoF or any of the other sites, but it's overall a more eclectic crowd - I mean it isn't necessarily a quality of the site, it's more the sort of people that frequent the site - and sorry, kinky people tend to date other kinky people pretty exclusively, and that's selective, i.e., if you're looking for a vanilla hookup, anybody with a pulse will do - read the sub profiles in here they all want somebody experienced who can play them like a fine violin, casual players and hook up artists need not apply - again, that's picky by comparison - don't tell me you're going to date Joe Vanilla if he happens to wander in here, most of the subs in here will call him an HNG and rip him a new asshole.

But that said, I met my babygirl on PoF, talking about something completely different, lol.

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ORIGINAL: ccc3333

Whats your problem...?

It can take 1 hour or 1 lifetime... to find that 1.... just because it took you 8 years doesn't mean it'll take anyone that long, nor will i be happy if it takes that long... (jinxing myself). Been here 1 month very involved... this isn't the only site i look on either ... i finally am having one date... so i'm happy about that... keeping an open mind.

For me YEARS is too long, my search is very intense.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: ccc3333

Yes, and i can say finding what i want is taking some time on here ,but patience is a virtue, because finding the right one... is worth it.

Dude, you haven't been here long at all. There are people who have been here for YEARS and are still looking. Hell, I was single on here and other bdsm sites for 8 years before I met Master here on CM.

Ya know, finding a gal here isn't any different than finding a gal anywhere else. When you go out in the real world do you say "oh, I've been sitting here waiting for a girl for a week and still no one has shown up at my door. It sure is difficult." Or....do you just go on with your life, put yourself out there, and hope that one day you meet the right gal....bdsm isn't any different.

Please people....stop. Bdsm isn't going to make your search somehow magically any easier or better or special.

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ORIGINAL: philblack

i find cm hard to find locals in my area

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ORIGINAL: philblack

i find cm hard to find locals in my area

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ORIGINAL: SinFix

MzLovely, it appears they have done away with that feature

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ORIGINAL: SinFix

MzLovely, it appears they have done away with that feature