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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/5/2015 12:39:12 PM   
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So was the IM feature - until recently!

I know the other person has to be online at the same time.
But still... it was there just before crimbo cuz I used it.


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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/5/2015 12:42:41 PM   
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Sin is right, the chatrooms are still operational but there is no way to chat one on one here. Which is a shame.

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/5/2015 12:55:52 PM   
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hmmm mmmm... That's right, fear the Sin for Sin is always right...





Iz made a funny

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/5/2015 12:58:19 PM   
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Don't put words in my mouth, I said you're right I never said I fear you. <sticks out tongue then runs making sure to flounce on the way>

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/5/2015 12:59:20 PM   
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Get that flouncing ass back here.... Wez haz wordz mizz

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/5/2015 1:00:54 PM   
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Nuh uh I'z a lover nots a fighter.

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/5/2015 1:02:02 PM   
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ummm...


that can be arranged




just sayin

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/5/2015 1:03:30 PM   
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Ohhhhhh so that's how you rollz huh? Well he's already been outed as a good guy so I ain't scared....much.

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/5/2015 1:04:24 PM   
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LMAO...

Oh, be scared.. be very scared.. He is a tyrant after all...

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/5/2015 1:05:40 PM   
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Pffffft we'll see. <Turns, sniffs disdainfully, and flounces>

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/5/2015 1:55:27 PM   
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I hated the one-on-one chat. Worked like shit. I had it up until this past month, at least. I don't see it now.

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/5/2015 2:03:11 PM   
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Too bad in terms of it not working well. It would be nice to chat one on one. I suppose it's no great loss that it's gone then.

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/6/2015 7:32:41 AM   
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quote:

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I have a fetlife profile and i find it almost impossible to find anyone on there , they don't have a search or anything.


Fetlife isn't an online dating site, while you can certainly meet people by having discussions with them or by going to the frequent events that are organized through fetlife, if you're trying to use it as a dating site you'll end up with a poor opinion of it.

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/6/2015 7:51:25 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ccc3333

Just wanted everyone's thoughts on how Collarme stacks up on effectiveness and function.

I have a fetlife profile and i find it almost impossible to find anyone on there , they don't have a search or anything.

Thoughts everyone :)

C


They do have a search button on Fet. It's in the top right corner. I've found several people who post here on Fet using it as well as several I used to know when I was there under a diferent nick.

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/6/2015 7:57:37 AM   
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Fet search is great for finding CS people. CS is the best for most, yes. Most differences in interest.

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/6/2015 10:32:56 AM   
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My thoughts on all sites and forums are well known as are the statistical probabilities (people think I pluck random figures out of fresh air at times – I categorically assure you I do not, never will) of finding; true love d/s these go together… today I read someone’s profile he ( I know! a he said that-it happens, just not something I read a lot especially from a he – actually ive read many of his posts on here they are rather good.),
where was I
….a quick thrill, a hole to insert penis or fridge freezer etc,fb fwb, someone to talk to about everything and nothing, someone to whittle away the hours as there partners sleeps – unaware usually (these kind I do not like – honest about it – I have no problems with them), those seeking cash – most I abhor – they contribute nothing you lot would please us more than parasites if you bought all us regulars on here some chardonnay, cake shoes etc…actually my flat screen tv is defunct – a 42 inch please

A relationship
All of us on any site seek a relationship of sorts
The problem is that most people are less than honest about which type of relationship they seek and why….I am not one of those (but I could be fibbing – but my words are consistent throughout all of known time in conjunction with my malarkey profile) eg there is enough of me in it for people to come to a fairly accurate conclusion – something I rarely come across

Slippernotes
1 Any site success is this = women go where they get most mail & attention – men follow..Actually I’ve never worked out who owns this one over 10 years or so, her I did.
2 Tis why pof is the busiest – it is a relatively simple format – and where women get most mail and attention
3 Fet sites I rate this one higher than fet for talking to real credible people – I know it happens too ;)…I rate no others – perhaps someone can add in a few (not alt that’s the worst of the worst..although I have not been there for 8 years or 10 – perhaps it has changed I have my doubts.
4. Okc exceptionally quiet yet it should be the busiest – but women get little mail and attention there so it’s of no use to them,
A oddly ive read a few statistically studies the owners did about finding eg true love online – before match took them over..i agree with their figures – but they tended to do them with women not men….and worth a search okcupid and why you should never have to pay for online dating

I meant to keep this short, my apologies
Basically if you can afford the same profile on here, fet, okc pof – then do so. I do so.
5. do you know they foot me of certain fet forums for saying any of the above – no TOC broken – although those who do the footing off often break them….ach I blog that always on that site…over the years I have gave my permission 100% of the time to take. Do you know even guys with girl pictures, pretending they are girls, liars and cheats can do this
-bloody rascals (actually I view this ilk as dangerous)

Why all the above is important.
We are all online for a variety of reasons – if we said what these reasons were truthfully then it would be a better place.
Alas, most do not which seems an odd dichotomy in my mind.

1. The site with the biggest amount of liars are swingers/sex sites typically 99% of the userbase are at it…tis not so much there partner do not know its just about 499/500 talking a good story would never eg show as they are just an illusion. And I can assure you that 499 are tying up almost everyone likes them times…but the grievous shame is they tie up someone honest (oi time)
2. Fetish sites are the next worst – it’s not me or some of you…simply those I mentioned para above thing we are all sex starved whores up for it
3. Okc next worse
4. POf

That is your order op there are more single women on there…granted half them are married but the numbers of users so vast you simply have a better choice of finding someone single true love kinky – but an opposite argument can be made…oh and most on here, and fet are on pof too not so much okc

A. Yes I have long been vocal about adding in a few more variables to fet – but do you know I have never once gotten a reply from eg jb about that, as I tot up the forum bans where dangerous(some)

This site does need a verification system and the removal of all stolen pictures – and id move the fin dommes to their own section most are fake, and some downright dangerous. ( I said most not all)


Sorry for the lack of formatting i meant to be brief :D

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/6/2015 6:50:09 PM   
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Um... can anyone decode that ^

I've tried every decoder ring they make on every incarnation he takes and I got nuthin.

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/6/2015 6:58:35 PM   
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Out of curiosity how do you know how much attention women get on those dating sites?

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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/6/2015 7:19:44 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ccc3333

Just wanted everyone's thoughts on how Collarme stacks up on effectiveness and function.

I have a fetlife profile and i find it almost impossible to find anyone on there , they don't have a search or anything.

Thoughts everyone :)

C


Fetlife is most a social site; it's not designed for dating or easy search of members.

However, because of that, people there aren't inundated with messages like they are here. It simply takes more effort on your part to find them, by, say, combing through groups in geographies near you.


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RE: Is Collarme . com the best place to find a Sub/Slav... - 1/7/2015 4:37:13 AM   
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quote:

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Fetlife is most a social site; it's not designed for dating or easy search of members.

However, because of that, people there aren't inundated with messages like they are here. It simply takes more effort on your part to find them, by, say, combing through groups in geographies near you.


This.

I do not friend on CS, unless I know the person well enough to provide a reference for them, which means I've actually met and interacted with them in person, usually.

I do friend on FL. Even people I don't know, although the bulk of my friends are people I have met in person, either locally or traveling.

FetLife is my kinky facebook. It's how I keep up with the people I know and love. I do not search for people on there. I use it to interact with people I am already connected to, and to keep up to date with events locally or wherever I might travel.

It is specifically set up to NOT allow you to search A/S/L or anything like that, because it is not a dating site.

So, the answer for me is that CS is the best place to look, and possibly find, but I prefer real life meeting sna gatherings to meet people, and I find those activities through FetLife and my friends.

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