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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

I'm going to inform you on the greatest activities with chicks that have big boobies..motor boating is when you (a male) puts your head in the cleavage and starts shaking your head in a "no" movement and making motor sounds with your mouth...brrrbbrrrbrrrrbrrrbbrrr

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ORIGINAL: jlf1961

Can I report level and the others that have used the unfair tactic of logic in these threads?

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

Wow. Your definition of "cunt" and mine are really different. They were the cunts, hands down. Reporting their bullshit sure wasn't. On that, we'll just have to agree to disagree.
luci

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However, though the wording may have been unduly harsh, my feelings are unchanged. I will re-word. If someone were to report a user that was obviously entrenched in debate with another user just because said someone didn't want to scroll down, yes, I would find that user's choice to do so to be less than favorable.

Better? (And yet still mildly acidic?)

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ORIGINAL: Level

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

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Times a billion!
Nothing weak about reporting, when needed. There have been major issues of trolling on some great threads. When people are trying to learn, it's kinda rude and childish to toll. To me, if we all were in or at a BDSM class and some jerk started spouting off some bullshit (and I say bullshit bc that is what it was. It wasn't a healthy disagreement, it was a temper tantrum) the people actually attempting to learn would be pissed. That's how I tend to view things here, I certainly can learn a lot from people, and have.

In this particular forum, the only thing we can do when this happens is either report or hide, or both. Nothing

Not only would others present be pissed but a DM or club manager with a grain of salt would kick them out.

PERIOD.

in real life adults in the class would tell them to shut up, and not be penalised for doing so.

taking what level wrote i don't seem to be reading it the same way as everyone else.

needles

I meant that it isnt weak to speak or act AGAINST rules, guidelines, or laws, if your conscience compels you to. I think you may be the one that got it.

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ORIGINAL: jlf1961

I have a phobia about female red heads, coming from having dated a few with really bad tempers, therefore lets ban female redheads from the site.

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You are right we are all adults, not kids on the playground.
That being said as adults, I do hold people to a higher standard than I would a child.

This is my playground though. Good point, this is also OUR casa!
No one has the right to come here and bully me.
Amen my sister!

No, they aren't laying hands on me.
Lets be honest that isn't the only abuse someone can inflict.
I am also pretty damn thick skinned.
That doesn't mean I should have to take it or will.

I do consider me reporting abuse of MYSELF to the mods the same as reporting to the police that my neighbor is beating his wifey.
Why?
It's still abuse.
It's still violates rules and MY rights.
Preach!
You (as an example) do not have the right to post, LilSquaw is a fat cunt who needs to simply fuck off and die.
That is you (as an example) being a bully and abusive.
No different than the bully on the school yard or the man who needs to beat his wifey to feel like a man.

You're right I don't know anyone who has NEVER broken a law.
In fact I know many ex cons and career criminals.
Do I choose to MY time with them?
Nope.
Not because they are ex cons.
But because I can't simply turn a blind eye to certain things.
Because to ME to do so means I am condoning it.
I make a conscious choice not to knowingly or willfully violate laws.

I TRY not knowingly and willfully violates rules of forums and sites I am member of.

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ORIGINAL: Marini

Huggles the LilSquaw/my neighbor!
Let's face it, 90% of the people that report others, won't even post here.
Thank you for stepping up, and stating your case very well.

This is my lil playground/cheers bar!
Cheers to you Sweet Feet!

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I agree most who report wont post here.
I am far from perfect but I do own my shit. Lol

Thanks.
That's you're pretty sweet yourself. :)

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To not speak up, or if need be, act, when you believe rules, guidelines, or laws to be wrong, is to me weak.

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Everything else just seems like a reason to insult those that report, or those that think no one should report.

When flames are put into a discussion, everyone that seeks intellectual discourse suffers as it often drives the discussion away from the subject.

If you are here to have fun ripping on people, rather than civil discussion, then maybe you should examine the reasons you are here and whether they match the goals of this site.

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

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ORIGINAL: Level

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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins

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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

Times a billion!
Nothing weak about reporting, when needed. There have been major issues of trolling on some great threads. When people are trying to learn, it's kinda rude and childish to toll. To me, if we all were in or at a BDSM class and some jerk started spouting off some bullshit (and I say bullshit bc that is what it was. It wasn't a healthy disagreement, it was a temper tantrum) the people actually attempting to learn would be pissed. That's how I tend to view things here, I certainly can learn a lot from people, and have.

In this particular forum, the only thing we can do when this happens is either report or hide, or both. Nothing

Not only would others present be pissed but a DM or club manager with a grain of salt would kick them out.

PERIOD.

in real life adults in the class would tell them to shut up, and not be penalised for doing so.

taking what level wrote i don't seem to be reading it the same way as everyone else.

needles

I meant that it isnt weak to speak or act AGAINST rules, guidelines, or laws, if your conscience compels you to. I think you may be the one that got it.

I agree with both of you. I would be the one to ask someone to shut up. For someone to think its weak, is probably the one I'd be asking to shut up. :)

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ORIGINAL: Level

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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

Times a billion!
Nothing weak about reporting, when needed. There have been major issues of trolling on some great threads. When people are trying to learn, it's kinda rude and childish to toll. To me, if we all were in or at a BDSM class and some jerk started spouting off some bullshit (and I say bullshit bc that is what it was. It wasn't a healthy disagreement, it was a temper tantrum) the people actually attempting to learn would be pissed. That's how I tend to view things here, I certainly can learn a lot from people, and have.

In this particular forum, the only thing we can do when this happens is either report or hide, or both. Nothing

Not only would others present be pissed but a DM or club manager with a grain of salt would kick them out.

PERIOD.

in real life adults in the class would tell them to shut up, and not be penalised for doing so.

taking what level wrote i don't seem to be reading it the same way as everyone else.

needles

I meant that it isnt weak to speak or act AGAINST rules, guidelines, or laws, if your conscience compels you to. I think you may be the one that got it.

I agree with both of you. I would be the one to ask someone to shut up. For someone to think its weak, is probably the one I'd be asking to shut up. :)

I have no problem telling them to shut up, or kicking them in the nuts, it's the "run to teacher" mindset I don't care for so much. But there ARE times that the report button is useful, but we'll never all agree on that. Meh.

Bottom line, I don't let too much of it bug me. I like you, and NV, and other pro-reportish folk, that's what matters.

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ORIGINAL: crazyml
Now you're just repeating the same point you've made before. Of course adults don't run to mommy. I can assure you that I have never run to my mommy over a post on this forum - Although if I did, I am certain she'd give me milk and biscuits. It's clear you liken reporting a post to "running to mommy", whereas I do not. We disagree.

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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw
Mods are not my mommy.

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Saying because I go to the mods when someone violates the rules / guidelines of the site makes we weak.

Is like saying, if I call the police if I hear my neighbor beating the hell out of his wifey I am weak.

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Or that kid that goes to a school admin and reports a bully is weak.

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GTFOH

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To ME not being able to follow guidelines and rules makes someone weak.
It tells me they lack self control.
And frankly if you don't have self control -
You sure in the hell don't have the ability to control others.

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Of course it's running to mommy.
See this is where you have ME twisted, I see it like calling the COPS.
I almost wish we had 911 up in here..
lol, I ain't hardly calling mommy, I am calling the po-po.


It's appealing to a higher power to come in and save you from the conversation with the nasty man because you can't deal with it yourself.

Unless you're reporting something which is ACTUALLY against the TOS - rather than the forum guidelines - then the probability is that you're simply asking for someone to intervene because you haven't got the stones to handle the situation yourself. It's either behaving like a child or a weakling, but it's difficult to see it as anything other than that.

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ORIGINAL: Level
To not speak up, or if need be, act, when you believe rules, guidelines, or laws to be wrong, is to me weak.

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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw
THIS 1000xs!

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK
Times a billion!

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ORIGINAL: Marini
Again and again, I rarely report anyone, but IF feel that rare need to do so, I am dropping a dime on your ass.