SeekingTrinity
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Joined: 5/29/2012 From: The 'burbs of Portland, OR Status: offline
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~FRing it~ Im reminded of a song by Bob Dylan when I read this thread. "Ah, but I was so much older then, Im younger than that now." In youth, we think we know everything. In old age, we realize just how young and dumb we really were. Back in the day, I used to engage in online only BDSM and literally thought that was where it was at. But as Ive gotten older, I have realized that online only BDSM is an illusion...a facade. Now Im saying this with the idea in mind of the situation the OP speaks of. Its definitely different when two people initially meet online and then transition to a real life experience with each other. I dont know about anyone else, but the energy (be it emotional, mental, or physical) exchange that is experienced in a real life BDSM situation with someone else just does not happen with online only BDSM. And the fact that someone who is young is thinking of letting some online Dom pimp her out to some other figment of their collective imagination just screams bad idea all the way around. OP, if you are real...I hope that you really take these things that others have said to you and at least think about them. Id caution you to not get so emotionally invested in a situation that is only going to end up leaving you ultimately disillusioned. You think that your needs and desires are being met, but you too will probably realize if you ever have real time experiences with someone just how much you were deluding yourself with this online thing.
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