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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:13:16 PM

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Then why bother with the sarcasm? Especially since I didn't initiate a conversation with her. Not necessary. And I wouldn't be so sure about how "successful" her relationships are - unless you know her personally. The outer trappings don't tell me a thing about her - or anyone else. That being said, I won't be wasting my energy on anymore catty comments.

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:16:55 PM

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searching: BTW, since she's in a poly house, she has to share her man or woman with someone else. I would never want what she has. I guess being #2 is the best she can do. Please never assume I want to play second fiddle. Sounds to me like she's settling. Why would I want that? No way Jose.

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:20:38 PM

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searching: BTW, since she's in a poly house, she has to share her man or woman with someone else. I would never want what she has. I guess being #2 is the best she can do. Please never assume I want to play second fiddle. Sounds to me like she's settling. Why would I want that? No way Jose.

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:24:39 PM

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searching: BTW, since she's in a poly house, she has to share her man or woman with someone else. I would never want what she has. I guess being #2 is the best she can do. Please never assume I want to play second fiddle. Sounds to me like she's settling. Why would I want that? No way Jose.

To those who are wired for poly, it is isn't about being #2 (btw, she is the primary in the relationship). Love doesn't "run out" it multiplies in a poly household. I'm not wired for poly but there are many on this site who are. You will most likely get your ass handed to you for comments like that. This site is pretty big on "your kink is not my kink", and putting people down for their kinks is likely to get you moderated.

I suggest you read and follow the forum guidelines (they are stickied at the top of each room).

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:29:02 PM

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"Primary" or "Secondary" the man/woman is still not hers and he/she is still screwing other people. That's playing second fiddle. And when he's ready to dump her, he'll already have a cushion. Even if she dumps him, he'll still have a cushion. I didn't insult anyone. You're the one that made the assumption about my wanting what she had and about her being "successful" in her "relationship."

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:32:24 PM

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searching: BTW, since she's in a poly house, she has to share her man or woman with someone else. I would never want what she has. I guess being #2 is the best she can do. Please never assume I want to play second fiddle. Sounds to me like she's settling. Why would I want that? No way Jose.

Considering she's the Domme, she's not playing second fiddle.

Just because you don't get or understand poly, doesn't mean that someone that gets it and enjoys is settling or playing second fiddle.

You might just want to learn about something beyond the end of your own nose.

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:34:54 PM

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"Primary" or "Secondary" the man/woman is still not hers and he/she is still screwing other people. That's playing second fiddle. And when he's ready to dump her, he'll already have a cushion. Even if she dumps him, he'll still have a cushion. I didn't insult anyone. You're the one that made the assumption about my wanting what she had and about her being "successful" in her "relationship."

This is your understanding of poly... 0.00%

Poly isnt about being secondary, or being second fiddle, its about realizing that one person cant give you everything you need in a relationship, and being okay and secure enough in yourself... to allow your partner to be happy, even if it isnt with you..

Its not about me me me me me me me me me me...

Its about being open enough with yourself to admit, Wow... Im human... and I cant do.... and my partner really loves....

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:34:54 PM

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You're the one that made the assumption about my wanting what she had

Actually, you have that backwards because I said no such thing. I said that she didn't want what YOU had, which was 2 dates with men who seem to think the world revolves around their cock (based on what you posted about their responses).

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:35:08 PM

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Domme or not. She's still a catty bitch for initiating that sarcastic post. If she was so happy in her relationship, she wouldn't need to do that.

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:36:04 PM

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Domme or not. She's still a catty bitch for initiating that sarcastic post. If she was so happy in her relationship, she wouldn't need to do that.

She is far more respected around here than you are.

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:36:10 PM

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A bunch of catty bitches on here boy:) LOL

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:36:54 PM

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Domme or not. She's still a catty bitch for initiating that sarcastic post. If she was so happy in her relationship, she wouldn't need to do that.

Ever think that you just bring the bitch out in people...

If everyone thinks your a cunt, Well it might not be everyone else whos the problem...

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:38:09 PM

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Meow.

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:38:11 PM

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A bunch of catty bitches on here boy:) LOL

Aren't you a speshul snowflake.. The fact of the matter is, cupcake, most of the people who have responded to your little bitchfest are in successful relationships, while you are looking.

Oside and K are actually very classy women and have been far kinder to you than you deserve. Me, yup, I'm a bitch.

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:40:05 PM

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Your definition of "successful" has a lot to be desired. Another sicko.

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 7:42:05 PM

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Your definition of "successful" has a lot to be desired. Another sicko.

Hmmm...considering I haven't given my definition of what "successful" is, how do you know it leaves a lot to be desired?

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 8:38:42 PM

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You say "Bitch" like it's a bad thing.

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 8:54:58 PM

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You say "Bitch" like it's a bad thing.

Shh. We're clueless.

(I won't feed the troll, but I do have a reputation to maintain as a Chicken Whisperer.)

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/3/2013 9:45:03 PM

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Simmer down? I don't think so. Some of you "Doms" need to be put in your place.

Most of us don't, nor do we make broad sweeping statements ignoring the fact we are insulting the very type of person we are so desperately seeking. Your demanding "do me" profile and your attitude is a GIANT RED FLAG to those of us that are experienced. I am pretty sure your are scrapping the bottom of the barrel for responders, and now you come here venting on the forums to bitch at us because of your failures?

I have to ask, why are you seeking a Dom here if you truly think so little of them? Doesn't make sense.

Welcome to forums, you've made a real strong first impression.

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RE: Doms Are Totally Clueless - 3/4/2013 2:00:35 AM

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Wow, see what happens when I go to bed and leave y'all up without me? Lol

Searching, thank you for your respected comment, it made me smile.
Lisha, you are really a piece of work. Let me explain how moronic your comments sound right now. Caddy and jealous? Yes I was being caddy when I posted that because I'm probably not the only member here who feels "winning" submission from a user who clearly has stolen another's pic, and ranted like a bitter brat, is just plain ignorant. Jealous? Um no. Not quite. And you're right, you don't know me. But these members do and they pretty much know everything, as I don't hide very much. So to say I'm settling, is completely wrong. I have the most wonderful husband in the world, and the greatest girls anyone could ask for. I'm sorry that your life has been so shitty that you can't find one person to love you, while I have three, and searching for another. See, we spread love here, it does have to be "won".

As far as the bitch comment, why yes, I'm actually the pick of the litter when it comes to being a bitch.

So since you have clearly made an ass of yourself, I think it might be time for you to catwalk your fake ass outta here. Perhaps steal a different pic then come back and try again. Maybe with a "winning" personality might help.

Oh and here's a bit of advice for you on your "dates" you got coming up. Try not to sound like a total bafoon, like you did in here.

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