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RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/8/2014 10:47:16 PM

SweetlySadistic1

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Just thought I'd check in here since the thread came back to life. I was NBMG and now I'm SweetlySadistic1. Same person, new profile.

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RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/9/2014 4:42:12 AM

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I always liked the name NBMG but I think the new one does sound better. More mature and mysterious

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RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/9/2014 7:37:52 PM

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Thanks.

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RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/10/2014 9:38:05 AM

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Presuming contribution by queer women is accepted on this this thread..

The Mistress/Domme I want should be... Looking for online only. As that is what I am looking for, communication and written skills are of key importance. She doesn't have to be a novelist. It isn't even so much fluid, correct English as the tone that is created with words. The way that she represents her station in how she speaks to me. As humiliation is a need, I must feel I have a focused, mean woman cowering over me. She must be able to spark this feeling in me using her words. How? I don't know. That's the magic part. But I'm blessed to have met woman who posses such magical abilities.
Looks are important, which is strange, I suppose, since we'll never actually touch. But see, I have a lot to unleash. I'm new to this path and bursting. However the gates don't open without the right (for me) combination of words and appearance.

LookieNoNookie, your tits battle cry tickled me so. I hope there are many, dozens, hundreds of real life big fluffy titties blessed by your appreciation.

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RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/10/2014 12:01:18 PM

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Marioneta, of course your contribution is welcome.

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RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/12/2014 7:47:16 PM

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I'm still searching for my first Domme but really it comes down to chemistry and personality. If I can't find somebody that I share enough in common with to enjoy a regular afternoon teasing each other while out and about town or spending a sleepy weekend in then mutually compatible kink isn't really going to save things there. With the spark then really I've just gained myself a friend (always welcome) rather than Domme. Then again I'm not the sort to just play, I need to have that connection with someone to make the play worthwhile. Beyond that though she needs to know what she wants, in and out of the bedroom, and have has problem asking, demanding, or making it happen.

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RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/13/2014 3:39:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: Rawni

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ORIGINAL: Darkersided

I dont find sub men attractive in the least.They are there to work thats all.Be of use.But if hes playing at being sub he wont see me for dust.I dont take on anyone that fails.

Why do you keep posting your negativity on a thread that is being used for submissive men to have a voice, that we domina's can or want to hear? We all have the bad experiences if you can call them that... they aren't positive and a lot of it is a bit of a pain, but do you need to disrupt so badly because you have experienced it? Why not start your own thread if you just came to bash submissive men? Coming into a peaceful thread with your submissive/male bashing is rather sad and speaks volumes.

One of these two posters could tell someone to go to hell and get them to ask for directions...the other one...probably not.

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RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/13/2014 3:41:30 PM

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While I do believe that my list is the most significant, and do tell a vast majority of the folks who approach we would not be compatible, given your list, extensive or not. I don't see any point in entertaining a long conversation, when he lives for something that I call a hard limit.

Having said that, of course I'm interested in what the submissive gentlemen think, and desire. I really do approach this as I would any other relationship, and oftentimes, people check boxes, but I doubt most of us live or die by those checked boxes, if we were to meet an extraordinary human being, with a few wishes that one dominant wouldn't be offended by occasionally trying out.

I'm am everyday a domina, and that I can't/won't ever be able to turn off in myself. Outside of that fact, everything else I may or may not do to/with someone, is fun, that can possibly be adjusted, or avoided. So my goal is always to get a feel for how committed the other is to having his kink (if submission/service isn't it) met/tended to. M

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RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/13/2014 7:09:59 PM

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SweetlySadistic1 (re: NBMG)

The Mistress/Domme I want should be... Able to get inside my defenses (physical, mental, spiritual) immediately. She would be able to make me feel physically vulnerable, psychologically subdued, and as if I am experiencing something mystical. Not necessarily all three at once; of course, but able to provide those elements to our interactions. Tough and/or edgy would be a plus.

I do not have a physical 'type,' but lean toward short and feminine.

That's all I have to say about that.

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RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/14/2014 10:40:06 AM

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ORIGINAL: Punching3ag

SweetlySadistic1 (re: NBMG)

The Mistress/Domme I want should be... Able to get inside my defenses (physical, mental, spiritual) immediately. She would be able to make me feel physically vulnerable, psychologically subdued, and as if I am experiencing something mystical. Not necessarily all three at once; of course, but able to provide those elements to our interactions. Tough and/or edgy would be a plus.

I do not have a physical 'type,' but lean toward short and feminine.

That's all I have to say about that.

Sounds like this is what you seek.

Will furry work since I couldn't find a feminine-looking Bitch?

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RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/15/2014 7:05:51 AM

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Looks to me like a bitch is about to experience a class a asswhoppin.
I once saw a german shepard with a cat in his mouth like that just before the cat carved him a new asshole.

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RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? - 6/15/2014 7:06:52 AM

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RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? - 12/23/2014 4:19:11 AM

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one day the right godess will come along and m,ake me submit

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RE: What do the Guys want in a Mistress/Domme? - 12/23/2014 2:09:23 PM

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There is another thread in Ask a Mistress right now called What Skills? about what the Dommes would like in a sub, so I want to ask, if the subs here could say "The Mistress/Domme I want should be.....(fill in the blank)," what all would you put in that blank?? Lets here it guys.

NBMG

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(And....big titties).

Wealth/big titties....?

Big titties wins.

(I'll generate the wealth).

(Little titties are good too).

Okay...titties....all sizes....good.

Titties....good.

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