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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

But when push came to shove he did what his heart commanded him to do to show me he truly cared. That is how he won his place in my life. How he won my respect. And how he won my love. If you want a lady to love you. To make you part of her world. That is what you need to give her.

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

There are many industries built around a intangible products.

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

There are many industries built around a intangible products.

I just know I'm going to have a horny dream tonight about lots of tiny women building some kind of industrial edifice around my erect penis. Thank you for that comment, TG.

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
What is up with all the flirting men on the boards?????

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ORIGINAL: evesgrden

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I can't speak for anyone but myself, but money exchanging hands is such a small part of what FD really is.

Then why call it findomme at all? If it's really such a small piece, if money is not the core or motivation for the relationship why is it even noteworthy? Many dominants control the finances of their slaves or submissives but wouldn't dream of considering their relationship to be financial in nature.

Color me simple but it seems to me that if there's no green or gifts going to the dominant then it's a no-go. Everything else is negotiable, but that part is not.

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ORIGINAL: seekingreality

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ORIGINAL: Hollyucinogen

I apologize in advance for the double-post - I originally posted this in the wrong section ('Ask a Mistress'), and I can't figure out how to delete it.

I'm not sure if anybody cares about this sort of thing, but I made a new blog on Tumblr called 'Findom Problems' - basically, each photo depicts a problem that FinDommes (and Dommes in general) experience during the course of their normal D/s day. It's meant to be funny and relatable to Dommes everywhere, but it's also meant as a way for us be able to air our grievances, support one another, and offer advice. I would really love it if, for those of you who run Tumblr blogs as well, you would consider making some submissions to the page, so that I can represent a wider range of experiences; at this point, the only point of view being expressed is my own. Here's the link:

http://findomproblems.tumblr.com/

Thank you!

I'd change it to life of a findomme and mix in some positive stuff; nothing but complaints is tiresome.

I'd prefer to have the vinnettes fleshed out with details and real personality. They read like Chinese fortune cookies. If you're going to go that style, they need to be funnier or something. Too generic right now.

If you're trying to communicate how a findomme is different than a pro domme, you're not doing that for me. Your complaints seem like either (1) the general complaints everyone encounters online or (2) stuff that any pro domme would encounter as part of the cost of doing business.

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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

*snort* Okay, I tried to be nice about this but now Collarme is a findom problem too? < That is funny. At best by saying that you have pointed out that some finsubs do actually read the forums and might not take to well to some fin "doms" bitching about how hard things are. I understand that you are new(ish) to this but complaining about websites isn't very "dominant" and such things might explain why a few others in the community might take issue with you.