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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 8:11:49 AM   
VideoAdminRho


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ORIGINAL: Airlia

Well 'MsLadySue', good for you.
But I don't really care about Your profile. I'm not what you're looking for. You're not what I'm looking for. This section of the message is directed to 'masters' and not mistresses. So why are you even bothering writing here if you've nothing good to provide to me?


This is a reminder that per the guidelines of these forums, anyone is welcome to post anywhere.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 8:24:28 AM   
LittleStefy


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Status: offline 		There are attractive dominant men. You get back what you put out there. Being flippant and rude and bratty is not a good way to start or attract all these hot, dominant men you want! LOL.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 8:26:29 AM   
LittleStefy


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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 8:40:30 AM   
angelikaJ


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Status: offline 		1) Why do you think that dominant men would know where to find attractive dominant men?

They really aren't in the market for other dominant men.

2)[My] Master found me here.
He did not have a picture up and I never asked for a photo.
And He was (and is) so handsome.
But what is attractive to me, may not be what is attractive to you.

So if you want to scan photos, perhaps you should either browse the profiles on the other side or go on over to Fet, or find your local munches.



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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 9:13:58 AM   
MasterCaneman


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Status: offline 		I don't really care if someone finds me physically attractive or not. I'm good with myself the way I am, and my lady doesn't have issues with my appearance either. Take that for what it's worth.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 1:08:01 PM   
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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 1:47:54 PM   
Airlia


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Status: offline 		LafayetteLady, the photos are those of emporio armani magazine and are those that have their spread world wide and in my profile I clarify that the photos are not of myself but of clothing attires, photography I enjoy. Never did I claim they were mine.

As for my profile. Yes. Yes it is for my own enjoyment. I enjoy it. Clearly that speaks for itself. It is "My" profile. Mine, not yours. Hence I can do what I please to it. If the font is too small? Zoom in. It's not that complicated. Do as you please to Your profile. Why would I argue? It's your expression of your likes and desires. Cool. I don't need you to tell me how to run mine.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 1:53:53 PM   
Airlia


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Status: offline 		Through the term attractive, I mean someone who can captivate attention in the form of literacy and a grand verbosity, those that are not sixty year old men merely seeking a way to have younger women around my age 'succumb to them'. Yes, our types may vary, age may be no crucial difference to you as it may not be to the next person, but attraction (by word linkage to attractive) does not always apply to the physicality.

As for tumblr. I like it because it offers more a visual and artistic perspective to go about. Maybe it's not your thing, and I completely understand. But the one thing I asked was if there were dominants with tumbles. Why? Because usually submissive women use tumbles and I'm not really looking for the submissive perspective but the dominant male perception. That is it.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 2:03:18 PM   
LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: Airlia

LafayetteLady, the photos are those of emporio armani magazine and are those that have their spread world wide and in my profile I clarify that the photos are not of myself but of clothing attires, photography I enjoy. Never did I claim they were mine.

As for my profile. Yes. Yes it is for my own enjoyment. I enjoy it. Clearly that speaks for itself. It is "My" profile. Mine, not yours. Hence I can do what I please to it. If the font is too small? Zoom in. It's not that complicated. Do as you please to Your profile. Why would I argue? It's your expression of your likes and desires. Cool. I don't need you to tell me how to run mine.


I never said you tried to pass them off as your own. I said you didn't have permission to use them. I'm sure Emma Watson, Rene Zellwigger and Eva Longoria have no idea that their picture is on a BDSM website. I'm also sure that they wouldn't want it posted here by someone else.

Just because you admit they aren't of you doesn't mean it is ok, and is not against the TOS of this site.

Look, I didn't zoom in on your profile to read the itty bitty text. I read the first couple of lines and laughed that you thought you were in a position to give people advice.

Your profile IS an expression of you. Based on your other post, your profile and this post, it shows you to be insecure, self centered and possibly narcissistic.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 2:04:24 PM   
LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman

I don't really care if someone finds me physically attractive or not. I'm good with myself the way I am, and my lady doesn't have issues with my appearance either. Take that for what it's worth.


I always think if you took off those sunglasses, you would have these weird eyes pointing in two different directions. But I think that of everyone who has sunglasses on their pictures, lol.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 2:13:28 PM   
muhly22222


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Status: offline 		Trying to do this without bringing up the OP's profile or her apparent need to respond to every criticism...

You've really asked two entirely different questions. First, why is it hard to find attractive dominant men? Now I'm not looking for attractive dominant men (or ugly ones either, for that matter), but it would seem to me that this question could be asked by any gender, any sexuality, any side of the kneel. "Why is it so hard to find attractive submissive women?" "Why is it so hard to find attractive submissive men?" "Why is it so hard to find attractive dominant women?" What all these questions are really asking is...why is it hard to find a person I'm attracted to, and that I'm compatible with? There could be any number of reasons, of course...it depends on what you're attracted to, what qualities and/or lack thereof you bring to the table, where you live, etc.

Your second question was about BDSM-oriented tumblrs run by dominant men. They're out there (I have a tumblr myself, entirely for that purpose...well, it's really to look at pictures that I like, I just pass them on). It's really not that hard. You find one or two tumblrs that post stuff you like, then you wait for them to reblog from other people, then you follow those new people.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 2:18:39 PM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		1-Tumblr has got some hot as balls porn.I mean,they have some great BDSM stills if you,ahem,poke around long enough. My only beef is that sites tend to pop up and then disappear overnight. Otherwise, yeah,tumblr kinda rox.
2-Serious advice-I would ask a gay male,most likely a sub, where to look

< Message edited by Kana -- 6/11/2013 2:19:57 PM >

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 2:22:08 PM   
tazzygirl


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2-Serious advice-I would ask a gay male,most likely a sub, where to look


Excellent advice!

And, Im going to say it. Im so proud of you not jumping on a newbie!

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 2:27:00 PM   
JstAnotherSub


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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 2:28:58 PM   
MasterCaneman


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady


quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterCaneman

I don't really care if someone finds me physically attractive or not. I'm good with myself the way I am, and my lady doesn't have issues with my appearance either. Take that for what it's worth.


I always think if you took off those sunglasses, you would have these weird eyes pointing in two different directions. But I think that of everyone who has sunglasses on their pictures, lol.


My secret is out, I see. I wear those glasses all the time, so it only makes sense to do so for a profile pic. I buy them 3-4 at a time when they get scratched, they're UV A & B rated and Z-rated for impact. I like my eyes intact.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 2:30:42 PM   
SeekingTrinity


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I used to be cutting edge technology-wise. Now I don't even know what the hell a tumblr is. And don't even get me started on that twitter shit! But that's a rant for another day.

As for the rest, I do enjoy watching foaming at the mouth rabid tantrums for some reason. It's like not-so-hot mess meets train wreck on track 11 . All the attractive dominants are in hiding. Can you blame them? So much has been said about OP by OP herself to make running for the hills look like a very viable option. Sure as hell beats having to gnaw your own foot off to escape that particularly bear trap.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 2:39:58 PM   
Rawni


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ORIGINAL: Airlia

LafayetteLady, the photos are those of emporio armani magazine and are those that have their spread world wide and in my profile I clarify that the photos are not of myself but of clothing attires, photography I enjoy. Never did I claim they were mine.

As for my profile. Yes. Yes it is for my own enjoyment. I enjoy it. Clearly that speaks for itself. It is "My" profile. Mine, not yours. Hence I can do what I please to it. If the font is too small? Zoom in. It's not that complicated. Do as you please to Your profile. Why would I argue? It's your expression of your likes and desires. Cool. I don't need you to tell me how to run mine.


You still have no right to use the video and pictures you have, besides the fact that the site doesn't allow pictures on your profile/journal other than the designated area for pictures. So no, you cannot do as you please.

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 2:43:14 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

quote:

2-Serious advice-I would ask a gay male,most likely a sub, where to look


Excellent advice!

And, Im going to say it. Im so proud of you not jumping on a newbie!

Cripes-You make one joke in semi questionale taste and next thing ya know ten years of hard earned rep disappears and I'm tagged a newbie jumper (And not in the good horizontal jogging way either).
Even get a support group.
Funk
:-)

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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 2:56:12 PM   
Airlia


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Status: offline 		I also really used to be very go used on New technology. I'm not good with Twitter, but tumblr is very entertaining. The gifs and images and blogs are creative and artistic which is something I like about it. Plus it has many genres and categories. I just want to see specific options. I know they are out there, but the ones I find just aren't to my taste. Hence I ask if anyone reblogs from people, ect.

As for whether or not the photos should or should not be posted, they are already publicized on tumblr already. I didn't make all of them. They are glimpses from movies, shows, ect. The photos are also found on tumblr. In many categories. So I won't change them unless I feel I should change then because of other things I may like. The people and their outfits are what I enjoy. Sure. They're used on this site. But it isn't as though I'm saying 'Emma Watson is having kinky sex". This photos are out and about already. All over the media because the actress and model agreed to have them out. They're publicized photography. Thank you for your concern however

To those that say I can't have photos on my profile, they are already there. So its inevitable now.

@JstAnotherSub: He's more than enough. I'm not looking for a dominant male to pursue. I'm looking for dominant male tumblrs. Simple. If they aren't old pervs even better.


@AngelicaJ: Thank you for the insight.


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RE: Attractive Dominant Men Are Hard To Find - 6/11/2013 3:01:16 PM   
Rawni


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