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Life is good - 6/18/2013 11:22:41 AM   
samdarella


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Master (ResidentSadist) and i met here on CM. We messaged off and on for a few months, talked on the phone a few times (He has the sexiest voice) and decided it was time to meet. I drove an hour and a half to His house. Oh how my mentors would have been shitting kittens for not meeting in public. Worse yet He had run out to the store and left me a voice message telling me to go ahead inside, the house was unlocked. That gave me pause, but i really had to pee so i went into an empty house. I heard His car pull into the garage so we met with me coming out of His house and Him getting out of His car. Our eyes met and we both broke into a smile.

It was exactly one year ago that Master and i had our first date, first kiss, first blood, first bruise, first tears, first fuck. Not necessarily in that order. And then we went inside the house. I'm not exactly sure if it was that first date (that lasted 3 days) or the second date (that lasted 4 days) or maybe it wasn't until the third date that I fell in Love with Him. We have shared many other firsts in our first year. And of course lots more dates, kissing, bruises, etc. The year has flown by. It's been a great year. Some days more than others. It hasn't turned out exactly like i expected. But of course i didn't really know what to expect. This is my first M/s relationship as well as it being full time 24/7. I had read too much, not met enough people living this life. 50 shades is not the first bdsm romance and i can't compare it to books i had read since i've never read it. I also read forums and group posts and every website i could find. I attended classes and presentations. I had dated and been involved in D/s relationships but they were once or twice a week kind of thing. But our relationship is as unique as we are. As unique as everyone's is. Fantasy and reality mix in our lives. Master is a sexual sadist and i am a sexual masochist. That works out really well. I am also a pain junkie and He is a sadist. So sometimes He won't hurt me. Instead He makes me smell the dogs paws or He eats food that is over 3 days old. That is torture to me. Then there is the mundane reality shit like paying bills and grocery shopping and doctors appointments. But those can be fun with Him also. I have laughed more this year than any year since i quit doing acid. I have cried more this year than probably any 3 years combined and that includes the years my parents died. Sometimes they are tears of pain (we both love those), sometimes they are tears of laughter, sometimes they are tears of joyous emotion and a few times they have been tears of sadness and fear. Not fear of Him. But fear that i might lose Him because i'm just not good enough as a slave. Which goes back to all the reading i did. But Master tells me that i am not allowed to judge myself, that is His job. And while i am not perfect, i am the slave He chose as His partner in life. So tonight we will drink to the all that we have become in the last year. He is Master, Daddy, lover, and best friend. And tonight we will drink to the upcoming year of all that we will become. And then we will come home and He will probably tie me up and beat my ass and stick needles in me and maybe cut me. Yep after we've been drinking. Don't worry though because we have a surgical stapler. SSC, nope that's not us.

An example of tears and lack of sanity, I came home yesterday crying after getting my nails done. Master of course went into Daddy mode and asked what's wrong. I said it’s stopped raining. Well that confused Him so i explained. I recently read a quote on a random profile. It said "if you don't dance with me in the rain, then you won't be with me in the storm, if you are not with me during storm, then you will not be with me when the sun shines" And i wanted to dance in the rain.

To Master: You are the funniest, sweetest, sexiest, most romantic and caring Sadist i know. I love You more than i know how to say. Happy Anniversary Sir.


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RE: Life is good - 6/18/2013 12:27:49 PM   
Rasciallymisty


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Awe that is so nice, Happy 1st Anniversary to you both. I love seeing when people are so happy.

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RE: Life is good - 6/18/2013 6:45:56 PM   
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Congratulations to both of you!

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RE: Life is good - 6/18/2013 6:51:25 PM   
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I can't decide which one I like more.

"He makes me smell the dogs paws or He eats food that is over 3 days old." (Which, incidentally, is torture for me, as well.)

Or

"I have laughed more this year than any year since i quit doing acid."

Congrats on a great year. :)

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RE: Life is good - 6/18/2013 9:09:26 PM   
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The dog paw thing was hilarious.

Congratulations to you both. May the joy continue!

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RE: Life is good - 6/18/2013 9:12:48 PM   
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Dog paws smell great! I'm weird, I know.
But seriously, that was the sweetest. I made the "awwwwwww" face.
Happy anniversary to y'all and many more to come!

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RE: Life is good - 6/18/2013 10:18:52 PM   
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Thank you all for the well wishes. I love Florida. It rained again and we did dance. We just got home from dinner. We had a dining experience at The Melting Pot, a fondue restaurant. They closed at 10 and we left there at 1230. Life is an adventure with Master.


ETA: She is in the bathroom posting this and didn't see that CollarMe thinks it was from my account. LMAO. She is high on chocolate, we ate at the Melting Pot a fondue restaurant.

Yes, while stopping to get her nail repaired, it started raining. I stopped in the rain, took her hand, whisper in her ear with a breathy low singing tone ... "everything's gonna' be alright, everything's gonna' be OK" . . . and we slow danced and kissed in the middle of the walk as if the world around us didn't exist. Although we were clothed, it was if we were dancing naked in the rain in the middle of a meadow.

She worries sometimes about being a good slave . . . she is a good person and that is the first most important quality. The fact we are so compatible on so many levels is why I expect to see many more anniversary post in the future. But more on that later. We just got home and there is some "things" I want to do.

FYI: The dog paws thing is only part of it . . . she isn't big on getting doggy kisses (saliva) on her face either. We wake her up by playing "get the mommy" in the mornings sometimes. That is where the dog tries kissing her face as she screams in protest and tries to hide under the covers while the dog roots around until it gets under the covers and gives her a big wet one on the face. I love torturing her with the dog.


< Message edited by ResidentSadist -- 6/18/2013 10:42:32 PM >


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RE: Life is good - 6/19/2013 3:37:30 AM   
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You two are so damn cute !!!! Congratulations on one year of happiness. You both have such great senses of humor and the love radiates from your posts. I agree that there are many more "anniversary" posts in y'all's future!!

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RE: Life is good - 6/19/2013 10:07:42 PM   
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Congrats to both of you. Always loved RS, you lucky girl!

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RE: Life is good - 6/19/2013 10:14:28 PM   
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Congrats to both of Yyou...may there be many more anniversaries and laughter.

MSJ


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RE: Life is good - 6/22/2013 5:10:56 AM   
samdarella


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Yes i am a very lucky girl. And Master says He is lucky to have me also. Just think how lucky a girl could be to be with both of us. I share nice.

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RE: Life is good - 6/22/2013 8:36:54 PM   
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Congratulations samdarella. Your post was enjoyable from beginning to end. It sounds like life is a blast for you guys and that's not easy to find. Here's to many more wonderful years together!

luci

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RE: Life is good - 7/12/2013 8:07:13 AM   
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choked me up reading your post, so happy for you :-) you were obviously meant to meet.

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RE: Life is good - 7/15/2013 12:26:34 PM   
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Great post! Congratulations to you both. Hope to find my own Master some day. ;)

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RE: Life is good - 8/24/2013 9:35:53 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Dog paws made a reprise in the morning tortures the other day. I was mock torturing the slave, joking around affectionately in a sadistic way when the dog stuck her nose in to see what we were up to. The dog wasn't doing anything specific, it just wanted to join the fun. So the slave plays along and says to the dog in a very dramatic over acting kind of voice, "you betray me dog, first it's the dog paws and now this . . . you have come to help him torture me . . . woes me [umph]"

. . . the umph was because the dog looked right in her eyes, stepped forward and stuck her paw in her mouth on her own without my prompting! Never before had that happened. We never made a steady routine of the dog paw thing and it had been months since we played "get the mommy". Even then, the dog paw thing was my holding the dog's leg and tapping her paw onto the slave's mouth. This was totally voluntary, as if the dog knew we were playing torture jokes and knew that the old dog paw torture was due for a reprise.

I gotta' love an enthusiastic assistant . . . "good girl sammie, get the mommy, yes you are a good girl."

Yes, life is good.



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RE: Life is good - 8/24/2013 10:10:21 PM   
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Congrats to both of you! Muah!

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RE: Life is good - 9/5/2013 8:53:24 PM   
ResidentSadist


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She said yes.

I Just got engaged tonight. It will be a very short engagement. I am getting married to the slave on Sep 18th. Finally gonna' get a property receipt (marriage certificate) from the state of Florida. On her wedding day, samdarella will have been in my collar for a year.

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RE: Life is good - 9/5/2013 8:58:41 PM   
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OMG!!!!!! Congratulations to you both.

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RE: Life is good - 9/5/2013 9:00:23 PM   
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Wow; congratulations to you both! That will be the MOST interesting honeymoon...

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RE: Life is good - 9/5/2013 9:02:13 PM   
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Congrads on the upcoming RS and slave

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