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RE: Life is good - 9/22/2014 6:15:09 AM   
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Hope your mom gets well soon. Happy 7th anniversary... 7 years is a good stretch of time, that's awesome.

I'll make a post about the accident. She was lifting her leg as I was reaching down with the knife and she got stabbed in the calf. It was bad enough that I had to stop and staple it it back together. I will pick it back up where we left off when she heals up a bit and can play rough again.

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RE: Life is good - 9/22/2014 6:36:39 AM   
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Play rough again? When you break out the stapler, you've achieved rough.

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RE: Life is good - 6/21/2015 8:52:29 AM   
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Father's Day 2015, still going strong and living a life filled with passion, love and kink. Father's Day details in this thread -=Father's Day=- We have reached many of our relationship and life goals... and some, not so much. We hit some unforeseen financial hurdles and we aren't retired millionaires yet. But, we have been working on it!

Father's Day Breakfast Feast With Wine & Presents





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RE: Life is good - 4/30/2016 12:09:34 AM   
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samdarella has been my delightfully masochistic property for 1,319 blissful days and we are still finding ways to explore new experiences together. samdarella is fan of cruise ship vacations. I've never been on one, so we are going to take a cruise this year.

We've been out of the public BDSM scene since last fall when I got sick for 8 weeks. Since then we have been preoccupied with vanilla things like survival, launching my second business and she had to take extra shifts at work. Even though I let work temporarily take precedence over part of our relationship bond rituals, like our socializing and public display, we still maintained our daily protocols and private rituals. BDSM plays a big role in our relationship because it is our framework. Socializing, going to munches, taking her to the dungeon, stripping her and torturing her in public, that display of ownership as well as making and playing with new friends is something we both miss very much. It is an extension of our bond, part of our relationship craft. But that heavy work phase is behind us now and we are looking forward to having spare time and socializing again this summer.

She just had her birthday (April 23) and she got slave cake and birthday tortures. I am such a giver... I give and I give and I give until it hurts.


Life is good and so much more rewarding sharing it with her.

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RE: Life is good - 5/1/2016 11:21:54 AM   
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RS,

Whenever I see you post about you and Samdarella--I get all the feels. It's nice to read about a relationship that works and is fulfilling for all parties. I look forward to reading more in the future.

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RE: Life is good - 5/3/2016 11:15:39 PM   
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^ I am glad you enjoy our posts, makes it worth the time to publish them. samdarella and & I are a good pair, we fit well. It's an easy fit because we are very self aware and honest with each other. So many people lie about who they are or what they want in an effort to make themselves more appealing to others... or they lie to themselves about these things.

The truth is I am big as life and twice as ugly. I am starting to get older. I am not easy to satisfy and my sadistic streak even runs through my humor. So if you can't take a joke, you're gonna' get hurt. However, I am confident, skilled, charming, irresistible, macho, empathetic and brilliant. I give great relationship and I got so much style, my machismo comes off as handsome so my vanity and narcissism are well founded. The point is that samdarella and I truly fit together because we are honest with ourselves and each other. I have found it is often harder to discover what you need than it is to find it once you know.

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RE: Life is good - 6/19/2016 1:16:55 PM   
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We met for the first time 4 years on June 18th, 2012.

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RE: Life is good - 9/6/2016 1:03:42 AM   
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-=The Summer From Hell=-

. . . 2 boxes of 14 ga needles have been sitting unopened for the past 3 months. Sometimes life isn't a bowl of cherries and this summer was an example of that. "Life" wasn't so good. I am running a third business now. But bribery paid for new unfounded government regulations, crushing my new business investment 2 weeks after my cash outlay for raw materials. It was such a crooked deal 8 members of the FDA were indicted on the RICO act. Eventually most of the regs will be overturned. But I am screwed for now.

My sub contractor (vitamin bottling plant) for my other company went out of business w/o notice. So my main business of 20 years was temporarily shut down w/o product. I have been jumping through so many hoops that I feel like kangaroo with a bad back.

The slave/wife has been working two jobs. She was working 3 doubles on the weekend at her regular job and picked up a shift at another hospital. But this summer her regular job called her for yet another double to cover a staff shortage. 4 doubles and a regular shift is breaking her back (she stands up at work).

We are both exhausted, broke and were even too tired to go out on date night and see the debut of Suicide Squad. All this hasn't helped our sex life either. Neither of us are much into vanilla sex and she is in so much pain, torturing her with more pain hasn't been so appealing. Conflicting schedules doesn't help either. . . . oh trust me, I believe in priorities and our relationship comes first, except when raw survival is on the line. So now we are both financial slaves torturing ourselves to get over this hump.

All this pressure is breaking out backs... literally. This summer we both had to go to the doctor for back pain. We ended up in physical therapy and pain management for our aching backs. But despite all the financial pressure, schedule conflicts and sparse kink, our romance remains strong. But, I haven't stuck a needle in my slave or pulled a knife on her in months and her chain is getting dusty. Our BDSM connection has been reduced to the daily protocols and occasional light bedroom spankings . . . a deep sadistic hunger is building up. I should probably photograph our next scene, it's gonna' be a doozy.

Despite the lack of edge play, we still attend each other faithfully in other ways. On Mondays when she comes home aching from the weekend I rub the Rx cream on her back and give her a massage with one one of those Swedish massagers that straps to the back of your hand. On the weekends she stops at Dunkin' Donuts on the way home from work and buys breakfast so I wake up to breakfast in bed with hot coffee. During the week I cook a nice meal for her and bring it to her in bed. We have taken the time to share the new expansion pack for our fav video game.

So our BDSM fairy tale like "life is good" story got injected with a dose of vanilla survival strife this summer and we have been running on minimum BDSM activities. "Life" may have been a little rough lately . . . but "we are good." Our relationship is doing well. She brought me flowers the other day for no reason at all . . . just because. She is such a sweetheart.

In due time I will dust off her chain, break out those boxes of needles, spill some blood and get our kink back up to par. In the meantime, I will enjoy our romance and "stop to smell the flowers."



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RE: Life is good - 9/11/2016 6:27:38 AM   
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I am glad that the collective "you" is doing well even with the very difficult events.

Be well!

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RE: Life is good - 9/13/2016 7:23:49 AM   
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All the Best RS, hope things will work out and get better! It's good to have someone you love and who loves you to go through tough times with! I would say, this will probably be the most romantic thing, in my opinion. To get through tough times together and grow deeper and deeper inlove with each other despite of it.

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RE: Life is good - 9/25/2016 2:09:10 PM   
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RE: Life is good - 3/31/2017 10:05:52 PM   
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OK.... so we survived the rough spots, the vanilla survival strife is over. My company is back up and running and business is doing good again. The slave will be dropping her second job soon and she isn't working 3 double shifts in a row anymore. She is getting more rest and has a much brighter disposition. I have knocked the dust off her chains, I broke out those boxes of needles a while ago and we went camping last week. Talk about torture... take a city bitch camping. Jesus!

Now mind you, I had already bought a nice tent that hooked onto the SUV so you can use a regular inflatable mattress in the bed of the truck. It's a 5 person tent you can stand up in. We camped in it last year. This year nope... we bought a 12 Person Instant Pop Up Cabin Tent (20 foot) with air conditioning port hook ups. We got a giant inflatable queen sized regular bed height mattress and some magic little suitcase type thing that pops up into a kitchen table. I must admit, all that crazy shit was pretty damn comfy actually... I'll have to find some pictures and post them. Our tent was as big as some of the RV campers at the state park.

So thanks for all your good wishes. We are both very glad to be done with 2016. We are back in the swing of things, we have our kinky balance back and we wake up with smiles because life is good. Hell, I even tortured her with doggy paws earlier this month.

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RE: Life is good - 3/31/2017 11:27:59 PM   
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IM so glad to hear that RS:) hugs to you both


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RE: Life is good - 4/1/2017 12:54:45 AM   
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Very nice post, RS.

I'm kind of glad your gal won't be working so much, anymore. She must have been dang tired working double shifts.


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RE: Life is good - 4/18/2017 12:57:38 PM   
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Going on vacation with the dog. She is getting older so we want to take her with us this time, while she is still young and nimble enough to enjoy it. Staying in a dog friendly hotel with a dog friend beach right outside the front door. Another doggie beach a mile away and 4 dog friendly restaurants nearby. Patio dining with your pet. Spending 10 days in Ft Meyers Beach across from Sanibel Island. Will pop up to Sarasota to visit with old friends and an ex lives in Ft Meyers. Should be a great trip and a chance for samdarella (sandy) to meet some more of my friends.



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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

IM so glad to hear that RS:) hugs to you both


Big hugs back to you from both of us.

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Very nice post, RS.

I'm kind of glad your gal won't be working so much, anymore. She must have been dang tired working double shifts.


Me too. The schedule was awful. Life is balancing out nicely this year.

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RE: Life is good - 4/19/2017 5:09:19 AM   
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I am glad things are back to where they should be, RS!
(((Hugs to both of you!)))

Enjoy your vacation!

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RE: Life is good - 5/12/2017 6:40:05 AM   
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I am glad things are back to where they should be, RS!
(((Hugs to both of you!)))

Enjoy your vacation!

Thank you for your wishes. We did enjoy our vacations... both camping and the trip to Fort Meyers Beach. The slave went tent shopping and we got yet another tent. It is much bigger... it's a monster 10' x 20'. This is what happens when you take a city girl camping... you end up with giant insta-tent that has two air conditioning hookups and an instant self inflating queen sized bed. She wants to get a popup kitchen for our next rip.

Huge tent.


It is very roomy in side.


Big ol' bed.


Ribs for dinner.


And the dog had as much fun as we did.


I confess... I like my slave's way of thinking when it comes to camping. Big comfy bed, a tent that doesn't take any effort to pitch and a popup dinning room table and chairs. Without getting worn out setting up and having all that comfort, it was a lot of fun with little work. I had enough energy so that big ol' bed wasn't used just for sleeping.





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RE: Life is good - 5/12/2017 6:46:39 AM   
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Our second vacation was in Fort Meyers Beach across from Sanibel Island. On the way there we drove through some wild fires.



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RE: Life is good - 5/12/2017 7:26:38 AM   
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We truly had a great doggie vacation in Fort Meyers Beach... we got in tourist mode and the slave-wife really dressed for the part. She looks like tourist doesn't she?



Fort Meyers Beach is dog friendly. The hotel had a dog beach right outside the front door. There was another off-leash dog beach a mile or so away. The shops and many restaurants were dog friendly... they would bring a bowl of ice water for your dog. That is really special because for health codes, they have to keep a separate supply of bowls just for the dogs. Here we are at a dog-friendly restaurant. It was really an awesome restaurant. They had a banana pistachio snapper that was off the hook. And I had some fresh Gulf grouper. And we had conch ... and so did the dog of course.



We found the greatest little taco stand that was open in the wee hours of the morning.



Getting even more tacos from a taco stand called 'Yo Tacos' at midnight on Fort Myers Beach. Our dog likes tacos. We ended up visiting that taco place several times. The dog sits on the seat and take little bites of the food like a person. She is such a pleasure to go places with.



Sammi (our dog) went for her very first boat ride... and she was trouper. She behaved perfectly, charming the captain and the other 4 passengers.



The boat ride was a manatee tour and a manatee surfaced right along side of the boat next to Sammi. She loved the boat ride.



Sammi is a rescued dog. My slave rescued her while she was living with her ex-wife (11 year marriage) and her ex had a dog too. So when they vacationed, often they took the dogs with them. In the past 4 years, when we vacationed we had boarded Sammi with a pet sitter. As you can see by Sammi's gray face, she is getting older. So we wanted to take her with us on vacation while she is still young and spry enough to appreciate it. It was a really great adventure and Sammi is a lot of fun to travel with. We are taking another vacation in July and we are going to yet another dog friend tourist spot with Sammi.

I hope you are having as much fun with your 4 legged family as we are. Do you vacation with your pets?

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RE: Life is good - 5/15/2017 4:47:16 PM   
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LMAO. Master teases me about the little luxuries that make it even remotely possible for me to go camping. Then when I was at the dentist last week (he has to drive me as I need to be well medicated to not have a stroke at the dentist) he had some time on his hands. I thought he would probably just get a good lunch. I guess I was there longer than I thought. When he picked me up he had to take me to Campers World to show me some trailers to choose from. I think he has really gotten into the spirit of luxury camping.

I missed that inflatable mattress during our vacation in Ft Meyers Beach. The trip and the little hotel room was everything I could wish for except a bed that I could sleep comfortable in. I think they just put 2 boxsprings together. So my back hurt terribly but we both stayed well medicated to be comfortable enough to enjoy anything. And enjoy we did. You've seen the pictures. I love vacations. After almost 5 years together Master's philosophy of don't live to work, work to live is finally weakened me and I am cutting back on the self torture of working until its all i seem to do. It has aged me beyond my years working the hours I do. Which has definitely interfered with our bdsm life. Its hard to be able to enjoy pain when you feel chronic pain every day. And as much as a sadist as Master is, he prefers for me to enjoy it also. It is not always necessary. Sometimes He just has to show his love whether i like it or not. And those days i breathe and take it like a good girl. Well most of the time. Sometimes i cuss and call him names. That's when He really likes it though and i wind up crying. Or we both wind up laughing. We really are well matched. I knew i would need a man that has a good sense of humor. I am a sarcastic bitch and that will never change. He finds me amusing most of the time.

It helps that his business is back in swing and i can worry a little less. No i am not a right proper slave. I can't take an order like quit worrying and make my brain comply. As much as I would love to be able to turn off my brain and let Master take care of everything I have not succeeded. Instead of giving up on me though, he has been patient and knew i would come around sooner or later. What a lucky girl i am to have found the one man than has the patience to slowly wear down my rough edges and see what lies beneath. LOL. Sounds like a teaser from a horror movie. Maybe there will be blood and torture involved. You can bet on it.

Our next vacation is in June. We are torn between St. Augustine and Jensen Beach. We have been to St Augustine twice (withouth the dog) but have never been down around the Jensen Beach/Stuart area. Both have dog friendly beaches but Jensen Beach is off leash. Which is good for our girl because she is so well behaved. But you do have to watch out for other's dogs because not all are so civilized. We wouldn't have any problems though because Master is a bear and would scare off the most vicious of animals. And he is very protective of both Sammi and i so it will be all good. It is probably going to come down to finding a nice place to stay at a decent price that is dog friendly. You have to plan months in advance to get the best places and we just don't do that. But wherever we wind up it will be an adventure.

I must apologize for not visiting this thread (or any others) for such a long time. We really appreciate all the well wishes and are glad we make you smile. It seems to happen alot around us for some reason.

To summarize: Life is good!!!

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