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RE: Life is good - 5/15/2017 4:52:21 PM

samdarella

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Hugs back. I love hugs! Can we do it again?

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RE: Life is good - 5/31/2017 3:45:29 PM

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Congrats to the both of you!

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RE: Life is good - 9/18/2017 8:57:56 PM

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On this day 5 years ago, Sep 18th 2012, I collared sandy and she became my slave.
On this day 4 years ago, Sep 18th 2013, I married sandy and she became my slave wife.

I have more love and lust for her today than I did yesterday. And my passion, our passion, is growing stronger over time. We share a deep emotional, romantic and supportive bond . . . we respect each other and the framework of our relationship. I am madly in love with her intellect, creativity and passion for life. She's got a lotta' heart. A good heart. I lust for her beauty and crave her perverted sex drive. Her desires mesh with mine like a jigsaw puzzle. We are both kinky romantics at heart. We frequently give each other flowers, cards and presents for no reason at all.

Through it all, we maintain BDSM protocols daily and frequently engage in twisted S&M leather play. We have not stopped playing on the edge. Our kink has not waned . . . just this week she was left bleeding after a very rough non consensual encounter. Man, she was really pissed at me. But at the same time, she is my property and she is so beautiful and sexy to me, it fires my lust even if the mood is not reciprocal. So on the rare occasion when she protests, I sometimes ignore her protest. After her anger subsides, our bond as owner and property is actually reinforced . . . because I used her like property. She feels owned and desirable, even if she is mad as hell about being raped. The bittersweet harmony of an occasional conflicting emotion does not erode our bond. Conflicting emotions are part of reality and we aren't just romantics, we are also realists.

We are not inflexible. Some things may change or evolve over time. Like the fact we are both getting older and after a painful day of working hard, it isn't easy to find pleasure in painful torture. We are extremist and "warm up" used to take 2 minutes and sicking a couple needles through her nipples or putting a knife to her and cutting a little bit. She really loves knives. But a on a day when her body hurts to begin with, taking extra time for some not so edgy play, like a gentle flogging or a fur glove massage while verbally drawing her into a good mindset is required. But no matter what the case may be, we very rarely miss the point or leave each other's core desires unfulfilled in romance or kink.

And our sense of humor has not died. Five years of clowning around and we still make each other laugh like little kids. We still think each other are funny and we can both take a joke. And that concludes this happy anniversary post for my baby.

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RE: Life is good - 9/28/2017 1:49:29 AM

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While you slept tonight I spent time looking at all the pictures and the fun we have had. I am the luckiest girl to have been found in your garage five years ago. We still have many good times of fun, frolic, and kink ahead. Getting older really sucks but it sucks alot less doing it with you. Love you Master.

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RE: Life is good - 9/28/2017 3:27:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
just this week she was left bleeding after a very rough non consensual encounter. Man, she was really pissed at me. But at the same time, she is my property and she is so beautiful and sexy to me, it fires my lust even if the mood is not reciprocal. So on the rare occasion when she protests, I sometimes ignore her protest. After her anger subsides, our bond as owner and property is actually reinforced . . . because I used her like property. She feels owned and desirable, even if she is mad as hell about being raped. The bittersweet harmony of an occasional conflicting emotion does not erode our bond. Conflicting emotions are part of reality and we aren't just romantics, we are also realists.

I have more love and lust for her today than I did yesterday. And my passion, our passion, is growing stronger over time. We share a deep emotional, romantic and supportive bond . . . we respect each other and the framework of our relationship. I am madly in love with her intellect, creativity and passion for life. She's got a lotta' heart. A good heart. I lust for her beauty and crave her perverted sex drive. Her desires mesh with mine like a jigsaw puzzle. We are both kinky romantics at heart. We frequently give each other flowers, cards and presents for no reason at all.

RS, before I knew anything about you and Sam relationship, but everything you are doing as a dominant is precisely how I expect a good dominant to behave and whenever people tell me dominants like you don't exist. I see your relationship with Sam as a real life example. How love and dominance can work together. And how the relationship be mutually positive and supportive towards each other. Beyond the BDSM, when you went through hard times, she unwavering backed you all the way. I was touch that Sam worked two jobs and even got you flowers to cheer you up during that time you mention where things were rough, it shows her love for you and you also really appreciate her for it. It's beyond the kink. You and her have kink compatibility yes, I am not a masochist so I will never be with a dominant with your love for pain.

But it's also how you treat her and how you even deal with her anger. You make her feel treasured and loved. I can tell you are very good at emotional care on top of physical care. I would even say there are many sadists but few understand the emotional after care part of it.

I really hope both of you will be happily together forever.

This is the type of role model I'd like to follow for a D/S relationship. Where you don't tear each other down but lift each other.

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RE: Life is good - 9/30/2017 11:23:44 PM

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Greta,
Thank you for your compliment and your good wishes. We both got relationship skills, but there is also a factor between me and sandy that is beyond our own doing. We find each other irresistible.

I find her so irresistible . . . I make compromises, as does she. It’s just that I’m the only one of us that isn’t actually used to compromise. King of my castle at home and owner of my business at work since I was in my late teens. What looks like compromise to me probably doesn’t even register on most of your meters as compromise. I've lead a spoiled life, which makes me a hard pill to swallow for some slaves. Good thing I'm irresistible to her, eh?

Being irresistible to each other, we both feel we are stuck with each other for life. So we are careful not to say things we will regret later, because we don’t want to pollute the air between us with anything foul. Collectively, I don’t think we have said 5 things in 5 years that we wish we could take back. 2 or 3 maybe.

So as “mutually positive and supportive” as we are… sometimes it feels more like we are kinky romantic lovers letting this storybook romance happen to us. We’re just trying to feed it as best we know how and see where it takes us next.

Thank your for your insightful reply,
Kalon Eric

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