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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/1/2013 5:52:14 PM   
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No, no, I was meaning seeing the straight guys in there with their wives or girlfriends. Lol

The same logic applies. Do women freak out or squirm in car dealerships, hunting gear stores or other male-dominated places?


Actually many women have difficulties dealing with mechanics. And car salesmen. Mechanics are well known to lie to women about what's needed and car salesmen frequently tell us to come back with our husband/father. So yes, it's stressful as hell.

The stepdaughter took her car in to get a flat fixed and was told it was unsafe to drive and required $800 in repairs immediately. She drove down here where her father checked out the brakes and there was nothing wrong at all.

A friend of my daughter was told she needed a flux capacitator, the item that allowed the DeLorean in Back to the Future to fly. Luckily she recognized the reference and didn't hand over a thousand plus for nothing.

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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/1/2013 7:32:26 PM   
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Actually many women have difficulties dealing with mechanics. And car salesmen. Mechanics are well known to lie to women about what's needed and car salesmen frequently tell us to come back with our husband/father. So yes, it's stressful as hell.

The stepdaughter took her car in to get a flat fixed and was told it was unsafe to drive and required $800 in repairs immediately. She drove down here where her father checked out the brakes and there was nothing wrong at all.

A friend of my daughter was told she needed a flux capacitator, the item that allowed the DeLorean in Back to the Future to fly. Luckily she recognized the reference and didn't hand over a thousand plus for nothing.


Yup. I've ran into a few problems myself. From customer service to down right lies.

One time, my husband drove me to the dealership to pick up my car from service. I started to approach the mechanic and he walked past me, straight to my husband. Even after my husband told the man to talk to me since it's my car, he still directed his attention towards my husband while he spoke.

I've been lied to so many times about services that were supposed to be done, or required unnecessary repairs. I question and catch them but it does become extremely stressful. I'd rather not deal with it so now I don't.


As far as my husband going into VS with or without me, he is fine with it. He's not at all uncomfortable. Yeah, it appears that many men being dragged in there have a squeamish look. Even more so if you make eye contact with them. Mine, no he likes picking them out for me.



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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/1/2013 8:46:30 PM   
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No, no, I was meaning seeing the straight guys in there with their wives or girlfriends. Lol

The same logic applies. Do women freak out or squirm in car dealerships, hunting gear stores or other male-dominated places?


Actually many women have difficulties dealing with mechanics. And car salesmen. Mechanics are well known to lie to women about what's needed and car salesmen frequently tell us to come back with our husband/father. So yes, it's stressful as hell.

The stepdaughter took her car in to get a flat fixed and was told it was unsafe to drive and required $800 in repairs immediately. She drove down here where her father checked out the brakes and there was nothing wrong at all.

A friend of my daughter was told she needed a flux capacitator, the item that allowed the DeLorean in Back to the Future to fly. Luckily she recognized the reference and didn't hand over a thousand plus for nothing.

Yes, that's a real phenomenon. No, it doesn't quite apply. The original conversation was about straight men who "squirm" when their significant others drag them to lingerie stores. The squirming in question was because of their insecurity and double standards with regards to gender roles. The business itself is a-okay, though.

In your example, the squirming is caused by scammers and patronizing assholes, not by some inherent, irrational, deeply seated belief that women should never, ever be in such testosterone-filled places.

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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/2/2013 2:37:34 AM   
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There is such a double standard on this that I simply don't get. If I'm able to go to a store and buy a pack of boxers for myself, why is it not okay for a man to do the same with lingerie? Sometimes I feel sorry for men who feel they have to be all butch in order to be a man.


When you're buying boxers for yourself you're not revealing your nasty tastes in men's undergarments to a whole bunch of men around you. It can be quite easy for a man to feel like a perv in a lingerie shop.

Off the top of my head I can't think of an equivalent situation with the roles reversed.


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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/2/2013 7:21:54 AM   
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No, no, I was meaning seeing the straight guys in there with their wives or girlfriends. Lol

The same logic applies. Do women freak out or squirm in car dealerships, hunting gear stores or other male-dominated places?


Actually many women have difficulties dealing with mechanics. And car salesmen. Mechanics are well known to lie to women about what's needed and car salesmen frequently tell us to come back with our husband/father. So yes, it's stressful as hell.

The stepdaughter took her car in to get a flat fixed and was told it was unsafe to drive and required $800 in repairs immediately. She drove down here where her father checked out the brakes and there was nothing wrong at all.

A friend of my daughter was told she needed a flux capacitator, the item that allowed the DeLorean in Back to the Future to fly. Luckily she recognized the reference and didn't hand over a thousand plus for nothing.

As a former used-car salesman, I'm hurt. And a little angry, too. It is true in the industry that there are salesman and mechanics who do what you say, but no more than any other business dealing with a complex product. I've had customers come in with vehicles that were unsafe for the road, but because of what their "daddy", "uncle", or "boyfriend" says, we're trying to cheat them when the mechanic says their car needs something.

Maybe twenty-thirty years ago you could get away with an under hundred dollar fix, but with all the new safety and emissions standards we HAVE to follow, what used to be accomplished with fifty bucks in parts in your driveway has become a five hundred dollar fix using a six thousand dollar scan tool. And trying to explain to someone who hasn't taken four years in college to learn how to fix cars (yes, both the wrenches in my old shop have the equivalent of Bachelor's degrees) for the tenth time gets old. That's why they'll ask for a male family member or friend, in the hopes that they might be able to understand what they're talking about.

Re: the step-daughter incident. Did she drive the car in on a flat, or was it changed? How long did she drive on the flat? Was she able to get off the road and stopped in a timely manner? How did the tire go flat? Slow leak, puncture, slash, or did she hit a curb? Steel wheels or mags? Was it a drive wheel or trail wheel? Believe it or not, all of those questions have to be answered to determine what kind of repairs might be needed to that particular wheel unit. Modern cars have umpteen safety and design features that make them highly fault-tolerant, but ultimately they're put to the test by the weakest part of the car-the nut behind the wheel.

Are there scammers out there? Sure there are, I used to play chicken with them when one of our customers took their car in to them and they called out a bullshit repair (e.g. 'flux capacitor'). Or when you have that damn 'check engine light' that keeps coming on and you get pissed that the mechanics can't find out why, not knowing that there are literally hundred of different conditions that can cause it to go on. And then we find out the reason why is they gas up with the engine running or they're using a locking gas cap that doesn't let the tank pressurize to flip the evap monitors.

I worked for that place for six years (and technically still do-I'm on disability furlough now), and we'd get people in who don't even know how to check their oil or air pressure, or even the basics of how a car engine works, yet all of a sudden they know we're "cheating" them when we call out a repair that costs a couple hundred or thousand dollars. You want a simple example? Brakes. Right off the top of my head, the average cost of a pair of pads is around forty bucks (wholesale). Add in rotors, because usually when the pads are gone, people drive them until they've chewed those up too. Another forty-fifty bucks. Once the wheel is off and the wrench can take a look at the hub, you might need a hose kit, another forty-fifty bucks, depending on make and model.

And, depending on the state/province you're in, if that mechanic sees something that falls outside safety specs, he HAS to tell the customer about it and the need to fix it. You have a bad hub and bearing on a front-driver, it can actually make the car uncontrollable in certain conditions. Has to be replaced. That's another fifty to two hundred, and we can't use one off a wreck, either. Oh, and for the above numbers, multiply by two. In NYS, we can't fix just one brake assembly. Unsafe. A bad wheel assembly (hub, bearing, pintle, and ass't hardware) on one side means the other one is probably going to go next, and it's actually cheaper in the long run to do both. That's how a 'fifty dollar brake job' becomes a five to eight hundred dollar repair.

ETA: Oh, and don't forget the fact that we have to apply at least a 20% markup on the parts so we can get paid and keep the lights and phone on. And labor. Most labor runs (depending on type, make, and model) anywhere from 85 to 140 dollars per hour. And is the mechanic working flat rate or by the job? That can add or subtract from the bills as well. And then we have to figure in taxes, disposal fees, other little odds and ends that end up in the costs of doing business. There are some makes that require us to take them to a franchised dealer to finish a repair and reset things in their systems. Fuel, oil, fluids, etc. are another thing that adds up. Drop your car off with an empty tank? We have to fill it up for a road test-at five bucks a gallon no matter what the spot price is, because either me, the lot man, or the mechanic has to take time out to do that.

That was just ONE type of car repair, albeit the most common one. And it pisses people off that it's never covered under warranty (on a used car anyway), so all of a sudden we're the bad guys because the driver didn't take proper care of their expensive item. And they lie...oh, how they lie...when you ask them how they drive their cars (we need to know this). "Did you hit something?" isn't a dig at women and how they drive, it's needed to determine how to write up the order so the mechanic knows what to look for. When I go out and ask this, and can see the dented wheel and cracked or missing cover, and they say "No, it just started up all by itself," I get more than little pissed.

In short, yes, there are scammers in the biz. Same as any other industry. But don't lump us all in with them. You want to save some money and not get burned? Learn about your car, after your house it's the biggest expense most people have. There are classes through AAA, community schools. I'd like to say online, but most of the shit you see there is just that. It's like this place, only with cars instead of whips & chains. You want a cheap and easy start? Read the owner's manual. It's in there for a reason, and a lot of grief on both sides of the counter can be avoided by doing that. If it doesn't answer the question, get a repair manual. At the very last, go online to the manufacturer's websites or reputable sites like Haynes or AllData.

Okay, I'm done hyperventilating. Weren't we talking about men buying lingerie or something like that?

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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/2/2013 7:40:09 AM   
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Well, I can sort of understand how guys feel when being dragged into lingerie shops with GF and her friends....I used to be REALLY uncomfortable being dragged into comic book stores when we first were dating (oh god, if I see another effing super hero I'm going to PUNCH someone)...until I started collecting them Myself...and then he and his buddies got Me into the damn Magic The Gathering card game...dammit, gotta have the more powerful card...the coolest dice...48 sided, or awwwww, look, itty bitty dice! Mega Black deck that beats and emasculates all his friends, HELL YEAH!
After I got more involved, I was more at home in those type stores GET OUTA MY WAY NERD OR I WILL BREAK. YOUR. ARMS...THAT PEWTER KNIGHT FIGURINE ON HORSEBACK IS MMMMMMINE!!!!!

Where was I? Oh yeah...I think if you are uncomfortable somewhere you've been dragged, the best way to cope is become more INVOLVED. "If you can't BEAT 'em, JOIN 'em" applies here. So either start wearing lingerie yourself, or at least try to think up sexy outfits for your gal to wear.

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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/2/2013 7:55:42 AM   
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Where was I? Oh yeah...I think if you are uncomfortable somewhere you've been dragged, the best way to cope is become more INVOLVED. "If you can't BEAT 'em, JOIN 'em" applies here. So either start wearing lingerie yourself, or at least try to think up sexy outfits for your gal to wear.


You owe me fifty bucks for that mental image I now can't get out of my head. And it ain't pretty, either...


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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/2/2013 10:34:06 AM   
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Re: the step-daughter incident. Did she drive the car in on a flat, or was it changed?




She came out of work to discover she had a flat. She changed it and drove to a tire place nearby to get it plugged. They didn't tell her the sidewalls were bad. They claimed she had zero brake fluid and required all new brake lines. She took the car back in the same condition it was in, checked the brake fluid which was full and discovered that she had full stopping ability.

So she drove here, about an hour, and The Man pulled the wheel, checked the brakes, which he had done about six months ago btw. There was nothing wrong. No low fluid, no leaks, nothing. They saw a young girl who apparently didn't know anything and tried to scam her.

The Man's done all kinds of work on our cars. Everything except transmissions. Those he can change, but not rebuild. He took apart the front end of my VW Passat 4 Motion which according to the dealer he shouldn't have been able to do. Changed the timing belt, water pump, radiator and anything else that needed changing while he had it apart. That was 70,000 miles ago.

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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/2/2013 11:24:28 AM   
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Re: the step-daughter incident. Did she drive the car in on a flat, or was it changed?




She came out of work to discover she had a flat. She changed it and drove to a tire place nearby to get it plugged. They didn't tell her the sidewalls were bad. They claimed she had zero brake fluid and required all new brake lines. She took the car back in the same condition it was in, checked the brake fluid which was full and discovered that she had full stopping ability.

So she drove here, about an hour, and The Man pulled the wheel, checked the brakes, which he had done about six months ago btw. There was nothing wrong. No low fluid, no leaks, nothing. They saw a young girl who apparently didn't know anything and tried to scam her.

The Man's done all kinds of work on our cars. Everything except transmissions. Those he can change, but not rebuild. He took apart the front end of my VW Passat 4 Motion which according to the dealer he shouldn't have been able to do. Changed the timing belt, water pump, radiator and anything else that needed changing while he had it apart. That was 70,000 miles ago.


Yeah, unfortunately that is a common scam out there, I will admit. And every state AG has a full case load of them, too. The problem they cause is once someone gets burnt, every dealership and service facility is viewed with suspicion, and while an educated consumer is a smart one, they can sometimes be a pain in the ass.

It's especially true when we have a customer that's insistent that the problem is X when in reality it's Y, but no amount of explaining gets through to them, so they go off to either another place that does what they want and not solve the problem, or they go to the newspaper or TV station that advertises some kind of "action" program. Or worse, they call up a cheap lawyer and really make the problem worse.

And it's okay for regular people to be able to do major work on their cars, providing they have the right tools, equipment, and training. The problem is when someone "thinks" he knows what the problem is and tears the car apart and ends up creating three or four "new" problems trying to fix the original one. More than once I've seen cars come in on a hook after a customer chose to have their cousin or neighbor try to fix something they didn't want to pay us for. And get bent out of shape because they (usually) voided the warranty and have to pay for ALL the repairs.

Stuff like brakes, pumps, motors, and stuff like that are perfectly okay for the average DIY'er, but damn few have the means and equipment to tackle the electronics and drivelines on cars made in the last decade or so. The software needed to do proper diagnostics is proprietary and the open-source stuff out there is suspect, to say the least. Again, more than once we've had cars come in dead because someone diddled with something they shouldn't have touched. If we screw up (and believe me, we do), it's on our dime to fix it. We had a kid try to re-chip his car (Hyundai Tiburon) so it'd be a crazy street racer, and ended up toasting the engine and tranny in the process.

To find a decent place, use one of those review sites out there, or hit the BBB. Once you find a shop, stick with it, develop a rapport with the owner and staff and you won't get burnt. The ones who seem to have the bad experiences are what we call 'shoppers', who call us up and want to-the-penny estimates on vehicles and problems we haven't even physically looked at. They get mad when I can't answer their question honestly over the phone. We have to physically lay hands on the car before we can give a diagnosis. They then hang up and go with a place that tells them what they want to hear.

Or, they hit the places with the stupidly low prices offered for service and don't bother to read the fine print and get tweaked when they "find" something not listed with the "sale". Again, this happens all the time in the biz, and there's really not much that can be done about it. And I could talk for hours about people coming in with counterfeit parts, non-existent services, faked labor, the list goes on.

I am now officially descending from my soapbox on this subject. Resume talking about lingerie or something.

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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/2/2013 1:19:58 PM   
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Okay, back to men buying lingerie for themselves. I recommend not asking an 18 year old working at VS but a middle aged woman in a department store. They'll be more experienced in fitting you, and won't roll their eyes or snigger with coworkers. They're just kinder. Once you've been fitted, you can go in anywhere and ask for a size whatever in the red without any one noticing you. Cause lots of guys do buy lingerie for females.

Oh, and my son's girlfriend works at VS. Apparently right after Valentine's Day people bring back lingerie which they used for a fun night and get their money back. They put the dirty panties right back on the shelf. They aren't allowed to refuse it or charge a restocking fee to cover washing and then mark it down. Now that's disgusting.

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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/2/2013 3:07:16 PM   
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Oh, and my son's girlfriend works at VS. Apparently right after Valentine's Day people bring back lingerie which they used for a fun night and get their money back. They put the dirty panties right back on the shelf. They aren't allowed to refuse it or charge a restocking fee to cover washing and then mark it down. Now that's disgusting.


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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/2/2013 3:42:40 PM   
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I prefer to go to department stores than smaller lingerie stores for my stuff, seem to get less attention. I also enjoy going shopping with my wife, I like to encourage her to buy pretty things and also have a look for myself.

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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/2/2013 3:42:51 PM   
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Okay, back to men buying lingerie for themselves. I recommend not asking an 18 year old working at VS but a middle aged woman in a department store. They'll be more experienced in fitting you, and won't roll their eyes or snigger with coworkers. They're just kinder. Once you've been fitted, you can go in anywhere and ask for a size whatever in the red without any one noticing you. Cause lots of guys do buy lingerie for females.

Oh, and my son's girlfriend works at VS. Apparently right after Valentine's Day people bring back lingerie which they used for a fun night and get their money back. They put the dirty panties right back on the shelf. They aren't allowed to refuse it or charge a restocking fee to cover washing and then mark it down. Now that's disgusting.


Any time I buy panties it's final sale. Even at the upscale stores. I can't remember if bras fall under that, but definitely panties.

I wash everything I buy before wearing it. When I worked retail, we caught a guy trying on pants without underwear (my sales staff found out when passing him a different size, and he opened the door). I sent those pants out as damaged, with a note on them as to why. Later, when I worked at our damaged store, I had a lady come up to the counter asking what was wrong with the pants, and my note was still attached to it! I explained it to her, and she laughed and bought them anyways. But there was no way I was putting those back on my normal rack for some unsuspecting patron. Ewww.

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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/2/2013 11:39:56 PM   
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Oh, and my son's girlfriend works at VS. Apparently right after Valentine's Day people bring back lingerie which they used for a fun night and get their money back. They put the dirty panties right back on the shelf. They aren't allowed to refuse it or charge a restocking fee to cover washing and then mark it down. Now that's disgusting.

I'm fairly certain there are quite a few guys out there who would actually pay a premium for something like that.

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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/3/2013 2:26:45 PM   
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So what are your confessions, men? Do you do it? Do you tell them it's for you?

Not exactly but I'll offer this up for the shy guys.

I've been buying Carol's lingerie for a long time... all her clothes actually. I get weirder looks buying her a blouse in Gap than I do panties in Victoria's Secret. People EXPECT guys to be buying lingerie for women. There's no need to tell them it's for yourself. If you want to go shopping, just go. Walk right in and ask to speak to a salesperson like you own the place.

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I know that you were asking something different, I just think its funny to watch straight men squirm.

ROFL, you should SEE what the straight female sales women do when I go into buy stuff for Carol (regular stuff not lingerie). I plop her down in a chair. I grab a salesperson and we wander around the store scooping up an armload of crap (Carol HATES trying stuff on so I try to get it over with quickly). Then we head back and I tell her what to try on with what. She comes out after every combination and I say "We'll take it" or not.

Man... the look on some of their faces is simply priceless. You'd think I was making her drink from a dog food bowl.

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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/3/2013 7:55:22 PM   
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I once went into a Victoria's Secret and attempted to return a FORD 150 because it no longer fit my robust and rather intriguing frame. Other than that, I haven't been to a VS since I decided to quit masturbating publicly in obscure, out of the way's Denny's and truck stops.


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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/5/2013 9:11:05 PM   
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I have caught a few and it's akways a riot...

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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/5/2013 9:45:10 PM   
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ROFL, you should SEE what the straight female sales women do when I go into buy stuff for Carol (regular stuff not lingerie). I plop her down in a chair. I grab a salesperson and we wander around the store scooping up an armload of crap (Carol HATES trying stuff on so I try to get it over with quickly). Then we head back and I tell her what to try on with what. She comes out after every combination and I say "We'll take it" or not.

Man... the look on some of their faces is simply priceless. You'd think I was making her drink from a dog food bowl.


Personally I'd rather drink out of a dog bowl than try on clothing.
He does the same thing except anything I don't like the feel of doesn't make it out for him to see.

The only stores I enjoy are bookstores.

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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/5/2013 9:57:35 PM   
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Man... the look on some of their faces is simply priceless. You'd think I was making her drink from a dog food bowl.

That is so bizarre!

I have a personal shopper at Nordstrom. I set up an appointment and when I arrive she has a dressing room full of clothes for me. The times I've brought the Mister, she's been happy to see him, and together they plot out what I'll try on. A few times when I've gone without him, I've told her what he wants me to get (plaid short skirt, white pants, etc.) and she pulls out selections for me to try, plus other things she thinks he might like to see me in.

He's gone with me to other stores, too, and we've had similar experiences. It's never been awkward at all, actually, quite the opposite.

Maybe try different stores?

At both VS and Fredricks, they let him into the dressing room with me, if there aren't other ladies in there. Problem is, VS never has stuff that fits my top half, so I've ended up frustrated. We hardly go there anymore.

We went to one store that had a large selection of corsets. He and the saleswoman spent a couple of hours bringing selections for me to try on, until he picked out the pink one in my former avatar pic. We've never had any strange reactions when he's picked out my clothes.


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RE: Men shopping for lingerie / panties - 8/5/2013 11:57:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida
That is so bizarre!

Not really were you to see it. I have to admit that I'm seldom in much of a mood to cater to some 20 something's sensibilities and because Carol hates clothes shopping so much I'm in "get it done" mode. So I'm directing her pretty openly and thoroughly and curtly. It is abundantly clear that "we" are not shopping for clothes, I am... and I'm not even asking her opinion on them. To be fair, it's never gotten farther than "looks". But it's not too hard to see what's going on in their heads. It's the closest I come in the vanilla world to getting a reaction. I'm sure if I adjusted my demeanor a bit that reaction would go away.

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