I think that someone mentioning how they would want people to respond doesn't make them rude or insulting. Someone posts, then they request exactly what they want. Of course, not everyones going to listen or respond in the way requested - posts evolve and move off topic all the time - but the OP can just run past those and concentrate on what was required. That's my thought anyway. As for real BDSM? Bondage/Discipline/Sadism/Masochism - yup and slip in the old D/s if you want. That's all it is. If the masturbation involves binding your own ankles together before you jack yourself off - to me, thats BDSM. Masturbation on its own is masturbation. If the sex includes getting off on the pain inflicted on the simple swipes of a cane - to me, thats BDSM. Sex on its own is just sex. Wearing a choker doesn't make it BDSM, unless your wearing it to feel and experience the choke. Wearing a collar doesn't make it BDSM - just like wearing a ring doesn't make it marriage. BDSM isn't a lifestyle or a community or anything else. Its an acronym. And if any of those words aren't in that acronym, it isnt BDSM. Plain and simple. Peace and Rapture edit* - and for the record - I think zenos posts rock, )and I am so not a masochist, before I get that thrown at me.) He's obviously having an effect - Ya gotta love that power Zeno
< Message edited by darkinshadows -- 6/29/2006 5:31:09 AM >
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